One of the first things we did together as a people wasn’t march, organize, or strategize. We sang. Standing at the edge of the sea, fresh from fear, not yet healed, still unsure where we were going the Jewish people lifted their voices in song. But the Torah leaves us with a mystery: how did three million people sing one song together? Was it led by Moses? Echoed by the people? Or did each person discover the song within themselves?

In this class, Rabbi Bernath explores an ancient debate that turns out to be a timeless conversation about leadership, growth, and personal responsibility. Is a leader meant to be followed, echoed, or outgrown? And what does it mean to stop repeating someone else’s song and finally sing your own?

Key Points

The Song at the Sea as the birth moment of the Jewish voice.

Three models of leadership hidden in one ancient song

The difference between submission, discipleship, and empowerment.

Why real transformation doesn’t come from echoing, but from ownership.

What it means to be given a match, not a melody.

Takeaways

True leadership doesn’t create followers, it awakens leaders.

Unity isn’t sameness; it’s shared purpose with individual voice.

You don’t need permission to sing what’s already inside you.

The most enduring influence is what continues after the leader steps back.

Your voice matters, not later, not someday, but now.

#Jewish #Judaism #Bible #Torah #chabad #Rebbe #YudShevat #SongAtTheSea #Leadership #FindingYourVoice #ShiratHayam #personalgrowth #JewishWisdom #ParshatBeshalach #Beshalach#InnerFreedom #EmpoweredLiving #SingYourSong #RabbiBernath

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In Parshat Bo, G-d tells Moses something unexpected: “Come to Pharaoh.” Not go… but come.

In this episode Rabbi Yisroel Bernath explores a profound teaching from the Zohar and Chassidic thought: when we face a “Pharaoh” in our lives… fear, resistance, heartbreak, failure, or a person who seems to block our freedom… we are never sent alone. G-d says: Come with Me.

Even more startling, G-d adds: “Because I hardened his heart.” The resistance itself is Divine. Not to stop redemption, but to reveal it.

Through Torah, Kabbalah, psychology, and powerful stories (including the donkey in the pit and a letter from the Rebbe), this class reframes life’s hardships as portals, not barriers. What feels like opposition is often the very force meant to uncover our deepest strength, courage, and soul-power.

This is a class about fear, faith, resilience and discovering that the path forward is often a winding one, but it always leads upward.

Key Takeaways

You never face adversity alone. “Come to Pharaoh” means G-d walks with you into your hardest moments.

Resistance is not random. Some of the strongest opposition in life is part of the redemption process itself.

Pharaoh is not in control. What looks overwhelming is often a tool, not a tyrant.

Obstacles are portals. Life’s blockages are invitations to excavate hidden strength.

Growth is uncomfortable by design. Muscle only grows by tearing and so does the soul.

The dirt can bury you or elevate you. Shake it off. Step up. Rise.

Your hardest challenges may reveal your greatest light. You discover who you truly are not when life is easy, but when it demands more of you.

#Judaism #chabad #Kabbalah #ParshatBo #Torah #TorahPortion #TorahLessons#ComeToPharaoh #NotAlone #FaithOverFear #KabbalahForLife #SpiritualResilience #PortalsNotBarriers #InnerFreedom #DivinePlan #SoulStrength #JewishWisdom #TheZigZagPath #Redemption #chassidus #RabbiBernath #lubavitch #Rebbe

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One of the most surprising details in the Exodus story is that Moses, the redeemer of Israel, did not grow up as a slave, but in Pharaoh’s palace.

In this morning’s Kabbalah class, Rabbi Yisroel Bernath explores why Divine Providence chose such an unlikely path for Israel’s future leader and what it reveals about the nature of freedom.

Drawing on Chassidic insights into the word sivlot“ burdens” that also mean tolerance, this class reframes redemption as a psychological and spiritual awakening. True liberation begins not when suffering becomes unbearable, but when we refuse to accept it as normal.

Through the lens of Moses’ outsider perspective, the Israelites’ cry in Egypt, and our ongoing experience of personal and collective exile, the class challenges us to examine what we’ve learned to tolerate in our own lives. With warmth, depth, and practical reflection, this session invites participants to rediscover holy dissatisfaction, reclaim dignity, and begin their own daily Exodus from narrowness to possibility.

Key Takeaways

Redemption begins internally: Before freedom can happen externally, we must stop tolerating what diminishes us.

Tolerance is not always a virtue: Sometimes patience becomes a prison that keeps us stuck in unhealthy patterns.

Moses could lead because he never internalized slavery: Growing up in Pharaoh’s palace gave him the clarity and courage to challenge injustice.

The cry matters: Change begins when we allow ourselves to feel the pain we’ve been numbing and cry out honestly.

Exile becomes dangerous when it feels normal: Personally and collectively, redemption starts when we remember that brokenness is not the natural state.

Standards shape destiny: What we accept defines what we become, raising our inner standards opens the door to transformation.

Every day is an Exodus: Leaving Egypt isn’t a one-time event; it’s a daily practice of refusing limitation and choosing growth.

#Jewish #Kabbalah #Torah #Exodus #TorahPortion #Bible #BibleStudy #Moses #moshe #ParshatVaera #SlaveMentality #Mitzrayim #Tolerance #freedom #PersonalRedemption #chassidus #SlaveMentality #innerExile #EmotionalHealing #spiritualgrowth #Moshiach #Geulah #humandignity #BreakingPatterns

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Got your own question for Rabbi Bernath? He can be reached at rabbi@jewishndg.com or http://www.theloverabbi.com

Single? You can make a profile on www.JMontreal.com and Rabbi Bernath will help you find that special someone.

Donate and support Rabbi Bernath’s work http://www.jewishndg.com/donate

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