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Electric Ideas with Whitney Baker: Motherhood, Self-Connection, Joyful Living & Self-Care

Electric Ideas with Whitney Baker: Motherhood, Self-Connection, Joyful Living & Self-Care

Written by: Whitney Baker
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 Welcome. If you're a woman who has a sense there's more out there for you in your life, I've got you. You're in the right place. I'm Whitney Baker, host of Electric Ideas. Somewhere along the line with work and kids, life carried on, but I lost track of my truth. I felt like something was missing. Like my energy was splintered and I was trapped reacting to a flurry of outside demands. I'm on a reflective journey and that's what this podcast is about. We talk about ideas, practices, and habits that help women get back to their heart center and live more fulfilling lives. Each week, I interview a woman who is lighting her own path. Before our conversation ends, we'll share a reflective question for you to ponder, chat with your gal pals about, or even journal about if you're so inclined. I started this podcast because I know when women step into their fullest selves, the whole world benefits. Sometimes all we need is a jolt, a laugh, a fresh idea…an aha moment that connects us back to ourselves and our buried truths. This my friends, is what I call an Electric Idea. Self-Help Social Sciences Success
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  • 177. The Motherhood Wall: Why Modern Moms Feel Set Up to Fail with Dr. Andrea O'Reilly

    177. The Motherhood Wall: Why Modern Moms Feel Set Up to Fail with Dr. Andrea O'Reilly
    Feb 19 2026
    Get access to 5 Days to Less Stress, More Satisfaction before it closes! Have you ever felt the quiet, constant pressure to be a "good mom"? The one who stays patient, selfless and grateful, even while running on fumes? In this episode, Whitney connects with Andrea O'Reilly to examine the expectations mothers carry and the invisible systems shaping their lives. From the concept of the "motherhood wall" to the cultural myths we absorb without realizing it, they explore why so many women feel stretched thin, unseen and perpetually behind, even when they are doing more than enough. Whitney reflects on how easily we internalize this strain as personal failure. Dr. O'Reilly reframes the story: what if the problem is not you, but the structure you are operating inside? Together, they challenge the myth of the endlessly self-sacrificing "Good Mother," unpack the false divide between working mothers and stay-at-home mothers, and argue for choice, agency and dignity without apology. This conversation moves beyond coping. It offers language, context and a wider lens. You will leave feeling validated, clearer about what you are carrying, and reminded that your exhaustion is not a character flaw. Press play and step into a more truthful, compassionate narrative. Here's what you can look forward to in this episode: What the motherhood wall is and how it impacts women beyond just career conversations How cultural norms and systemic structures shape the experience of modern motherhood Why so many moms internalize their struggles as personal failure The lasting impact of the "Good Mother" myth and unrealistic standards The importance of solidarity and community among mothers Reclaiming visibility and value for maternal labor and caregiving work An introduction to matricentric feminism and what it means for mothers today Reflection question to ponder: Is this necessary, and is this good for me and my family? Learn more about 1:1 coaching with Whitney - book a 15-minute Spark Session Connect with Whitney: Instagram l Website l 5 Days to Less Stress, More Satisfaction l Tend to Your Soul Toolkit l 10 Soulful Journaling Prompts | Electric Ideas Podcast Connect with Dr. O'Reilly: In (M)other Words: Writings on Mothering and Motherhood, 2009-2024 | York University
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    43 mins
  • [REPLAY] The Mental Side of Women's Sexual Challenges—And How Mindfulness Can Help with Dr. Lori Brotto

    [REPLAY] The Mental Side of Women's Sexual Challenges—And How Mindfulness Can Help with Dr. Lori Brotto
    Feb 12 2026

    Have you ever felt like intimacy takes a backseat in your busy life? Between endless to-do lists, financial stress, and the mental load of daily responsibilities, it's no surprise that desire often fades into the background. But what if mindfulness could help rekindle connection and deepen intimacy?

    In this episode, Whitney sits down with Dr. Lori Brotto, a leading researcher in sexual health and mindfulness and author of Better Sex Through Mindfulness. Dr. Brotto shares fascinating insights into the powerful connection between the mind and sexual well-being, shedding light on how emotional and psychological factors shape women's experiences in the bedroom.

    Together, they explore why spontaneous desire is rare—especially in long-term relationships—and how cultivating awareness and intention can reignite passion. By letting go of outdated beliefs around female sexuality and embracing mindfulness, women can foster a more fulfilling relationship with both their bodies and their partners.

    Dr. Brotto also shares research-backed, practical strategies to boost desire, confidence, and pleasure—without pressure or perfection.

    Tune in for an insightful and empowering conversation that just might shift the way you think about intimacy.

    Here's what you can look forward to in this episode:

    • The prevalence of sexual dysfunction
    • How stress impacts intimacy and sexual desire
    • Why Lori advocates for planning time for sex
    • Mindfulness practices to help rebuild being present with sexual desire
    • Advice for those whose self-judgment is getting in the way of enjoying sex
    • How moms can talk to their daughters to help them have a good relationship with sex
    • Erotica vs. porn

    Reflection question to ponder: Do I really want this?

    Connect with Whitney: Instagram l Website l 5 Days to Less Stress, More Satisfaction l Tend to Your Soul Toolkit l 10 Soulful Journaling Prompts | Electric Ideas Podcast

    Connect with Dr. Brotto: Instagram | Website | Book: Better Sex Through Mindfulness | Become a research participant

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    39 mins
  • 176. Why Motherhood Creates Distance in Marriages and How to Reconnect with Michelle Purta

    176. Why Motherhood Creates Distance in Marriages and How to Reconnect with Michelle Purta
    Feb 5 2026
    Have you ever looked at your partner and thought, "How did we get here?" Somewhere between kids, schedules, groceries, and keeping the household running, many moms begin to feel more like roommates or co-managers than romantic partners. In this episode, Whitney sits down with marriage coach Michelle Purta to explore why this shift is so common in motherhood, and why it is not a sign that a marriage is broken, but a signal that mental and emotional load has quietly taken over. They talk honestly about how resentment builds when needs go unspoken, why hard conversations often come out sharper than we intend, and how mental load plays a bigger role in disconnection than we realize. Michelle shares simple, grounded ways to approach conversations differently, from pausing to regulate yourself first, to asking for support clearly and naming why it matters, to creating small moments of connection that do not feel like another item on the to-do list. If you are feeling stretched thin, disconnected, or longing to feel like a team again, this episode meets you right where you are. Tune in for practical, doable practices that support reconnection with yourself and with your partner. Here's what you can look forward to in this episode: Why motherhood naturally creates distance in romantic relationships How to set up consensual conversations instead of ambushing your partner A surprising thing you may not know about even the healthiest couples Examples of micro-connections: intentional check-ins, longer hugs, non-logistics conversations, small acts of support How having a clear vision for your life and relationship guides healthier choices now Reflection question to ponder:  How do I want my life to be like? Learn more about 1:1 coaching with Whitney - book a 15-minute Spark Session Connect with Whitney: Instagram l Website l 5 Days to Less Stress, More Satisfaction l Tend to Your Soul Toolkit l 10 Soulful Journaling Prompts | Electric Ideas Podcast Connect with Michelle: Instagram | Website | Marriage and Motherhood Podcast
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    41 mins
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