In this episode of Earnest with the Tea, I’m getting real about where I am in this season of life. After some time away, I’m back talking about relationships, growth, and what it actually looks like to try love intentionally.

I open up about my patterns, my red flags, and what I’m unlearning when it comes to connection. I also talk about why this season is about being fair, firm, and consistent with others and with myself.

This isn’t about perfection.

It’s about honesty, boundaries, and choosing growth over comfort.

If you’re navigating love, healing, or simply asking yourself what you want now, this one’s for you.

☕️ Gem: Wanting love doesn’t make you weak. Avoiding it doesn’t make you strong. It just means you haven’t decided yet.

Embracing being single on Valentines Day and dealing with inconsistency, ghosting and prioritizing self love

In this episode, we reflect on the powerful legacy of Martin Luther King Jr. and how his vision inspires action today. I also share my journey of self-dating as a Black man—from solo dinners to gym sessions—and why prioritizing self-love is a game changer. Plus, an update on the LA fires and how we can support those affected. Tune in for inspiration, personal growth, and a reminder to always care for yourself and your community.