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Dear Sugars

Dear Sugars

Written by: WBUR
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A podcast that fields all your questions and offers radical empathy in return.Copyright Trustees of Boston University Social Sciences
Episodes
  • Redux: Rapid Fire, Love & Money
    May 16 2026

    When it comes to love, money is supposed to be no object. But there’s no disentangling love from anything in our lives, and income is no exception. So how do you assess the role money should play in a relationship, and what happens when your desires and means change over time?

    In this episode, five letter writers want to know how to discuss money with their romantic and familial partners. How do I stop resenting my husband for his low income? How do I ask my stay-at-home wife to get a job? Should I feel obligated to share the wealth with my fiscally irresponsible parents? The Sugars answer these questions and more in rapid-fire style on today’s episode.

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    44 mins
  • Dear Sugars presents: "The Midnight Rebellion," a new adventure fiction podcast
    Apr 25 2026

    From the WBUR Podcasts team, here's a new kind of story — one that's all about choices and consequences. The Midnight Rebellion is a pick-your-own-path podcast set 100 years in the future, where the stakes are nothing less than the planet itself. It's fiction rooted in real science, built for the kids in your life (ages 7 and up) — and the whole family. Because if Dear Sugars taught us anything, it's that the choices we make shape our futures.

    This is Chapter 1 of The Midnight Rebellion. Choose wisely.

    And if you liked what you heard, listen to the rest and follow The Midnight Rebellion wherever you get your podcasts.
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    20 mins
  • Repost: Sex & Aging
    Mar 21 2026

    This episode was originally released on May 25th, 2018.

    When two women in their sixties start losing interest in sex, their sex-starved partners become increasingly frustrated. Both women blame old age for their waning libidos. But is their diminished sex drive because of age or something else?

    The erotic lives of senior citizens are typically made invisible by our culture, which can lead to confusion and misinformation. Dr. Pepper Schwartz, the love and relationship columnist for AARP, joins the Sugars to dispel certain myths about sex and aging: Do libidos change after menopause? How does the aging body affect the way we feel about sex? Should medical interventions be considered for a declining sex drive?

    Dr. Schwartz is a professor of sociology at the University of Washington and has written more than 25 books on love and sexuality. She’s also an on-air expert for Lifetime TV’s “Married at First Sight.”

    The Sugars Recommend “Our Souls at Night,” by Kent Haruf

    “Scary Old Sex,” by Arlene Heyman

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    37 mins
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