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Fak'n Tired with Dr Heidi

Fak'n Tired with Dr Heidi

Written by: Dr Heidi
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Hosted by Dr. Heidi, a toxic relationship specialist who was once where you are now. Toxic relationships cause lasting exhaustion, fear, and emotional uncertainty. You learned to “fake it” when boundaries were crossed and needs were “too needy.” A little bit of the real you was erased every Fak’n day. Now what? This show is about your life after the toxic relationship. The "icky stuff" that hangs around after it's over. However, they are not flaws; they are actually part of you & your strength. Trust is scary, but trusting yourself is essential to get out of the Fak'n Tired life.Dr Heidi Hygiene & Healthy Living Psychology Psychology & Mental Health
Episodes
  • The Biology of the Battle Part 2 - The Unavoidable Nervous System Take Over
    Feb 19 2026

    Struggling to pinpoint why you’re struggling? Take the Survival Mode Assessment and see which of your behaviors, reactions, feelings, and responses may indeed be residual effects from the overwhelming toxicity you have experienced. Take the SMA Here!

    ⁠https://coachingwithdrheidi.com/


    Today in part 2 of the Biology of the Battle, Dr. Heidi explores the impact of toxic relationships on the nervous system and how survival behaviors can persist long after leaving such environments. She introduces the Survival Mode Assessment (SMA) to help individuals identify their post-trauma behaviors and discusses the importance of understanding the nervous system's role in trauma recovery. The conversation delves into the various data collectors within the nervous system, including nociception and neuroception, and emphasizes the need for recalibration to achieve inner peace and emotional stability.


    Dr Heidi knows it can feel extreme to ask for help, at least it did for her. As one who has been where you are now, perhaps one of her service offerings would feel less extreme, and would be totally confidential. Let her experience be your secret weapon.

    ⁠https://coachingwithdrheidi.com/

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    51 mins
  • The Biology of the Battle | Part 1
    Feb 3 2026


    Dr Heidi knows it can feel extreme to ask for help, at least it did for her. As one who has been where you are now, perhaps one of her service offerings would feel less extreme, and would be totally confidential. Let her experience be your secret weapon.

    https://coachingwithdrheidi.com/

    In this episode, Dr. Heidi explores the intricate relationship between the nervous system and our survival instincts, particularly in the context of toxic relationships. She discusses how our bodies react to perceived threats, the biological mechanisms behind these reactions, and the importance of understanding these processes to reclaim control over our emotional health. The conversation delves into the brain's response to danger, the role of boundaries, and the impact of past trauma on present behavior.

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    24 mins
  • I Thought It Was "Just Who I Was..."
    Jan 20 2026

    Dr Heidi knows it can feel extreme to ask for help, at least it did for her. As someone who has been through it, perhaps one of her service offerings would feel less extreme, and would be totally confidential. Let her experience be your secret weapon.

    https://coachingwithdrheidi.com/

    In this episode of "Fake and Tired," Dr. Heidi delves into the complexities of recovering from toxic relationships and the lasting effects they can have on one's mental and emotional well-being. She shares her personal journey, highlighting the confusion and exhaustion that often accompany the aftermath of such relationships. Dr. Heidi emphasizes the importance of understanding one's own behaviors and reactions, which may have been shaped by past events, and how they show up in everyday life, even in safe environments. The episode serves as a call to action for listeners to recognize these behaviors in themselves and begin the journey toward healing and self-acceptance.


    • Dr. Heidi also introduces her "You've Got to Be Kidding Me" validation sessions, designed to provide clarity and understanding for those grappling with their relationship histories. She encourages listeners to reflect on their experiences and consider how their past may still influence their present, particularly in terms of anxiety and hyper-vigilance. The episode sets the stage for a two-part series that will explore the nervous system's adaptations and how to reclaim one's sense of self and safety.
    • Book your Validation session:

      https://drheidischeduleme.as.me/schedule/dddd1d6e

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    33 mins
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