In Episode 3, Oshea Luja and Dr. Melanie Luja speak to the couples standing on the edge in the middle of retrograde—ready to separate, ready to call it quits, not realizing the season can make everything feel sharper than it really is. Oshea breaks down why it’s wise to pause before making permanent decisions in a temporary storm, and he introduces the idea that every couple has a relationship number—a blueprint that helps you understand your rhythm, your lessons, and how to move with more wisdom instead of more emotion.

Dr. Melanie brings it back to the home: calming teas and herbs couples can share, simple wellness practices that soften the atmosphere, and small daily resets that help love feel safer to live in. This episode is part spiritual, part practical—and all about giving your relationship a chance to breathe before you decide its future.

Oshea Luja is a Cultural Architect and SoulWork Practitioner known for translating healing into lived language—rooted in cultural memory, ritual, and real-life practice. As co-author of the award-winning InternalBalance: Would You Marry You?, he guides conversations on health, wealth, and relationships with grounded wisdom and an unflinching, compassionate voice.

Dr. Melanie Luja is a Natural Medicine Doctor and Deficiency Specialist who helps people identify root causes and rebuild from the inside out. As co-author of the award-winning InternalBalance: Would You Marry You?, she brings clear, practical wellness guidance—blending clinical insight with simple, sustainable tools for everyday balance.