Episodes

  • The Emotion We Avoid Talking About | John 15:13 with Shaylee
    Jun 16 2026

    What do you do with anger when it shows up?

    In this episode of Everyday Joy, Ash and Shay dive into honest conversation about anger, self-control, and what it really looks like to process emotions in a healthy way. From everyday frustrations (like the great “Stanley cup debate”) to deeper wounds we tend to brush past, they explore why ignoring anger doesn’t make it disappear—it just lets it build.

    Anchored in John 15:13 and Proverbs 25:28, this conversation unpacks the idea that anger itself isn’t the enemy—but what we do with it matters. They talk about calling things out instead of burying them, bringing emotions honestly before God, and learning that self-control isn’t suppression, but wisdom in action.

    If you’ve ever struggled to process what you feel without shutting down or blowing up, this episode will help you find a healthier way forward—one rooted in honesty, healing, and grace.

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    13 mins
  • Why is it so hard to be content with where we are? | Ecclesiastes 3:1 with Shaylee
    Jun 15 2026

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    In this episode, Ash and Shay unpack Ecclesiastes 3:1 and the powerful reminder that life is made up of seasons—some joyful, some painful, and many that seem to pass by faster than we'd like. Together, they reflect on the temptation to always look ahead, rush through difficult moments, or believe that satisfaction is waiting somewhere in the future.

    Through honest conversations about anxiety, contentment, parenting, and the pace of modern life, Ash and Shae explore what it looks like to be present in the season God has you in right now. They discuss how to find joy in both the highs and lows, trust that difficult seasons won't last forever, and embrace the good gifts God is giving today rather than constantly longing for tomorrow.

    Whether you're in a season of waiting, grieving, celebrating, or simply feeling restless, this conversation is a reminder that God is present in every chapter—and that there is beauty to be found in the season you're living right now.

    Ecclesiastes 3:1
    "There is a time for everything, and a season for every activity under the heavens."

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    10 mins
  • What Love Actually Looks Like | John 15:13 with Shaylee
    Jun 14 2026

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    John 15:13
    "Greater love has no one than this: to lay down one's life for one's friends."What does real love actually look like?

    In this episode, Ash and Shay unpack Jesus' powerful words in John 15:13 and explore the kind of love that goes far beyond feelings or good intentions. Together, they reflect on the sacrificial love of Christ, the challenge of laying down our own wants and comforts for others, and why true love will always cost us something.

    From friendships and marriage to everyday acts of service, this conversation is a reminder that love isn't just something we say—it's something we live. As they discuss what it means to love like Jesus, Ash and Shae encourage us to embrace a love that is selfless, intentional, and rooted in the joy that comes from putting others before ourselves.

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    11 mins
  • Love Is More Than Being Nice | 1 Corinthians 13:4 with Kate Westwood
    Jun 11 2026

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    Love is one of the most talked-about words in our culture, but do we really understand what it means? In this episode, Ash and Kate dive into the famous words of 1 Corinthians 13 and explore how God's definition of love is often very different from our own. Together, they unpack what it means to be patient, kind, humble, and selfless in a world that often encourages us to put ourselves first. This conversation is a gentle reminder that love isn't just a feeling—it's a daily choice, a reflection of God's character, and something that shapes the way we treat everyone around us.

    1 Corinthians 13:4
    Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud.

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    16 mins
  • How Do I Know It’s God? |James 1:5 with Kate Westwood
    Jun 10 2026

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    How do you know when God is speaking? And what does it look like to hear His voice in everyday life?

    "If any of you lacks wisdom, you should ask God, who gives generously to all without finding fault, and it will be given to you."

    In this episode, Ash and Kate explore James 1:5 and the incredible promise that God gives wisdom generously to those who ask. Together, they share personal stories of learning to trust God's guidance, navigating seasons of confusion, and discovering the freedom that comes from recognising His voice.

    Whether you're seeking direction, facing a difficult decision, or simply longing for a deeper relationship with God, this conversation is an encouragement that God is still speaking—and He delights in guiding His children.

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    13 mins
  • When Hope Feels Hard | Psalm 27:14 with Kate Westwood
    Jun 9 2026

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    What does it actually mean to “wait on the Lord”?

    Psalm 27:14
    "Wait for the Lord; be strong and take heart and wait for the Lord."

    In this episode, Ash and Kate unpack Psalm 27:14 and explore the difference between passive waiting and biblical waiting. While we often think of waiting as sitting still until something changes, Scripture paints a very different picture—one of staying connected to God, holding onto hope, and trusting Him even when the answers haven’t arrived.

    Together, they discuss seasons of disappointment, unanswered prayers, loneliness, and long-held dreams, while reflecting on how God uses waiting to draw us closer to Him. If you're waiting for a breakthrough, a relationship, healing, direction, or simply a sense of peace, this conversation is a reminder that your waiting is not wasted—and neither is your hope.

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    14 mins
  • The Blessing in Being Misunderstood | Matthew 5:10 with Kate Westwood
    Jun 8 2026

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    In this episode, we explore Matthew 5:10 and what it really means to be “blessed” when we are misunderstood, criticised, or left out because of our faith. In a world that often avoids discomfort and hard conversations, Jesus calls us to a different kind of strength—one that stays rooted in righteousness even when it costs us something.

    We talk about what persecution actually looks like in everyday life, why following Jesus won’t always be popular, and how we can hold onto faith when others don’t understand our choices. This conversation encourages us to shift our perspective: rejection for righteousness is not the end of the story, but a reminder that the kingdom of heaven belongs to those who stay faithful.

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    9 mins
  • The Conversation You’ve Been Avoiding | Matthew 5:9 with Kate Westwood
    Jun 7 2026

    Why do so many of us avoid difficult conversations?

    In this episode, Ash and Kate unpack Matthew 5:9 and explore what it really means to be a peacemaker. They discuss the difference between keeping the peace and making peace, why avoiding conflict often creates bigger problems, and how Jesus modelled a different way of handling tension and division.

    From people-pleasing and difficult conversations to reconciliation and healthy boundaries, this conversation is a practical reminder that peace isn't found by pretending problems don't exist. It's found when we're willing to lovingly address them.

    If you've ever struggled with conflict, found yourself avoiding hard conversations, or wondered how to handle relational tension in a God-honouring way, this episode is for you.

    Because real peace isn't about avoiding the issue—it's about helping bring healing where there's division.

    "Blessed are the peacemakers, for they will be called children of God." — Matthew 5:9

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    15 mins