n this episode of Flying Upstream, host Kristin Medeiros sits down with Larry Kesslin for a reflective and eye-opening conversation about joy, fulfillment, and the difference between success and significance. Larry shares his personal journey from external achievement to internal awareness, revealing how a successful career still left him searching for something deeper.

Drawing on powerful life experiences — including transformative moments in Africa — Larry introduces the concept of the “Joy Molecule,” which he defines as conscious connection plus purpose. Together, they explore why external circumstances rarely create lasting happiness, how fear is often rooted in past experiences rather than present reality, and why fulfillment comes from looking inward instead of chasing validation, titles, or milestones.

This episode invites listeners to question long-held beliefs about identity, success, and worth, offering a grounded reminder that fulfillment is not something we earn through effort or accumulation — it’s something we rediscover by reconnecting with who we already are.

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00:00 The quest for happiness vs. success
07:00 Defining success and significance
14:14 The Joy Molecule and internal joy
19:57 Lessons from life experiences
27:58 The journey of self-discovery and fulfillment

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What if the moment you’re waiting for — the confidence, the certainty, the permission — never comes?

In this solo episode of Flying Upstream, host Kristin Medeiros explores the deeply human tendency to delay change until we feel ready. Through personal reflection and lived experience, Kristin challenges the belief that confidence must come before action and offers a powerful reframe: most meaningful shifts happen when we choose ourselves before we feel prepared.

She speaks to the quiet inner voice many of us hear but often dismiss — the one that whispers when a life no longer fits, even if everything looks “fine” from the outside. Kristin shares how choosing yourself rarely begins with bold declarations or dramatic changes, but with honesty, self-trust, and the willingness to move forward without guarantees.

This episode is for anyone stuck in waiting mode — waiting to feel braver, more certain, more validated — and wondering why resentment, restlessness, or disconnection keeps growing. It’s an invitation to stop outsourcing your readiness and start listening inward.

Choosing yourself doesn’t promise ease. But not choosing yourself comes at a cost.

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Episode Chapters

00:00 Introduction to choosing yourself
01:01 The waiting game: confidence vs. action
02:54 Recognizing the inner voice
05:22 The gap between decision and action
07:47 Building confidence through action
09:42 The cost of not choosing yourself
10:41 The bravery of quiet choices

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What if the success you worked so hard for is the very thing keeping you trapped?In this episode of Flying Upstream, host Kristin Medeiros sits down with Guy Morris for a deeply honest conversation about trauma, ambition, and the disconnect between success and true freedom.Guy shares his journey from a traumatic childhood into the world of corporate achievement, where education and ambition opened doors — but at a significant personal cost. As his career progressed, Guy found himself suppressing unresolved trauma, conforming to expectations, and slowly betraying himself in the pursuit of external validation.This episode explores the emotional toll of corporate life, how fear can be used to maintain control, and why many people avoid facing their past — even when it’s shaping their present. Guy reveals how reaching a breaking point forced him to confront what he had been avoiding and how storytelling became his most honest form of leadership and healing.This conversation is a powerful reminder that real success isn’t about accumulation or status — it’s about wholeness, freedom, and the courage to face what we’d rather forget.#podmatch Episode Chapters00:00 Introduction to Flying Upstream02:10 Overcoming adversity through education05:41 The cost of corporate success09:33 Facing the breaking point14:56 The power of storytelling22:00 Redefining success and finding wholenessubscribe and Stay ConnectedSubscribe to the Flying Upstream newsletter and join a growing community of visionary souls, healers, and creativeshttps://flying-upstream.kit.com/5a525057c4Watch this episode on the Flying Upstream YouTube channelhttps://www.youtube.com/channel/UCru9Sle2Ms_tmgEL_Bo8ZaAExplore the Flying Upstream Bloghttps://flyingupstreamblog.com/blog/Follow Flying Upstream on social mediaFacebook: https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=61563051165826Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/flyingupstreampodcast/LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/company/flying-upstream-podcastTikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@flyingupstreamsuccess, freedom, self-betrayal, trauma, storytelling, personal growth, corporate life, overcoming adversity, emotional intelligence, redefining success

What if one moment of grace could change the entire direction of a life?In this episode of Flying Upstream, host Kristyn Medeiros sits down with Olaolu Ogunyemi, a Marine Corps officer and children’s book author, for a powerful conversation about second chances, identity, and the responsibility of leadership, both at home and in the world.Olaolu shares his personal story of growing up in Louisiana and the pivotal moment when an assistant principal chose disappointment over punishment, offering him a second chance that forever altered his path. That moment, paired with the discipline and structure of the Marine Corps, shaped Olaolu’s understanding of accountability, mentorship, and what it means to truly lead.Together, Kristyn and Olaolu explore how parenting is rooted in presence and connection, not perfection. They discuss how identity is formed through moments of both discipline and grace, how harmful identity cycles can be broken through accountability and self-acceptance, and why legacy is measured by impact rather than recognition.This episode is a reminder that leadership starts with listening, connection, and believing in people, especially children, even before they believe in themselves.

