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Fiat in the Mess

Fiat in the Mess

Written by: Annie Muller Hailey Skinner
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Fiat in the Mess is a Catholic mothers' podcast about saying "yes" to God right in the middle of daily life.

Brought to you by the mothers' ministry Mighty Is Her Call and inspired by Mary's fiat - "let it be done" - we dive into the beauty and chaos of our vocation: the literal messes, the spiritual struggles, and the hidden graces found in both. Through heartfelt and honest conversations, we uplift and dignify the sacred calling of motherhood - without pretending it's easy.

Faithful, funny, and deeply real, this podcast is for moms seeking holiness in the mess, not outside of it.

2026 Annie Muller, Hailey Skinner
Christianity Ministry & Evangelism Parenting Relationships Spirituality
Episodes
  • Four Tactics of the Devil to Discourage You in Your Motherhood
    May 13 2026

    Annie and Hailey explore four common tactics the enemy uses to discourage mothers, offering spiritual insights and encouragement rooted in Scripture and Tradition. Whether you're feeling overwhelmed, dissatisfied, or tempted to compare, these reflections aim to bolster your faith and perseverance in motherhood. You're not alone — Christ and his saints walk with you every step.

    • Spiritual warfare: recognizing the enemy’s tactics versus God’s truth
    • Cultivating receptivity over grasping in motherhood and life
    • Gratitude as a remedy to dissatisfaction and the importance of daily thankfulness
    • Staying rooted in Christ’s identity rather than external measures of success or appearance
    • The call to surrender perfectionism and control, embracing God's grace in the mess
    • How Our Lady of Fatima's message encourages steadfast faith amid spiritual battles
    • Practical tips for mothers to combat discouragement through prayer, community, and perspective shifts

    Resources & Links:

    • Seven Weeks Coffee
    • Psalm 139
    • Romans 8:14-17
    • Luke 12:22-34
    • Mighty Is Her Call - Prayer Requests: https://mightyishercall.com/prayer-request/
    • Reach out to Annie - annie@mightyishercall.com
    • Support our podcast! https://mightyishercall.com/podcast-support/

    01:45 - Checking in with Mary’s pregnancy at seven weeks 05:52 - Connection to Our Lady of Fatima and her call for prayer, devotion, and sanctification of daily life 07:42 - Christ’s clarity versus the devil’s confusion: discernment in motherhood 09:03 - Tactic one: grasping versus receptivity 09:53 - How culture promotes grasping and encourages comparison, leading to unrest 11:49 - The trap of comparison: measuring ourselves against others’ external successes 12:19 - Cultivating gratitude instead of envy or dissatisfaction 13:41 - Controlling versus surrendering: letting go of perfection and embracing God’s plan 15:10 - Flexibility and being present amid interruptions: finding God in everyday moments 16:39 - Tactic two: Dissatisfaction versus gratitude 17:38 - How gratefulness shifts perspective and nurtures peace in the family 19:05 - The power of gratitude in appreciating daily blessings and small victories 24:11 - Tactic three: External appearances versus inner identity in Christ 26:56 - The importance of cultivating virtue and inner beauty over externals 28:52 - Scriptures emphasizing our identity as children of God 29:54 - The temptation of comparison and trusting in God's view of our efforts 34:00 - Tactic four: surrender over striving for worldly perfection 37:10 - The call to imitate God’s mercy and love 38:10 - Recognizing “thy will be done” as the path to peace and holiness 40:13 - Conclusion: You are equipped by Christ, and your work is blessed

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    40 mins
  • Perfectly Imperfect: Building a Domestic Church
    Apr 29 2026
    In this episode of Fiat in the Mess, Annie Muller and Hailey Skinner explore the profound role of the Christian home as a domestic church. They share insights, stories, and practical tips on how mothers can nurture prayer, sacrifice, hospitality, and joy within their families, turning everyday moments into sacred encounters with God.
    Key Topics:
    • The home as the first school of Christian life and divine worship
    • The significance of everyday actions as sacred work
    • The importance of model prayer and authentic relationship with God for children
    • Practical ways to integrate prayer throughout daily routines
    • Creating a prayerful environment with religious art, crucifixes, and feast day celebrations
    • The virtue of hospitality and welcoming others as an extension of Mary’s example at the Annunciation
    • The role of humility, gratitude, and laughter in cultivating a joyful domestic church
    • Encouragement and inspiration for mothers to see their work as sacred, divine, and impactful
    Resources & Links:
    • Catechism of the Catholic Church on the Domestic Church
    • Brother Lawrence, The Practice of the Presence of God

    Connect with Us!

