Ever wondered what really goes through a dancer's mind when you visit a gentleman's club? This eye-opening episode takes you behind the velvet curtain for some hard truths about proper strip club etiquette from someone who's lived it.

"I'm totally me this year. I don't really care whose feelings I hurt," our host declares before diving into the unspoken rules every club patron should know. Drawing from years of experience in the industry, she breaks down the fundamental do's and don'ts that many customers get wrong – from showing up with insufficient funds to violating personal boundaries without consent.

The conversation tackles uncomfortable truths about hygiene considerations ("Imagine if I do 40 dances and all 40 guys lick me"), respect for personal space ("Don't touch our hair"), and the importance of clear communication before spending money on private dances. With refreshing honesty, our host reminds listeners that dancers are human beings deserving of respect: "We're someone's mother, someone's sister, someone's daughter... we have to go home and feel okay when we go home."

Whether you're a club regular or someone who's never stepped foot in a gentleman's establishment, this straight-talking guide provides valuable perspective on respectful behavior in adult entertainment spaces. If you've ever been unsure about proper etiquette or wondered about the boundaries that should never be crossed, this episode offers the unfiltered guidance you need. Share your thoughts in the comments, and don't forget to subscribe for more candid conversations that dive deep into topics others shy away from.

Navigating the treacherous waters of co-parenting after a relationship ends is rarely the picture-perfect scenario many hope for. In this raw, unfiltered exploration, we dive deep into why co-parenting arrangements so often fall apart and what truly matters for the children caught in the middle.

At the heart of most co-parenting failures lies inconsistency. When one parent shows up only when convenient, sends money sporadically, or remains disconnected from their child's daily life, they're not truly co-parenting—they're creating instability. I share my personal experience as a mother of eight with four different co-parenting relationships, alongside insights from single fathers including my brother who raised his daughter alone. The perspective from both sides reveals a common truth: children need reliability more than they need gifts or occasional appearances.

The emotional landscape after a breakup creates additional complexity. Jealousy over new relationships, attempts to control the primary parent, and bringing personal grievances into parenting discussions all poison what should be a child-centered arrangement. As I explain through both research and real-life experience, children ultimately sense the imbalance—they know which parent consistently shows up and which one doesn't. This awareness shapes their understanding of relationships and what they should expect from others.

Perhaps most compelling is the research suggesting children fare better with one consistent, loving parent than with an unpredictable second parent who appears randomly in their lives. This challenges common assumptions and forces us to ask: when does maintaining a difficult co-parenting relationship cause more harm than good? Whether you're currently co-parenting, contemplating separation, or supporting someone who is, this conversation offers honest guidance for putting children's wellbeing first when navigating divided parenting relationships.

What co-parenting challenges have you faced? Share your experiences in the comments, and if you've found strategies that work, your insights might help others in similar situations. Subscribe to catch our related series "Karma Chronicles" where we explore the long-term consequences of relationship choices.

The world seems to be spinning faster than ever, with breaking news hitting us from every angle. This raw, unfiltered deep dive examines the most pressing issues currently shaping our lives—from resurging diseases to bizarre transportation accidents and everything in between.

Health crises are back with alarming force. Measles has returned, claiming its first death in decades in Texas, while a particularly brutal strain of flu has been sending people to their beds for weeks. My own battle with this season's flu left me dizzy and debilitated for nearly a month, providing a firsthand glimpse into the severity of what's circulating. Meanwhile, tuberculosis outbreaks in Kansas City raise questions about transmission and whether masks might make a comeback. Are these resurgences related to changing vaccination patterns or immigration? The questions deserve serious consideration without quick judgment.

Transportation safety concerns have reached new heights as planes seemingly fall from the sky with unusual frequency. The FedEx aircraft that caught fire supposedly after hitting a bird brings up questions about radar systems and safety protocols. When Elon Musk suggests these crashes might be related to Verizon's network issues—conveniently positioning his Starlink as the solution—we must ask whether corporate interests are clouding the conversation around public safety. Similarly, global emergencies like Chile's massive power outage affecting 19 million people and Brazil's deadly combination of record heat with water restrictions paint a troubling picture of our planet's stability.

Political decisions continue to transform society, with transgender rights in sports and military service being hotly debated. The criminal justice system sees potential reform through stories like Alice Marie Johnson's pardon and new role recommending further pardons. Meanwhile, conspiracy theories about political figures grow increasingly mainstream, reflecting our collective uncertainty about who and what to believe. Through it all, there's hope that this period of revelation, though overwhelming, will eventually lead us to a more honest and equitable world. Want to share your thoughts or join me as a guest? The conversation is just beginning, and your voice matters in making sense of these extraordinary times.

Is Valentine's Day just a celebration of love, or has it become a commercialized spectacle? We unpack the intricate layers of this holiday by exploring its roots from the fifth-century honoring St. Valentine to its transformation into a day filled with gifts, social media pressures, and expectations. As we navigate through the complexities, we challenge the traditional narratives, questioning the societal pressures placed on women and the financial burdens on parents. Our conversation exposes the often-unseen emotional toll on individuals who compare themselves to the seemingly perfect relationships flaunted online, urging everyone to seek genuine contentment beyond the curated social media images.

