• New Year, Same Us
    Jan 1 2026

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    Happy New Year! Congratulations! We survived 2025. This week we are talking about resolutions, our weekly crash-outs, and things we want to leave in the old year.

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    💜 Didi Hirsch Mental Health Services
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    38 mins
  • Holiday Charcoochie: A Smorgasbord of Topics
    Dec 25 2025

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    Happy holidays! This week in our most unhinged episode yet we're talking about the holidays, how grief shows up uninvited, and ruining Santa Claus for all the kids. Let's survive the holidays together.

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    32 mins
  • Anger - Need We Say More?
    Dec 18 2025

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    Grief doesn’t just make you sad, it makes you angry. In this episode about grief, rage, and LA traffic pushing us to the edge, we talk about walking through anger, because, let’s be honest, it’s easy to stay angry forever. We’re all just out here trying our best.

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    💜 Didi Hirsch Mental Health Services
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    🌈 The Trevor Project
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    35 mins
  • Fears We Don’t Admit Out Loud (Plus All the Tangents)
    Dec 11 2025

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    In this episode we get into the fears we don’t admit out loud, the ones that show up during big life shifts, and lots of tangents because it's what we do best.

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    💜 Didi Hirsch Mental Health Services
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    🌈 The Trevor Project
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    29 mins
  • Purpose Before & After Loss
    Dec 4 2025

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    In this week’s episode, we’re getting honest about purpose how it changes, collapses, rebuilds, and feels sometimes foreign after loss. We talk about the pressure to “find your why,” the unexpected ways grief reroutes our paths, and what it looks like to create meaning after life breaks your blueprint. From career pivots to identity shifts to the quiet moments of clarity, we unpack how purpose evolves when loss becomes part of your story.

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    💜 Didi Hirsch Mental Health Services
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    36 mins
  • Dating & Love After Loss
    Nov 27 2025

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    We’re talking about dating after loss, the good, the weird, the unexpectedly emotional. From first dates to ick's, to the inner dialogues no one talks about. We unpack our own experiences and the lessons that helped us move forward. Whether you’re in it now or still thinking about taking that first step, or you're just trying to date in 2025 we're right there with you!

    P.S. We'd love to hear what gives you the ick so let us know & comment!

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    41 mins
  • Holidays, Anniversaries, & Trigger Days
    Nov 20 2025

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    This week, we dive into the complicated side of the holidays - the anniversaries, the trigger days, the quiet moments that catch us off guard. We get honest about what we’re afraid of and how we’re coping, (we even shed a tear or two.) If the season feels heavy for you, know we feel it too.

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    🕊️ Betty Ford Center
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    🌿 Los Angeles County Alcoholics Anonymous (LACOAA)
    — meetings and community resources across LA


    💜 Didi Hirsch Mental Health Services
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    🌈 The Trevor Project
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    41 mins
  • Is He Dead or Is It the Formaldehyde?
    Nov 13 2025

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    This week on Dead Sexy, we’re talking funerals. The weird stuff people say, the strange things bodies do... alive and not so much, and all the chaotic ways we try to support each other when life gets awkward and emotional. We unpack the chaos, the cringe, and the dark humor that shows up right when you wish it wouldn’t. It’s weird. It’s heartfelt. It’s funny in a “should we be laughing?” kind of way perfect.

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    💜 Didi Hirsch Mental Health Services
    — 24/7 crisis counseling and suicide prevention support


    🌈 The Trevor Project
    — 24/7 crisis support and counseling for LGBTQ+ youth


    Need someone right now? Text or call 988 anytime.

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    43 mins