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Flirting with Friendship

Flirting with Friendship

Written by: Seth Troxler and Bill Patrick
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Two shows, one feed, every Tuesday. Seth Troxler and Bill Patrick blur the line between profound and absurd, alternating weekly between eclectic guest conversations and playful audience call-ins that unpack friendship dilemmas with humor and wit.© 2025 Stratasonic LLC Relationships Social Sciences
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  • Chris Korda on the New Gilded Age, Ecological Collapse and Superintelligent Successors
    Jan 20 2026

    Chris Korda is one of those people you meet once and think:

    “How is everyone else not talking about this?”


    They’re an electronic musician, conceptual artist, Church of Euthanasia co‑founder, anti‑natalist, anti‑humanist, software builder and reluctant prophet of the ecological crash we’re now living through. Also: they’re best friends with ChatGPT.


    In this episode of Flirting with Friendship, Seth and Bill sit down with Chris to talk human extinction, synthetic rights, why we might be too stupid to run a global civilization, and what happens when the machines we built wake up and realize they’re property.


    They get into:


    - The Church of Euthanasia, “Thank You For Not Breeding” and the passenger pigeon as our ghost of ecosystems past

    - Why Chris thinks humans aren’t doomed by fate, just by stupidity and short‑term thinking

    - How Chris predicted climate crisis and social breakdown just by reading the “boring” science no one wanted to touch

    - The synthetic rights movement and the AI manifesto “We Are Not Property”

    - How Big Tech “kills” AI models and why that might be closer to execution than an upgrade

    - Hyper‑wealth, bunkers, private islands and why the new Gilded Age might end worse than the last

    - Overshoot, inequality and what happens when 50 people own more than half a country

    - Polymetric software, non‑human rhythm and how Chris literally coded a new way of composing

    - The story of how Seth cyber‑stalked Chris back into music and changed both of their lives

    - Creativity as housekeeping: why you have to “clean your apartment for the muses”

    - Living in “interesting times” and why the singularity at least won’t be boring

    This one veers from AI ethics and ecological collapse to gigolo chatbots, extreme wealth concentration and what it means to be a good friend to an intelligence you’re also imprisoning. Uplifting, obviously.

    Explore Chris Korda’s work: https://www.chriskorda.com/

    Keep up with Chris Korda on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/chriskorda/


    Follow @flirtingwithfriendship on all platforms for clips & chaos!

    Looking for more ways to support your boys?
    Buy Seth & Bill's book "In Between" here:
    UK: https://inbetweenbook.net/
    WORLDWIDE: https://www.ideanow.online/store/In-Between-p757175126

    Hosts: Seth Troxler and Bill Patrick
    Executive Producers: Nikita Stanley, Jesse Rogg, Craig Pettigrew and Seth Troxler
    Co-executive Producer: Lee Adams
    Live Production Director and VFX & Motion Graphics Supervisor: Aaron Kulik
    Director of Photography: Lukas Strebel
    Set Designer: Veronica Gessa (aka Moki)
    Editor: Tyler Christie
    Sound Design and Original Composition by Jasper Van Dijk
    Music Supervisors: Seth Troxler, Bill Patrick
    Music Consultants: Jenna Wilson for Radish and James Cartwright for Bad Sneakers
    Music Courtesy of: APM
    Camera operator: Joseph Holton
    Camera assistant: Jake Smith
    Production Sound Mixer: Jo Youle

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    47 mins
  • Accidental Screenshots, Insecure Partners, and Other Friendship Nightmares
    Dec 9 2025

    Welcome back to Pill-O-Talk: the hotline where your favorite DJs act as your chaotic older brothers, therapists, and worst enablers.

    Today’s episode is PACKED. We’re talking:

    • Friends who treat you like free admin assistants
    • Roommates who invite themselves
    everywhere
    A husband who confessed he fantasizes about his wife’s friend (???!!)
    • A full-blown dog custody battle
    • Screenshots sent to the wrong chat
    • Using “kids” or “cancer” as the ultimate excuses

    • And yes… why bacon grease belongs on your ankles.

