Episodes

  • Episode 7 - Emily Ladau + a "Wicked(ly Brief)” Recap
    Dec 7 2025

    FULL SHOW NOTES, COMING SOON -


    Please welcome my dear friend Emily Ladau, who honestly felt like a warm and cozy cup of activist self-care. I, who also happens to be a killer-advocate for Disability rights, as well as the author of one of my (non-biased but) absolute favorite books on the subject: "Demystifying Disability: What to Know, What to Say, and How to be an Ally."


    Our episode begins with a closer look and a bit of a story-time, of my very own "one short day" at the premiere of "Wicked: For Good".Rounding out my interview with Emily, I share my gratitude for all of you, sweet audience of ours!


    Content alert: If blubbering and happy-tears are at all a trigger to you, please keep scrolling and bless your sweet heart for getting thru today, alone! BELIEVE ME, that alone can be HEAVY some days, and big feelings are okay. Moments unacknowledged on-air:

    1. Emily, thank you for loving my nub heart and for thinking “it’s way cuter!!!”
    2. In my outro, I sadly forgot to mention and thank you to all of my OG’s & previous podcast guests, you know who you are from this podcast AND the last—you’re truly the real ones!
    3. Shout out as always to NBC Universal —
    4. All photos and images are and shall remain the property of Melanie Waldman LLC
    5. Theme song courtesy of Artlist “Who’s That” Ty simon

    To purchase Emily’s work:“Demystifying Disability” by Emily Ladau on Audible, Kindle & paperback: ⁠https://amzn.to/4pTpeiY⁠ #DisTeaPod #DisabilityReality #DisabilityRealityPodcast #DisabilityActivism #DemystifyingDisability

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    49 mins
  • L'chaiam.. Literally! A Mini-sode Miracle Mitzvah
    Sep 19 2025

    To make a generous donation in honor of my “Nub-Mitzvah-Project” 12th alive day, here are the links to the organizations that you can donate to:


    Lucky Fin Project

    https://www.paypal.com/donate?token=l_FTChWGfw3FX4_7VKLOacCDZj085DBvihrS-QiTre-15qyOnaopPFhLlzVZu7Oj9IfyH7EupTR7aRe7


    AAPD American Association for Person with disabilities

    https://secure.everyaction.com/Yc3t1__vREStfq6WbSGV5w2



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    4 mins
  • Episode 6 "Austin Halls, DISABLED" for Disability Pride Month
    Jul 25 2025

    Rounding out July 2025's Disability Pride Month with an absolute BANG is the one and only Grammy Recording Academy member (and friend of the podcast) Austin Halls.

    TRUST that this episode is nothing but the most joyous of ALL joys.

    Share in the laughter, love, and knowledge DROPPED along Austin’s incredible career journey and how both the one and only Lachi @rampd_up and even Gavin Degraw's music producer, all became involved, along the way!

    We adore you big time, king!!!


    The latest podcast episode, hosted by Melanie Rivera Waldman is out and streaming wherever you get your podcasts, NOW!


    For more on the podcast & our host:

    Host Melanie Rivera Waldman https://linktr.ee/onairmelaniewaldman


    Disability Reality Podcast Linktree

    https://linktr.ee/Disabilityrealitypod?utm_source=linktree_profile_share



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    #DisabilityPride #AustinHalls #Disabled #DisabledIcon #RAMPD #RAMPDup

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    51 mins
  • Episode 5 "Good Bad Things" with Danny Kurtzman
    Apr 17 2025

    Summary

    In this episode of the Disability Reality Podcast, host Melanie Waldman speaks with Danny Kurtzman about his feature film 'Good Bad Things.' They discuss the film's impact on the disability community, the importance of authentic representation in media, and the collaborative process of filmmaking. Danny shares his personal journey in the film industry, the significance of community support during challenging times, and the emotional aspects of processing disability grief. The conversation emphasizes the need for continued advocacy and involvement in creating more inclusive content.


    Link to donation spreadsheet of gofundme’s:

    https://docs.google.com/spreadsheets/d/1CJeOpQWsVCo6VYXAvChXVvoYzxVJiKPn3nMTCFVMUWc/edit?gid=0#gid=0



    Takeaways

    • ​Community resilience shines in times of crisis.
    • ​Authentic representation in film is crucial.
    • ​Feelings should not be dictated by society.
    • ​The journey of filmmaking is collaborative and complex.
    • ​Disability grief is a significant emotional experience.
    • ​Support from the community can drive success in film.
    • ​The importance of processing emotions related to disability.
    • ​Advocacy for more inclusive content is essential.
    • ​The film industry needs authentic voices.
    • ​Future projects will continue to push boundaries.