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Episode Chapters

00:00 The power of second chances

09:29 Lessons from the Marine Corps

13:14 Parenting and meaningful connection

19:41 Breaking harmful identity cycles

22:10 Embracing self-acceptance

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What does real strength look like when you stop performing it for the world?In this episode of Flying Upstream, host Kristin Medeiros sits down with Louise Butcher to share a deeply moving conversation about authenticity, empowerment, and reclaiming your identity through life’s most confronting moments.Louise opens up about her journey through health anxiety, motherhood, ADHD, and a breast cancer diagnosis that forced her to confront fear, femininity, and the expectations placed on women’s bodies. What began as anxiety and self-abandonment became a powerful awakening — one that led Louise to reconnect with her body, her voice, and her freedom.Running became a symbol of liberation and healing, culminating in Louise running marathons topless as a bold statement of empowerment, self-acceptance, and defiance of societal norms. Her story challenges traditional ideas of strength and femininity, reminding listeners that vulnerability is not weakness — it is courage in its truest form.This episode is for anyone navigating illness, identity shifts, or the pressure to appear “strong” while feeling anything but. Louise’s story is a testament to what’s possible when you stop shrinking and start living authentically.#podmatch Episode Chapters00:00 Journey of self-discovery and authenticity10:00 Facing cancer as a turning point19:59 Redefining strength and femininitySEO Keywordsself-discovery, authenticity, cancer journey, strength, femininity, ADHD, health anxiety, running, empowerment, personal growthSubscribe and Stay ConnectedSubscribe to the Flying Upstream newsletter and join a growing community of visionary souls, healers, and creativeshttps://flying-upstream.kit.com/5a525057c4Watch this episode on the Flying Upstream YouTube channelhttps://www.youtube.com/channel/UCru9Sle2Ms_tmgEL_Bo8ZaAExplore the Flying Upstream Bloghttps://flyingupstreamblog.com/blog/Follow Flying Upstream on social mediaFacebook: https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=61563051165826Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/flyingupstreampodcast/LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/company/flying-upstream-podcastTikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@flyingupstream

What if January isn’t meant to be a fresh start — but a moment to breathe?

In this solo episode of Flying Upstream, host Kristin Medeiros explores the intense and often unspoken pressure to reinvent yourself at the start of the new year. From goal-setting culture to “new year, new you” messaging, Kristin gently challenges the idea that growth must be loud, fast, or visible to be valid.

She speaks directly to those who feel tired, tender, or unsure — especially after a difficult year — and reminds listeners that survival is not failure. Growth doesn’t always come from dramatic transformations or bold declarations. Sometimes it comes from quiet honesty, self-reflection, and allowing yourself to move at your own pace.

This episode offers permission to pause, grieve past versions of yourself, and reconnect with what actually drains or energizes you — without judgment or pressure. It’s an invitation to choose depth over display and alignment over expectation.

If January feels heavy instead of hopeful, this conversation will help you feel less alone — and more grounded in who you already are.

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Episode Chapters

00:00 The pressure of reinvention in January
02:52 Challenging the myths of new beginnings
06:13 Honesty and self-reflection as foundations for growth
09:02 Navigating grief and unmet expectations
11:55 Choosing depth over display

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What if children are far more capable than we give them credit for?In this episode of Flying Upstream, host Kristin Medeiros sits down with Leah Ellis, founder of the Society of Child Entrepreneurs, alongside her children Melody Ellis and Serenity Ellis, for an inspiring conversation about youth entrepreneurship, creativity, and confidence.

Together, they explore what happens when children are encouraged to ask questions, solve real problems, and take ownership of their ideas — without age-based limitations. Leah shares how parents often project their own fears onto their children, while Melody and Serenity offer firsthand insights into what it’s like to start and run businesses at a young age.This episode highlights how entrepreneurship can be a powerful teaching tool for resilience, adaptability, financial literacy, and self-belief. From navigating challenges to embracing failure as part of the learning process, this conversation invites parents to step back, create space, and allow their children to explore what’s possible.If you’re a parent, educator, or entrepreneur who believes in raising confident, capable kids — this episode will expand your perspective on what children can achieve when they’re empowered early.#podmatch

Episode Chapters

00:00 Introduction to Flying Upstream
00:50 Empowering children as entrepreneurs
05:51 Leah Ellis’ journey with her children
11:59 Overcoming challenges in business
16:58 Encouraging creativity and problem solving
20:11 Final thoughts and messages for children

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What if the life you’re craving isn’t found by following the rules — but by trusting your instincts and taking the first small step?

In this episode of Flying Upstream, host Kristin Medeiros sits down with Ceri Stone for a compelling conversation about self-discovery, resilience, and choosing a life outside of societal expectations.

Ceri shares his extraordinary journey, from surviving a military coup to competing in Ironman races and cycling stages of the Tour de France. Along the way, he learned powerful lessons about problem-solving, mental health, and what it truly means to live authentically. Through his work in the travel industry and his deep commitment to endurance sports, Ceri discovered how pursuing passion, curiosity, and instinct can transform not just your body — but your entire outlook on life.

This episode explores how many people feel trapped in unfulfilling careers, disconnected from themselves, and unsure how to answer fundamental questions about happiness and self-acceptance. Ceri's story is a reminder that growth doesn’t require a dramatic leap — it begins with listening inward and taking one intentional step forward.

If you’re feeling restless, frustrated, or called toward something more meaningful, this conversation will inspire you to trust yourself and follow the path that feels true to who you are.

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Episode Chapters

00:00 Navigating life’s challenges and discovering your true self
11:51 The transformative power of endurance sports
18:31 Living authentically and following your instincts

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