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Family Disappeared

Family Disappeared

Written by: Lawrence Joss
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Have you lost contact with your child? What about your parent, or grandparent, sibling, or any other family member? You might be experiencing estrangement, alienation, or erasure. All of these terms speak to the trauma and dysfunction that so many families face.

A family is a complex living and breathing system. Each member plays a role in the family dynamic. When families carry generational trauma and/or experience new trauma, challenges, or dysfunction, this can result in a break in the family system.

These reaction strategies are habitual and very often interwoven into every aspect of how our family interacts.

Hi! I´m Lawrence Joss and I’ve learned that I need to cultivate a spiritual, emotional, and physical relationship with myself in order to have healthy relationships with others and everything in my life. It is my mission to help you create and nurture that relationship with yourself first and provide you with tools that might help you heal and strengthen family relationships.

This podcast is an opportunity to explore our healing journey together through the complexities of our families.

Welcome to the FAMILY DISAPPEARED podcast.

For more information, visit:
Website: https://parentalalienationanonymous.com/
Email- familydisappeared@gmail.com
Linktree
https://linktr.ee/lawrencejoss

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Episodes
  • Equine Therapy, Polyvagal Theory & Healing Parental Alienation w/ Dr. Rebecca Bailey Part 1 - Episode 128
    Jan 12 2026

    Lawrence Joss continues his discussion with Matthew Brickman, a Supreme Court Certified Mediator in Florida. Together, they unpack the role of mediation in family conflict, including how mediators support the process and what to consider when choosing the right professional. Drawing from years of experience, Matthew highlights the value of ongoing learning, self-awareness, and growth in effective mediation. The conversation also explores the emotional realities clients face and the importance of empowerment and agency throughout the mediation journey.

    Key Takeaways

    • Equine therapy helps individuals learn about their own nervous system.
    • The presence of horses can facilitate emotional safety and connection.
    • Children often project their feelings onto horses, aiding in therapy.
    • Building trust with horses reflects the importance of boundaries in relationships.
    • Humor can be a powerful tool in therapeutic settings.
    • Equine therapy can help navigate high-conflict family dynamics.
    • The process of co-regulation is essential for emotional healing.
    • Horses model the ability to calm down after being startled.
    • Therapy with horses allows access to emotions that traditional methods may not reach.
    • The unpredictability of life is mirrored in the interactions with horses.

    Chapters

    00:00 - Understanding Equine Therapy and Its Context
    02:54 - The Role of the Nervous System in Therapy
    05:50 - Equine Therapy: A Unique Approach to Healing
    08:44 - The Connection Between Horses and Human Emotions
    12:05 - Navigating Family Dynamics Through Equine Therapy
    14:51 - Practical Applications of Equine Therapy
    18:03 - The Impact of Trauma on Children and Families
    20:48 - Building Trust and Boundaries with Horses
    23:45 - The Unpredictability of Life and Therapy
    26:52 - Conclusion: The Healing Power of Horses

    If you wish to connect with Lawrence Joss or any of the PA-A community members who have appeared as guests on the podcast:

    Email - familydisappeared@gmail.com
    Linktree: https://linktr.ee/lawrencejoss
    (All links mentioned in the podcast are available in Linktree)

    Connect with Dr. Rebecca Bailey:
    https://polyvagalequineinstitute.com

    Please donate to support PAA programs:
    https://www.paypal.com/donate?hosted_button_id=SDLTX8TBSZNXSsa bottom part

    This podcast is made possible by the Family Disappeared Team:
    Anna Johnson- Editor/Contributor/Activist/Co-host
    Glaze Gonzales- Podcast Manager

    Connect with Lawrence Joss:
    Website: https://parentalalienationanonymous.com/
    Email- familydisappeared@gmail.com

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    33 mins
  • Re-Parenting, Legacy & Emotional Inheritance in Parental Alienation Part 2 - Episode 127
    Jan 5 2026

    This conversation explores the transformative power of travel and cultural experiences in shaping family dynamics and personal growth. The speakers discuss the impact of parental alienation, the evolution of fatherhood, and the importance of being present in children's lives. They share insights on cultural connections, ancestry, and the significance of community in nurturing relationships. The discussion also delves into the themes of failure, recovery, and the journey of writing a book that encapsulates their experiences.

