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End of Life Conversations: Normalizing Talk About Death, Dying, and Grief

End of Life Conversations: Normalizing Talk About Death, Dying, and Grief

Written by: Rev Annalouiza Armendariz & Rev Wakil David Matthews
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Death touches us all, and yet our culture rarely makes space to talk about it openly. Why is it so hard to have honest conversations about death, dying, and loss with the people we love? What do we do with grief when it inevitably arrives?


End of Life Conversations is a podcast dedicated to normalizing these essential conversations. Hosts Reverent Mother Annalouiza Armendariz and Reverend Wakil David Matthews — both seasoned hospice chaplains and end-of-life companions — invite experts and everyday voices alike: funeral directors, death doulas, poets, researchers, grief counselors, and people who've walked right up to the edge of life and returned. Together, they explore what it means to prepare for death, sit with loss, and grieve in ways that are as individual as we are.


And weekly, we share a conversation with our friend Sam Zemke about something that is currently speaking to us.


Whether you're supporting a loved one through a terminal illness, searching for the right words to start a difficult conversation, or simply curious about what a more death-positive life might look like, this podcast meets you where you are. No question is too strange. No path looks the same.


Subscribe, reach out, and join the conversation. Because the time to talk about it is now.


endoflifeconvo@gmail.com | endoflifeconvos.substack.com


We want to thank our excellent editor, Sam Zemkee. We also acknowledge that we live and work on unceded indigenous peoples' lands. We thank them for their generations of stewardship, which continues to this day, and honor them by doing all we can to create a sustainable planet and support the flourishing of all life, both human and more-than-human.

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Episodes
  • Weekly Dispatch | Why Grief Hurts: The Physical Symptoms of Loss
    Jun 29 2026

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    Grief doesn't just affect our emotions. It affects our bodies, too.

    In this Weekly Dispatch episode, we explore the physical symptoms of grief and why loss can show up as fatigue, headaches, muscle tension, digestive issues, chronic stress, and even unexplained pain. Many people are surprised to learn that grief is not only an emotional experience but also a physical one.

    We'll discuss how grief affects the nervous system, why emotional pain can become physical discomfort, what "somatic grief" means, and practical ways to support healing through body awareness, grounding exercises, rituals, movement, and self-compassion.

    Whether you're grieving the death of a loved one, navigating a major life transition, supporting others through loss, or simply trying to understand what grief feels like in the body, this episode offers insights and practical tools to help.

    Topics include:
    • Physical symptoms of grief
    • Why grief hurts physically
    • Somatic grief and emotional memory
    • Grief and the nervous system
    • Fatigue, stress, and grief
    • Grounding exercises for grief
    • Rituals for processing loss
    • Healing after loss

    If grief has ever left you feeling exhausted, overwhelmed, or disconnected from your body, this conversation may help you better understand what's happening and how to move forward with greater awareness and care.

    #Grief #PhysicalSymptomsOfGrief #GriefHealing #GriefSupport #SomaticGrief #LossAndHealing #GrievingProcess #MentalHealth #EmotionalHealing #WeeklyDispatch

    Support the show

    We very much want to hear your thoughts. Please join us on Substack for our community chat.

    This podcast helps anyone dealing with loss. It can guide you with end-of-life planning and death-positive resources.

    Check out our introductory episode to learn more about Annalouiza, Wakil, and our vision/mission to normalize and destigmatize conversations about death, dying, grief, and loss.

    You can find us on SubStack, Facebook, Instagram, YouTube, and BlueSky. You are also invited to subscribe to support us financially. Anyone who supports us at any level will have access to Premium content, special online meet-ups, and one-on-one time with Annalouiza or Wakil.

    And we would love your feedback and want to hear your stories. You can email us at endoflifeconvo@gmail.com.

    We want to be transparent that we use AI tools to help us with titles, show notes, editing, and introductions.