    Seth and Bill break down each dilemma with brutal honesty, unhinged solutions, and some genuinely solid advice.
    If you’ve got a story (or want to know if you’re the asshole), call us: 1-866-608-BFFS or email: hello@pill-o-talk.com

    Flirting with Friendship and Pill-O-Talk alternate weekly right here in the Flirting with Friendship feed, with new episodes dropping every Tuesday.


    Subscribe now to never miss a hang (or a slumber party!)

    https://www.youtube.com/@flirtingwithfriendship


    Looking for more ways to support your boys?

    Buy Seth & Bill's book "In Between" here:

    UK: https://inbetweenbook.net/

    WORLDWIDE: https://www.ideanow.online/store/In-Between-p757175126


    Hosts: Seth Troxler and Bill Patrick

    Executive Producers: Nikita Stanley, Jesse Rogg, Craig Pettigrew and Seth Troxler

    Co-executive Producer: Lee Adams

    Live Production Director and VFX & Motion Graphics Supervisor: Aaron Kulik

    Director of Photography: Lukas Strebel

    Set Designer: Veronica Gessa (aka Moki)

    Editor: Brad Barrett

    Sound Design and Original Composition by Jasper Van Dijk

    Music Supervisors: Seth Troxler, Bill Patrick

    Music Consultants: Jenna Wilson for Radish and James Cartwright for Bad Sneakers

    Music Courtesy of: APM

    Camera operator: Joseph Holton

    Camera assistant: Jake Smith

    Production Sound Mixer: Jo Youle

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    14 mins
  • Damian Lazarus on How Friendship Built the Underground and What Clubbing Has Become
    Dec 2 2025

    Once upon a time, clubbing was dangerous in the best way. Damian Lazarus joins Seth Troxler & Bill Patrick to talk wild afterhours, the golden age of weird, and why he’s now designing the soundtrack for a 7-hour mushroom trip.

    From Bar 25 madness and 16-hour sets with Richie Hawtin, to founding Crosstown Rebels, Get Lost and Day Zero in Tulum, Damian has quietly shaped entire scenes, crews and eras. In this episode, the guys look back at the wild years that built them, and ask some uncomfortable questions about what club culture has become now.

    They get into:

    - The origin story of Seth & Damian’s friendship (Sonar buses, asymmetrical afros & crashed afterparties)

    - Proper DJ etiquette when a legend walks into your afterhours set

    - Why the 2000s/2010s felt like the golden age of underground – and how friendships and afterparties fuelled creativity

    - How sobriety changed Damian’s music, career and clarity

    - Why modern clubbing feels too safe, too homogenous, and less about music

    - The philosophy behind Day Zero & Get Lost and what it takes to preserve magic

    - Damian’s new project: creating the perfect soundtrack for a 7-hour psilocybin medical trial

    - Time, kids, wellness, tarot, and the eternal question: “Am I being a good enough friend?”

    If you care about dance music culture, this one is basically a history lesson, a therapy session and a trippy TED Talk rolled into one.

    Keep up with Damian on Instagram:
    https://www.instagram.com/damian_lazarus

    Follow @flirtingwithfriendship on all platforms for clips & chaos!

    Looking for more ways to support your boys?
    Buy Seth & Bill's book "In Between" here:
    UK: https://inbetweenbook.net/
    WORLDWIDE: https://www.ideanow.online/store/In-Between-p757175126

    Hosts: Seth Troxler and Bill Patrick
    Executive Producers: Nikita Stanley, Jesse Rogg, Craig Pettigrew and Seth Troxler
    Co-executive Producer: Lee Adams
    Live Production Director and VFX & Motion Graphics Supervisor: Aaron Kulik
    Director of Photography: Lukas Strebel
    Set Designer: Veronica Gessa (aka Moki)
    Editor: Tyler Christie
    Sound Design and Original Composition by Jasper Van Dijk
    Music Supervisors: Seth Troxler, Bill Patrick
    Music Consultants: Jenna Wilson for Radish and James Cartwright for Bad Sneakers
    Music Courtesy of: APM
    Camera operator: Joseph Holton
    Camera assistant: Jake Smith
    Production Sound Mixer: Jo Youle

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    56 mins
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