• Dressed to Constrict: Lace it Tight to Marry Right
    May 20 2026

    This week on Dressed for the Grave, we're pulling the laces tight and unraveling the dark history of corsets. From aristocratic status symbols and impossible beauty standards to medical panic, social control, and the women who fought back against it all, we explore how fashion shaped the female body... sometimes quite literally.

    Because nothing says "eligible for marriage" quite like compressed organs and restricted breathing. 💀🥀

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    Dress to impress yourself, not the coroner.

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    49 mins
  • Tangisode: The Pirate Queen who Made Men Wet Themselves
    May 19 2026

    Because Melissa just can't help where the rabbit holes lead, you're getting another Tangisode treat, two days in a row. ⚓💀

    In this Tangisode, we dive into the absolutely unhinged true story of Zheng Yi Sao, the pirate queen powerful enough to make hardened sailors, rival pirates, and entire governments question their life choices.

    From the infamous Red Flag Fleet to sea battles, extortion, smuggling, and enough chaos to keep dynasties awake at night, this is the story of the woman who turned the South China Sea into her personal empire.

    Turns out the most feared man on the water… was a woman.

    Sources Used for this Episode:

    • Murray, Dian H. Pirates of the South China Coast, 1790–1810. Stanford University Press, 1987.
    • Banerji, Urvija. "The Chinese Female Pirate Who Commanded 80,000 Outlaws." Atlas Obscura, April 6, 2016.
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    21 mins
  • Tangisode: Song Ci and the Sleuthing Flies
    May 17 2026

    In this Tangisode, we dive into one of history's earliest recorded forensic investigations and the bizarre moment insects helped expose a killer hiding in plain sight. This case proves nature has always left clues behind for those patient enough to notice them.

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    16 mins
  • Dressed to Bind: Beauty, Status, and Bound Feet
    May 13 2026

    In this episode of Dressed for the Grave, we unravel the long history of footbinding, from its rumored origins in the imperial courts of the Song Dynasty to its deep ties to beauty, marriage, honor, status, and survival. We also explore the roles of Empress Dowager Cixi and reformer Kang Youwei, alongside the cultural and economic forces that allowed the practice to persist for nearly a thousand years.

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    45 mins
  • Tangisode: Aqua Tofana - The Story of Giulia Tofana
    May 10 2026

    In this Tangisode, we dive into the dark legend of Giulia Tofana and the infamous poison known as Aqua Tofana, a deadly mixture rumored to have helped hundreds of women escape abusive marriages in 17th-century Italy. Disguised among cosmetics and vanity bottles, the poison became one of history's most chilling symbols of desperation, survival, and quiet rebellion.

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    17 mins
  • Dressed to Decay: Lethal Lead Makeup
    May 6 2026

    In this episode of Dressed for the Grave, we trace the history of lead-based cosmetics, from ancient Egypt to Elizabethan courts and the powdered excess of the 18th century. We explore how a material once used for protection became a symbol of perfection, and how that pursuit slowly poisoned the people who wore it.

    Correction: In a very on-brand moment, during our corrections, we mention Prince Andrew. The prince we really meant to refer to was Prince Philip, husband to Queen Elizabeth II.

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    43 mins
  • Tangisode: The Marquise Who Poisoned Paris - Marie-Madeleine d'Aubray
    May 3 2026

    In this Tangisode, we slip into the shadowy world of Marie-Madeleine d'Aubray, the 17th-century aristocrat who turned arsenic into an art form. Behind powdered wigs and polished manners, she orchestrated a chilling series of poisonings that helped ignite France's obsession with invisible murder. What started as whispered scandal unraveled into one of history's most infamous poison cases, blurring the line between high society and calculated death. Because sometimes the most dangerous weapon isn't a blade… it's what's slipped quietly into your drink.

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    17 mins
  • Dressed to Die: the Dangers of Arsenic Green and Aneline Dyes
    Apr 29 2026

    In this episode, we follow the color trail from arsenic greens to early synthetic dyes. The shades that made fashion brighter, cheaper, and far more dangerous. From the tragic case of Mathilda Scheurer to the work of Alfred Swaine Taylor, one of the first to study poisoning scientifically, this is the story of how beauty came at a cost.

    Correction: In this episode, we refer to King Albert. His correct title is Prince Albert.

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    30 mins