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    18 mins
  • Jen Blalock and Shelby Mundy | Intergenerational Death Doula Duo and Their Before I Die Cincinnati
    Jun 27 2026

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    What does a death doula actually do — and why are more people choosing green burial and community-based death care? In this episode, death doulas Jen Blalock and Shelby Mundy (co-founders of Before I Die Cincinnati) share how Jen supported Shelby's husband through his final days, and how that experience grew into a movement built on presence, transparency, and community.

    We cover:
    🔹 What does a death doula do — the role, the training, and how Jen and Shelby found this work
    🔹 Green burial options — ecological and alternative approaches to death care
    🔹 Community death care & the Before I Die Festival — building public conversation around dying

    Whether you're a death doula, hospice worker, creator, or just someone carrying grief, this conversation offers grounded, practical insight into approaching death with more intention and less fear.

    https://www.deathdoulacincinnati.com

    https://www.beforeidiecincinnati.com

    #DeathDoula #GreenBurial #EndOfLifeCare #GriefSupport #DeathPositive



    Support the show

    We very much want to hear your thoughts. Please join us on Substack for our community chat.

    This podcast helps anyone dealing with loss. It can guide you with end-of-life planning and death-positive resources.

    Check out our introductory episode to learn more about Annalouiza, Wakil, and our vision/mission to normalize and destigmatize conversations about death, dying, grief, and loss.

    You can find us on SubStack, Facebook, Instagram, YouTube, and BlueSky. You are also invited to subscribe to support us financially. Anyone who supports us at any level will have access to Premium content, special online meet-ups, and one-on-one time with Annalouiza or Wakil.

    And we would love your feedback and want to hear your stories. You can email us at endoflifeconvo@gmail.com.

    We want to be transparent that we use AI tools to help us with titles, show notes, editing, and introductions.



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    42 mins
  • Weekly Dispatch | Reclaiming Masculinity: How Men Can Embrace Vulnerability, Strength, and Emotional Freedom |
    Jun 23 2026

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    What does it mean to be a man today?

    In this Weekly Dispatch, we explore the growing conversation around healthy masculinity, emotional vulnerability, men's mental health, and the idea of "rewilding masculinity." For generations, many men were taught that strength meant emotional control, self-reliance, and toughness. But what happens when those expectations collide with grief, loss, caregiving, relationships, and the realities of being human?

    This episode examines the difference between masculinity and toxic masculinity, why emotional expression can feel difficult for many men, and how redefining strength can create healthier relationships, deeper connection, and greater emotional resilience.

    Whether you're navigating grief, supporting someone you love, working in end-of-life care, or simply interested in understanding the changing landscape of manhood, this conversation offers a thoughtful and compassionate exploration of masculinity in the modern world.

    In this episode:
    • What healthy masculinity really means
    • Toxic masculinity explained
    • Why men struggle with emotions
    • Men's mental health and emotional well-being
    • Vulnerability and strength in modern manhood
    • Grief, loss, and emotional expression
    • Rewilding masculinity and authentic connection
    • Building healthier relationships through emotional honesty

    #Masculinity #HealthyMasculinity #MensMentalHealth #Grief #EmotionalHealth #Vulnerability #Manhood #ToxicMasculinity #PersonalGrowth #EndOfLifeConversations

    Support the show

    We very much want to hear your thoughts. Please join us on Substack for our community chat.

    This podcast helps anyone dealing with loss. It can guide you with end-of-life planning and death-positive resources.

    Check out our introductory episode to learn more about Annalouiza, Wakil, and our vision/mission to normalize and destigmatize conversations about death, dying, grief, and loss.

    You can find us on SubStack, Facebook, Instagram, YouTube, and BlueSky. You are also invited to subscribe to support us financially. Anyone who supports us at any level will have access to Premium content, special online meet-ups, and one-on-one time with Annalouiza or Wakil.

    And we would love your feedback and want to hear your stories. You can email us at endoflifeconvo@gmail.com.

    We want to be transparent that we use AI tools to help us with titles, show notes, editing, and introductions.



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    24 mins
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