    Chapters


    00:00 Introduction to Good Bad Things

    03:00 Community Resilience and Support

    05:52 The Meaning Behind Good Bad Things

    08:58 Danny's Journey in Film and Acting

    11:50 The Importance of Authentic Representation

    14:52 The Collaborative Process of Filmmaking

    17:45 Impact of Good Bad Things on the Community

    21:01 Disability Grief and Processing Adversity

    24:01 Future Aspirations and Community Involvement

    27:06 Closing Thoughts and Call to Action


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    34 mins
  • Mini-sode Part 2 : EDFC LIVE "Emergency Plan"
    Apr 17 2025

    Description coming soon

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    30 mins
  • Mini-sode Part 1 : EDFC LIVE "The Invalids"
    Apr 17 2025

    Description coming soon

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    21 mins
  • EP 4 "Unholy" for Passover with Daisy Friedman
    Apr 11 2025

    SummaryIn this episode of "Disability Reality", host Melanie Waldman introduces Daisy Friedman, a young filmmaker whose short film 'Unholy' explores the intersection of disability and Jewish identity. As they discuss the film, Daisy shares her personal journey as a triple organ transplant recipient and the complexities of family dynamics surrounding her disability. The conversation delves into the themes of representation, fear, and the impact of family conversations on understanding disability, culminating in a reflection on the film's powerful narrative and its reception at the Sundance Film Festival. In this conversation, the speaker delves into the complexities of navigating anxiety, family expectations, and the representation of disability in media. They discuss the challenges of casting authentically for a film about chronic illness, the personal sacrifices made in the name of art, and the intersection of fashion and identity. The dialogue highlights the importance of addressing disability myths, the weight of representation, and the emotional maturity required to navigate these themes in both personal and public spheres.Sound Bites"I absolutely loved watching it.""That is such a niche concept.""This is my Sundance debut.""Get your grandmother out of there!"Chapters00:00Introduction to Disability Reality and Limb Difference Awareness Month02:01Introducing Daisy Friedman and Her Film Unholy04:02Daisy's Personal Journey and Family Dynamics05:50The Impact of Family Conversations on Disability07:59Exploring Themes of Fear and Representation in Unholy10:18Navigating Anxiety and Family Expectations11:33Disability Myths and Family Dynamics12:28Chronic Illness Representation in Media13:52Casting Challenges and Authenticity in Film15:11The Cost of Art and Personal Sacrifice16:35Fashion, Identity, and Public Perception18:04The Weight of Representation and LegacyLinktree to show: https://linktr.ee/DisabilityrealitypodTheme music from Artlist: Ty Simon "Who's That?"

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    22 mins
  • EP 3 "The Reality of Disability (Bravo & Reality TV) "with Jillian Curwin
    Mar 24 2025

    Summary


    In this episode of the Disability Reality Podcast, host Melanie Waldman shares her personal experiences with disability, health challenges, and the impact of reality TV on her life.


    Joined by guest Jillian (Ilana) Curwin, they discuss the representation of disability in media, particularly in reality TV--focusing in on their favorite Bravo shows--and how these portrayals affect public perception and personal experiences.


    They explore memorable moments of disability representation, the importance of community, and the evolving narrative around disability in reality television. In this conversation, the speakers delve into the complexities of disability representation in reality television, particularly focusing on the challenges faced by individuals with invisible disabilities.


    They discuss the impact of misunderstanding chronic illnesses, the importance of accurate representation, and the role of humor as a coping mechanism. The conversation also touches on accessibility in real estate, the intersection of wealth and disability, and the potential for future reality shows to include diverse representations of disability.


    Time stamps


    00:00 Introduction and Personal Updates

    01:39 The Reality of Disability and Media Representation

    02:55 Connecting Through Shared Experiences

    04:41 The Role of Reality TV in Disability Awareness

    10:53 Bravo and Its Impact on Personal Lives

    19:19 Disability Representation in Reality TV

    22:54 Memorable Moments of Disability Representation

    30:42 Understanding Invisible Disabilities

    33:31 The Impact of Misunderstanding Chronic Illness

    36:23 Top Moments of Disability Representation in Reality TV

    39:30 Humor and Disability: A Coping Mechanism

    42:17 Accessibility in Real Estate: A Case Study

    46:22 The Intersection of Wealth and Disability

    50:23 Imagining Disability in Reality Shows

    54:21 The Future of Disability Representation on Bravo


    #DisabilityRealityPodcast #DisTeaPod #DisTeaPods #disability #DEIA #Section504 #DisabilityonBroadway #DisabilityAwareness #DisabilityonBravo #DisabilityRepresentation #ProtectDEI #ProtectSection504 #SendIt

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