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Doing Me So I Don't Read You

Doing Me So I Don't Read You

Written by: Hertis & Tiffani
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Sister and Brother conversations about what's going on in the world and our different interests in sports and makeup.

Hertis & Tiffani
Social Sciences
Episodes
  • How Shedding Light on Racism and Resistance Awakens Collective Power
    Jul 15 2026

    Most people underestimate the power of small, everyday decisions — but in this episode, Hertis and Tiffi Tool Time reveal how tiny changes can dramatically shift your life’s course. Whether it's navigating travel mishaps, managing drinking experiences, or handling racially charged encounters, you'll discover the subtle yet impactful moves that turn adversity into opportunity.

    This episode dives into hilarious travel stories from New York, where superficial explorations are replaced by clear priorities, like avoiding overpriced drinks or funny encounters at gay bars. Hertis shares his surprising experience with watered-down liquor and how to spot the fake stuff—crucial knowledge for anyone who’s ever felt duped by establishments. Tiffi breaks down the provocative responses to racial tensions, highlighting how persistent bigotry still manifests in everyday life, from monkey sounds to police encounters, and the empowering ways individuals are standing their ground.

    You'll also explore the ongoing battle for LGBTQ+ rights amid a shifting societal landscape. Hertis and Tiffi discuss whether fighting back is inevitable or if future loopholes and increased visibility will naturally propel us toward equality. The conversation addresses recent sports controversies, including the protective response around female athletes like Caitlin Clark, revealing the deeply rooted racial and gender biases within modern sports. Plus, get insight into the secret talents of Blue Ivy, the future of the new Spider-Man universe, and the cultural significance of celebrity moments in Atlanta.

    Why this matters: Ignorance and prejudice threaten progress—yet awareness and strategy are your best weapons. Whether you’re fighting discrimination, navigating social pitfalls, or just want to stay woke about current events and pop culture, this episode equips you with sharpened insight, resilience, and humor to face today’s challenges head-on.

    Perfect for anyone tired of feeling powerless in the face of hate or injustice, this episode provides real stories with real lessons—proving that even small, deliberate actions can create ripple effects of change. Tune in to stay informed, inspired, and ready to turn life's chaos into your greatest advantage.

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    30 mins
  • The Surprising Power of Authenticity: Why Embracing Your True Self Wins Support
    Jun 10 2026

    Most people think comedy is just about telling jokes — but for Tiffi Tool Time, it’s a powerful tool to challenge stereotypes and build confidence. When he took the stage at a local comedy contest, he didn’t just aim for laughs; he aimed to break barriers about sexuality, identity, and authenticity. Despite facing judgmental stereotypes about being a gay comedian, Tiffi set proved critics wrong, earning him passionate praise from the crowd and victory in the competition.

    In this episode, Tiffi shares how embracing his truth on stage transforms perceptions and opens doors—whether competing, performing, or just being himself. You’ll discover: the real story behind the comedy contest and why uniqueness wins; how humor can disarm prejudice and spark real conversations; and the mindset that keeps him pushing forward despite societal stereotypes. Plus, insights on navigating the entertainment world as a gay comedian, and how family, community, and authenticity fuel his growth.

    We also dive into the importance of representation and the impact of owning your narrative as a marginalized creator. Whether you’re a creative, an aspiring performer, or someone who needs a boost of courage to live boldly, this episode lights a fire to embrace your full self—because the world needs your voice, your laughter, and your truth now more than ever.

    Perfect for anyone feeling overlooked or underestimated because of who they are. If you believe humor can be a gateway to change, you’ll walk away inspired, better equipped, and ready to step into your power—just like Tiffi. Tune in to discover how standing out with authenticity can make you unstoppable. And stay tuned for more stories that challenge, entertain, and transform.

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    19 mins
  • The Surprising Power of Authenticity in Comedy and How It Can Break Barriers
    May 20 2026

    In this episode, you'll get real about the challenges of navigating a saturated nightlife scene subdued by price hikes and urban traffic chaos, plus the clever ways some insiders use to get VIP treatment. We break down how social media platforms are weaponizing your online presence through AI theft, limiting your creative freedom, and censoring genuine content — all while gatekeeping talented voices. Our hosts share unforgettable stories of overcoming industry bias, producers playing favorites, and maintaining authenticity in a world that rewards conformity.

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    53 mins
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