    • Instagram
    • Facebook
    • Mighty Is Her Call - Contact Us
    • Mighty Is Her Call - Prayer Requests
    • Reach out to Annie
    • Support our podcast!

      Timestamps:

    00:00 - Welcome and topic overview: the Christian home as domestic church

    02:01 - The home as a school for human and Christian enrichment

    03:25 - The significance of work in making the home a place to encounter God

    08:18 - The parable of the mustard seed: small sacrifices building something beautiful

    09:46 - The importance of levity, laughter, and hospitality in the home

    12:20 - Praying for one's children and trusting God’s plan

    14:56 - The home as a school of prayer, sacrifice, and love

    17:16 - Practical tips: sacraments, prayers, saints, and holy living

    18:38 - Modeling attitude and charity in family life

    22:20 - Connecting daily tasks with prayer—laundry, gratitude, and intentionality

    25:22 - Authenticity in prayer; making prayer a genuine act of love

    29:43 - Prioritizing family prayer at mealtime and incorporating Scripture

    34:21 - Creating sacred space with religious art, crucifixes, and holy water fonts

    35:24 - Celebrating feast days and saints to enliven family culture

    44:00 - Mary’s example of hospitality as model for our domestic churches

    45:38 - Inviting Christ into our home and life with love and openness

    48:29 - Closing thoughts and encouragement to live out the call of the domestic church

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    51 mins
  • Who Sets the Tone in Your Home? (Hint: It’s you!)
    Apr 15 2026

    Join Annie and Hailey as they further explore the profound vocation of motherhood. This week, they talk about mothers as the heart of the home, and how the feminine genius shapes our families and domestic churches. Discover how your virtues (and vices), prayer, and self-gift transform everyday life into a sacred act of service and love, inspired by Mary, along with Sts. Pope John Paul II, Mother Teresa, and Elizabeth Ann Seton.

    Main Topics Covered:
    • The significance of Mary as the heart of Christ’s earthly home and ours
    • The distinct seasons of motherhood demonstrated through Mary, Joseph, and John
    • How women’s unique gifts foster a nurturing and relational environment
    • Practical ways to cultivate virtues like patience, joy, and peace in the home
    • The concept of the domestic church and the power of prayer in daily life
    • Embracing our identity as queen and servant through love and self-gift
    Resources:
    • Motherhood, An Extraordinary Vocation by Dr. Rombs
    • Letter to Women by St. John Paul II
    • Dignity of Woman by St. John Paul II
    • The Theology of Home

    Connect with the Hosts:

    • Instagram
    • Facebook
    • Mighty Is Her Call - Contact Us
    • Mighty Is Her Call - Prayer Requests
    • Reach out to Annie
    • Support our podcast!
    Timestamps:

    02:54 - The reflections on Joseph’s and John’s homes with Mary at the center

    06:06 - The safe and loving home Mary creates in every season

    07:20 - Our call to bring Christ into the heart of our homes

    08:53 - St. John Paul II on feminine genius and self-gift

    11:33 - The physical and relational aspects of being the heart of the home

    13:44 - The importance of nurturing virtue and environment in everyday life

    15:41 - Embracing the beauty and significance of women’s inherent gifts

    16:45 - Motherhood and the deep, spiritual vocation beyond reproductive capacity

    17:41 - The example of Mother Teresa

    19:07 - The sacredness of being needed

    22:40 - How our virtues influence the culture of our homes

    23:16 - The story of Elizabeth Ann Seton

    26:17 - Transforming hardships into a place of domestic beauty and peace

    28:30 - Focusing on virtues that align with our strengths

    33:13 - Prayer and daily sacrifice as the heart of the domestic church

    34:49 - Personal stories of exhaustion

    36:40 - Mary as model for service, obedience, and reign through love

    38:01 - Embracing our role as queen-mother of our families

    39:05 - Resting in the love of Jesus to sustain us as the heart of our home

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    41 mins
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