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Decode Him: Real Talk, Real Love

Decode Him: Real Talk, Real Love

Written by: Erica Bell
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Welcome to Decode Him: Real Talk, Real Love — the podcast where we unpack the male mindset and break down modern dating, one honest conversation at a time.


This isn’t surface-level advice or recycled dating rules. Decode Him blends real-life experiences, psychological insight, and candid discussion to help you understand men, relationships, and the patterns that keep repeating.


Hosted by Erica Bell, alongside Dr. Lee and Renee, each episode brings bold honesty, humor, and grounded perspective to the dating dilemmas everyone faces — from mixed signals and emotional unavailability to commitment, communication, and connection.


Whether you’re deep in the dating scene or trying to make sense of past relationships, Decode Him offers clarity without judgment, truth without sugarcoating, and conversations that actually help.


Join us as we dissect, discuss, and decode — making love less confusing and a lot more real.

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Episodes
  • If You’re Confused, That’s the Answer

    If You’re Confused, That’s the Answer
    Dec 25 2025

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    Confusion in dating and relationships is often mistaken for chemistry. In this episode, we explore what confusion usually means, how mixed signals affect emotional clarity, and why trust, safety, and intention don’t leave you guessing.

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    18 mins
  • Why Bad Boys Feel So Addictive?

    Why Bad Boys Feel So Addictive?
    Dec 17 2025

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    Ever wonder why the allure of the “bad boy” feels so magnetic — even when logic says run?

    In this episode, Dr. Lee, Renee, and Erica Bell decode the psychology behind this addictive attraction. We break down the emotional cravings, nervous system patterns, and zodiac excuses that keep people hooked on men who bring intensity instead of consistency.

    We talk about:

    • Why chaos gets mistaken for chemistry
    • How emotional unavailability triggers attachment
    • The difference between attraction and addiction
    • And why astrology explains patterns — but never excuses behavior

    This is your reality check.
    Accountability over fantasy.
    Clarity that finally snaps the bad boy spell.

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    13 mins
  • He Pulled Away? GOOD. Here’s Why You Should Let Him Go (And Level Up)

    He Pulled Away? GOOD. Here’s Why You Should Let Him Go (And Level Up)
    Apr 27 2025

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    Tired of the endless chase? "He Pulled Away? GOOD. Here's Why You Should Let Him Go (And Level Up)" is your go-to podcast for decoding male behavior and mastering the art of attraction. Join us as we dive deep into the fascinating world of relationship dynamics, exploring why chasing that elusive guy might be doing more harm than good. We'll show you how to flip the script, reclaim your power, and become the irresistible force that naturally draws him in.

    Each episode is packed with eye-opening insights, practical tips, and real-life stories that will transform your approach to dating and relationships. From understanding why men pull away to learning how to cultivate genuine attraction, we've got you covered. Ready to level up your love life and become the best version of yourself? Hit that subscribe button, share with your friends, and follow us on social media for exclusive content and updates. It's time to stop chasing and start thriving!

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    5 mins
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