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Friendships Unplugged

Friendships Unplugged

Written by: Iris
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Friendship is one of life’s greatest joys—and sometimes one of its hardest challenges. Friendships Unplugged is a podcast about adult friendships, authentic connections, and the ups and downs of human relationships.


Each episode dives into real stories and honest conversations about what it takes to make friends as an adult, set healthy boundaries, navigate conflict, and even let go of toxic friendships. We explore the laughter, the awkwardness, and the personal growth that come with building and sustaining close relationships.


If you’ve ever wondered how to find belonging, strengthen trust or hold lasting friendships, this podcast is for you. No clichés, no filters—just thoughtful reflections on what friendship really looks like in everyday life.


Unplug from the noise and join us as we explore the truth about connection, vulnerability, and the friendships that shape who we are.

© 2025 Friendships Unplugged
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Episodes
  • Rogier: intation and effort in friendships
    Mar 2 2026

    Iris interviews her friend Rogier, who flew from the Netherlands to Switzerland especially to record the podcast episode. They recount meeting as colleagues at a technology company and becoming friends after Iris drove to Austria to meet Rogier’s wife and newborn, leading to a tradition of family visits. Rogier values friendships that bring energy, growth, new perspectives, and depth beyond superficial conversation, and says friendships often fade when there isn’t enough shared direction. They discuss trust-building, loneliness arising from busyness and fear of vulnerability, and the meaninglessness of lacking connection, with examples from childhood social openness and Rogier’s Kilimanjaro trip. Rogier advises finding people through activities and sustaining bonds through intentional effort and small gestures, while balancing family and friendships.



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    49 mins
  • Fiona: asking for what you need in a friendship
    Nov 26 2025

    In this episode of 'Friendships Unplugged,' Fiona and Iris explore the dynamics of adult friendships, starting with their story of meeting as colleagues in Switzerland. Despite initial disagreements and personality differences, their mutual respect and dedication to their work fostered a lasting friendship. The conversation touches on the challenges and rewards of maintaining meaningful relationships, especially during times of personal growth and hardship. Fiona recounts their shared experiences, such as bonding over common interests and supporting each other during COVID-19 isolation. They discuss the importance of vulnerability, emotional intelligence, and intentionality in building deep connections. Fiona also shares practical advice for those struggling with loneliness, emphasizing the power of reaching out to others and the significance of small gestures like hugs. The episode highlights the value of diverse friendships across gender and cultural lines in enhancing understanding and support systems.

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    46 mins
  • Manu: sister from another mister
    Nov 11 2025

    In this lively episode of 'Friendships Unplugged,' the host welcomes Manu, one of her oldest and closest friends, to delve into their 26-year-long friendship. They recount hilarious and heartwarming memories, like meeting on a train, stealing a Christmas tree for a party, and facing life’s ups and downs together. Manu shares her perspective on what makes a friendship last, emphasizing mutual effort, kindness, and listening to your gut. The host and Manu discuss how they've learned from each other over the years—like setting boundaries and embracing directness—and offer advice for those feeling lonely or looking to deepen their connections. With stories that range from the mundane to the outrageous, this episode is a testament to the joy and value of true friendship.

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    43 mins
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