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Designing The Best YOU!

Designing The Best YOU!

Written by: Vennessa McConkey FDNP FNC
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Welcome to Designing the Best YOU! Hosted by Vennessa McConkey, board-certified holistic health practitioner, functional nutritionist and autoimmune and trauma survivor, Vennessa McConkey. Vennessa focuses on holistic health - educating and empowering people to take charge of their own fatigue and pain during the in-between moments of life, while confidently owning their own health journey. It's so easy to feel like you are the only one struggling and boy, does Vennessa know! As a wife and mom of three young boys, whose body acted as if she had multiple autoimmune diseases because of the childhood trauma she endured, she knows what it is like to lose yourself and life. She is here to share how she learned to cope with the many changes disease brings and the things your doctor doesn't know or tell you! In her practice, Vennessa helps uncover the hidden stressors that are causing your body to be ill and correlates them to your life since birth. She believes in the TEST DON'T GUESS model - as so many health coaches and drs do. Each week we will be focusing on the missing piece in the healing process from chronic conditions, typically hidden stressors which includes past trauma. The mind-body connection is VERY real. We include conversations on metabolic and individualized nutrition, lifestyle, autoimmune disease, stress reduction, the power of the nervous system and more! We bring on guests who share their stories of overcoming trauma, managing their chronic conditions naturally, as well as hearing Vennessa's story and tips from top practitioners and experts in the field of holistic health. Get ready to be blown away by and start Designing the Best YOU that this world so desperately needs! https://vennessamcconkey.com/vmc Careers Economics Personal Success Self-Help Success
Episodes
  • Why 'Not the Right Fit' Is Killing Senior-Level Job Searches
    Jan 8 2026

    "You're a strong candidate, BUT you're just not the right fit."

    For senior executives, this phrase is one of the most common reasons job offers fall apart—and one of the least understood.

    In this episode, we break down what "not the right fit" actually means at leadership levels and why it has very little to do with your resume or qualifications. Senior hiring decisions are driven by trust and resonance, not credentials.

    You'll learn why highly polished, impressive candidates often lose to less-experienced ones, the difference between performance and recognition in interviews, and the three dimensions of resonance that determine who gets hired.

    If you keep making final rounds but not closing (or feel misaligned in roles that look perfect on paper) this episode will change how you approach your job search.

    What You'll Learn

    • What "fit" really means in executive hiring

    • Why being qualified isn't enough anymore

    • How resonance influences hiring decisions

    • Why trying to appeal to everyone backfires

    Resources

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    Takeaway

    Executives don't get hired by performing.
    They get hired when the right people can see themselves trusting them.

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    19 mins
  • The 3Rs of Job Searching: Why Senior Executives Aren't Getting Hired (Results, Relevance & Resonance)
    Dec 31 2025

    If you're a senior professional or executive stuck in a long, frustrating job search, this episode explains exactly why and what to do instead.

    In today's market, experience alone isn't enough. Even highly qualified leaders are getting ghosted by recruiters, losing final-round interviews, or passed over for candidates with "less impressive" resumes. The problem isn't the economy. It's that most executives are missing one (or more) of the three hiring filters that actually determine who gets hired at senior levels.

    In this episode, we break down the 3Rs of Job Searching:

    • Results: Why listing responsibilities kills your resume and how to position transformation instead
    • Relevance: How industry, stage, scale, and culture mismatches quietly eliminate candidates
    • Resonance: The hidden decision-maker behind who gets the offer (and why "fit" really matters)

    You'll learn how hiring managers actually evaluate executive candidates, why being "qualified" is no longer enough, and how to position yourself so decision-makers can clearly see you solving their problems.

    If your job search has stalled for months (or you keep making final rounds without offers) this episode will change how you approach everything.

    Episode Highlights
    • Why "great resumes" still get rejected

    • The difference between responsibilities and results

    • How relevance beats experience at senior levels

    • Why culture and leadership style matter more than you think

    • The real meaning of "not the right fit"

    • How resonance determines who gets the offer

    Ready to get unstuck?
    If your job search has stalled (or you keep making final rounds without offers), book a paid 1:1 strategy session with me.

    In this 60-minute private session, we will:

    • Diagnose exactly which of the 3Rs is breaking your search

    • Identify where you're losing relevance or resonance

    • Reposition your experience so decision-makers can clearly see your value

    • Leave you with specific actions to implement immediately

    Book your 1-hour session here: sign-up

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    23 mins
  • How to Manage the Shock of Job Loss and Get Back on Your Feet Again
    Nov 17 2025

    Losing a job can feel like the rug's been pulled out from under you.... emotionally, financially, and even in your sense of identity. But this moment doesn't have to define you. It can refine you.

    Join Vennessa McConkey and Mallory Byers, two seasoned career strategists who've helped thousands of professionals rebuild with clarity, confidence, and momentum, for a powerful conversation on how to navigate the shock of job loss and turn it into your greatest comeback story.

    In this LinkedIn Live, you'll learn:
    - What really happens in the mind and body after job loss and how to manage it with strength and self-compassion
    - The first 3 steps to rebuild your confidence and direction (without getting lost in panic or "what-ifs")
    - How to re-enter the job market with focus, energy, and a message that makes you seen by the right employers
    - Strategies to regain momentum and rebuild your professional identity, even if you're starting over

    Whether you were recently laid off, are anticipating a transition, or want to support someone who's struggling, this session will help you regain control and see what's next with purpose.

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    Follow Mallory: https://www.linkedin.com/in/coachmallorybyers/

    Follow Vennessa: https://www.linkedin.com/in/vennessa-mcconkey/

    #careercoaching #jobloss #grief #jobsearchstrategy #highperformers

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    44 mins
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