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I used to be the one rolling my eyes at the car doing 45 in a 65. Then life after 40 did what it does best: it humbled me quietly, in broad daylight, on I-95. One minute I’m feeling responsible, telling myself I’m avoiding tickets and “driving smart.” The next minute, cars are blowing past me like I’m parked, and I get that sinking feeling that I’ve officially become the slow driver.

I’m Damien, and I’m talking candidly about aging, driving habits, and the weird ways your body and brain start negotiating with you. We get into why yoga and running after 40 aren’t just fitness goals; they’re maintenance for everything, including how sharp you feel on the road. I also break down the moment I realized my cruise control had me cruising at 60 in a 70, why the middle lane isn’t automatically the safe lane, and how night vision and “just going with traffic” can mess you up fast.

If you’ve ever felt that pride sting when a minivan passes you, or you’ve wondered whether you’re driving cautiously or driving dangerously slow, you’ll recognize yourself here. The big takeaway is simple: stay aware, be predictable, and don’t let autopilot turn you into a road hazard.

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