Pastors James and Tiffaney pick up where the men’s panel left off and go straight into the tension behind “I want a healed man” and “I want to be led.” They unpack why “strong” can quietly turn into control, why some men confuse a woman’s help with threat, and how God’s design for order is supposed to produce safety, not competition. This episode also gets real about what emotional safety actually looks like, why some people aren’t open to being “pushed” (or expanded), and how a relationship shifts when your partner can see more in you than you currently believe about yourself. Plus, a raw Q&A segment on rebuilding trust, navigating immaturity, and what to do when you’re running out of breath in a relationship you chose.

In this episode, you’ll learn:

• The difference between strength and control, and how to spot it in yourself
• How submission works when it’s submitted to God’s order, not someone’s ego
• Why “help” can get misread as control when pride is present
• What humility looks like in a man (and why it makes leadership safe)
• Why you can’t “pour” discipline or desire into someone who won’t choose it
• What it takes to rebuild emotional safety when trust has been violated

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