    Key Takeaways

    • Travel can provide children with a broader perspective on life.
    • Cultural experiences can strengthen family bonds and connections.
    • Fatherhood is evolving from transactional to transformational.
    • Being present with children is more important than perfection.
    • Understanding ancestry can deepen children's sense of identity.
    • Community plays a crucial role in family dynamics.
    • Personal growth often comes from embracing failure and learning from it.
    • Intentional parenting can help break cycles of alienation.
    • The power of pausing allows for reflection and growth.
    • Sharing stories can inspire others and foster connection.

    Chapters

    00:00 - Navigating Parental Alienation Through Global Experiences
    03:32 - Transforming Perspectives on Fatherhood
    11:49 - Cultural Connections and Ancestry
    15:52 - The Power of Presence and Intentionality
    20:51 - Embracing Failure and Recovery
    25:20 - Reflections on Change and Community Support
    27:11 - Navigating Parental Alienation Through Global Experiences
    30:44 - Transforming Perspectives on Fatherhood
    39:19 - Cultural Connections and Ancestry
    46:01 - The Power of Pausing and Personal Growth
    49:02 - Understanding Failure Immunity
    52:32 - Hope and Intentional Parenting


    If you wish to connect with Lawrence Joss or any of the PA-A community members who have appeared as guests on the podcast:

    Email - familydisappeared@gmail.com
    Linktree: https://linktr.ee/lawrencejoss
    (All links mentioned in the podcast are available in Linktree)

    Please donate to support PAA programs:
    https://www.paypal.com/donate?hosted_button_id=SDLTX8TBSZNXSsa bottom part

    This podcast is made possible by the Family Disappeared Team:
    Anna Johnson- Editor/Contributor/Activist/Co-host
    Glaze Gonzales- Podcast Manager

    Connect with Lawrence Joss:
    Website: https://parentalalienationanonymous.com/
    Email- familydisappeared@gmail.com

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    27 mins
  • Re-Parenting, Legacy & Emotional Inheritance in Parental Alienation Part 1 - Episode 126
    Dec 29 2025

    Lawrence Joss engages in a deep conversation with Charles Achampong about the transformative experience of taking a family trip around the world. They explore themes of parenting, reparenting, emotional inheritance, and the impact of travel on family dynamics. Charles shares insights on legacy, the importance of cultural exposure, and the challenges of navigating family connections, especially in the context of parental alienation. The discussion highlights the lessons learned from their journey and the lasting effects on their children's development and understanding of the world.

    Key Takeaways

    • Traveling can significantly influence children's perspectives and resilience.
    • Legacy is about the experiences and memories we create with our children.
    • Emotional inheritance includes the coping mechanisms and feelings passed down through families.
    • Understanding one's ancestry can enrich a child's sense of identity.
    • Traveling as a family can strengthen bonds and create lasting memories.
    • Children can adapt and thrive in new environments, given the right support.
    • The importance of allowing children to express their emotions and experiences.
    • Cultural exposure can broaden children's understanding of the world.
    • Planning and communication are key when making significant family decisions.
    • Reintegration into daily life after travel can present challenges for families.

    Chapters

    00:00 Introduction to Parenting and Reparenting
    02:43 The Impact of Travel on Family Dynamics
    05:54 Understanding Legacy and Emotional Inheritance
    09:57 Navigating Family Connections and Ancestry
    13:57 The Challenges of Traveling with Children
    17:56 Lessons Learned from a World Trip
    21:06 The Importance of Cultural Exposure
    23:40 The Decision to Take a Family Sabbatical
    27:53 Reintegration into Daily Life
    32:01 Reflections on Fatherhood and Parenting
    35:47 Conclusion and Call to Action

    If you wish to connect with Lawrence Joss or any of the PA-A community members who have appeared as guests on the podcast:

    Email - familydisappeared@gmail.com
    Linktree: https://linktr.ee/lawrencejoss
    (All links mentioned in the podcast are available in Linktree)

    Please donate to support PAA programs:
    https://www.paypal.com/donate?hosted_button_id=SDLTX8TBSZNXSsa bottom part

    This podcast is made possible by the Family Disappeared Team:
    Anna Johnson- Editor/Contributor/Activist/Co-host
    Glaze Gonzales- Podcast Manager

    Connect with Lawrence Joss:
    Website: https://parentalalienationanonymous.com/
    Email- familydisappeared@gmail.com

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    37 mins
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