The conversation takes an enlightening journey into cultural identities, unearthing the historical evolution of Valentine's Day and comparing it to other holidays like Detroit's Sweetest Day. We also broaden the scope to examine the broader pressures of holiday gift-giving, considering its impact on families and the authenticity of our celebrations. By questioning the relevance of these traditions, we invite listeners to reconsider the true meaning behind the holidays we celebrate. Engage with us as we challenge conventional perspectives and encourage a collective reevaluation of the traditions we hold dear.

What if society's approach to punishment and justice is fundamentally flawed? "Deep for the Week" challenges this notion as we explore the stark decision by Idaho to bring back the firing squad, shedding light on the ethical quagmire surrounding execution methods. We then shift to California, where wildfires have ravaged communities, sparking not just flames but conspiracy theories and legal battles as the NAACP squares off against California Edison. The episode unpacks the human and social costs of these disasters, echoing the need for ongoing vigilance and community solidarity amid evolving threats.

Our discussion takes a turn towards the cultural and educational landscape, dissecting Trump's controversial comments about transgender educators and the implications of sidelining Black History Month. We also confront alarming aviation and train safety issues, urging our audience to remain grounded and informed. The conversation continues with a critical look at the pitfalls of oversharing on social media and the troubling ties between crime and technology. As we honor the legacy of Colonel Stewart, the last Tuskegee Airman, we reflect on the broader themes of justice, financial mismanagement, and the importance of preserving history and the lessons it imparts for future generations.

Unconventional Paths to Passion and Purpose

What if stepping into a new year meant embracing your story with authenticity and purpose? Join me as I share my personal journey—a tapestry of experiences from being a mother of eight and a teen mom to venturing from Southern California to Detroit. My diverse career paths, including teaching, entrepreneurship, and even stripping, have shaped an unconventional life that I hope can inspire you. Through my stories, I introduce you to the heart behind "Deep for the Week," where we explore multifaceted narratives and the projects fueling my current passions. From a documentary on strippers transitioning into new careers to my ventures in hair products, a cleaning business, and property rehabilitation, I invite you to connect with these tales of transformation.

Beyond the personal stories, discover the spirit of community that thrives in Club Wit—a haven for single parents seeking support, resources, and growth opportunities. Rooted in my love for exploration and change, this initiative reflects my commitment to making a difference. As we embark on this podcast journey together, I extend an open invitation to those who wish to share their voices, fostering conversations that celebrate uniqueness and authenticity. Thank you for your unwavering support; may this year be filled with love, light, and boundless creativity as you walk your path with confidence.

Embracing Change: Elevation, Self-Discovery, and Redefining Happiness

What happens when we outgrow our environments and find ourselves on the precipice of something new? On this episode of Deep for the Week, I promise to guide you through the transformative journey of elevation and self-discovery, offering insights into the mixed emotions that accompany this path. We'll explore what it means to feel disconnected from the familiar as we embrace change, highlighting the importance of stepping back from relationships and habits that no longer serve our growth. Solitude becomes our ally in this phase, allowing creativity, authenticity, and self-reliance to flourish as we discover our true selves and redefine happiness on our terms.

As we delve deeper, the episode addresses the urge to help others still entangled in the circumstances we've moved past, cautioning against the pitfalls of a savior mentality. Instead, we'll focus on embracing introspection and the personal growth that comes from self-reliance. Additionally, we ponder the intriguing notion of when the new year truly begins, setting the stage for an upcoming episode dedicated to unraveling this question. Tune in for a thought-provoking discussion that not only challenges traditional views of growth and contentment but also invites you to share your own perspectives on the journey.

Why don't relationships last like they used to? Let's journey together through the intricate landscape of modern love and relationships. Reflecting on my own experiences and the shifting societal norms, we explore whether past generations stayed together due to societal pressures and limited opportunities for women. Today's fast-paced life, coupled with the constant barrage of social media, poses new challenges for maintaining stability in relationships. Join me as we touch on the impact of these elements and invite you to share your own stories in a roundtable discussion, enriching our conversation with diverse perspectives.

Our exploration takes us deeper into the African-American community, where historical gender roles and economic independence are reshaping the way we view relationships. Has the shift from traditional roles led to new complexities? We ponder the influence of music and media that champion independence while perhaps altering romantic expectations. Additionally, we evaluate how shifts in moral landscapes and religion might play into these dynamics. Together, we question these changes and their effects on love and partnership, aiming for a conversation that highlights the pressures and joys faced by both men and women today.

As we further dissect generational dynamics, particularly for those born in the early 1980s, the conversation shifts to societal narratives that have molded our expectations of love and marriage. From the enchanting yet unrealistic ideals presented by Disney movies to the real-world implications of women's increased participation in the workforce, we dissect why some relationships thrive while others falter. I encourage all—married, single, and divorced—to offer your insights, helping us all gain a more comprehensive understanding of the evolving relationship landscape. Thank you for your continued support and engagement, and I look forward to where our journey of discovery will take us next.