When you're dug in on the big issue and nothing's moving, the answer isn't to push harder. Find the smallest place you actually agree and start there.

For people whose divorce has turned into a fight. You've been trying to be reasonable with someone who isn't. This podcast is a system for getting through it without losing yourself.

Every episode fits into one of three phases: Get Clear, Get Going, Get Your Life Back. Start wherever you are. Nothing is out of order.

Corey Shapiro is a NYC divorce attorney. 25 years in family law. Child of divorce.

Book: mybook.gettingdivorced.org
1-on-1 Coaching with Corey: coaching.gettingdivorced.org

New episodes Thursdays during the season.

Audio and video editing by Chris Mottram. Recorded at Melrose Podcasts NYC.

For information and entertainment only. Not legal advice. Consult a licensed attorney in your jurisdiction.

When your spouse demands 50/50 after years of barely parenting, the urge to set them straight is overwhelming. That instinct is the trap.

For people whose divorce has turned into a fight. You've been trying to be reasonable with someone who isn't. This podcast is a system for getting through it without losing yourself.

Every episode fits into one of three phases: Get Clear, Get Going, Get Your Life Back. Start wherever you are. Nothing is out of order.

Corey Shapiro is a NYC divorce attorney. 25 years in family law. Child of divorce.

Book: mybook.gettingdivorced.org
1-on-1 Coaching with Corey: coaching.gettingdivorced.org

New episodes Thursdays during the season.

Audio and video editing by Chris Mottram. Recorded at Melrose Podcasts NYC.

For information and entertainment only. Not legal advice. Consult a licensed attorney in your jurisdiction.

The offer is outrageous. Your reaction is valid. Saying it out loud is the mistake. Here's the method that keeps you persuasive instead.

For people whose divorce has turned into a fight. You've been trying to be reasonable with someone who isn't. This podcast is a system for getting through it without losing yourself.

Every episode fits into one of three phases: Get Clear, Get Going, Get Your Life Back. Start wherever you are. Nothing is out of order.

Corey Shapiro is a NYC divorce attorney. 25 years in family law. Child of divorce.

Book: mybook.gettingdivorced.org
1-on-1 Coaching with Corey: coaching.gettingdivorced.org

New episodes Thursdays during the season.

Audio and video editing by Chris Mottram. Recorded at Melrose Podcasts NYC.

For information and entertainment only. Not legal advice. Consult a licensed attorney in your jurisdiction.

This episode breaks down why acting neutral in your divorce isn't about hiding your feelings, it's about protecting your case from a system that's already forming opinions about you. Corey walks through what happens when emotions take over, why credibility matters more than truth in court, and how to stop giving the other side ammunition.

For people whose divorce has turned into a fight. You've been trying to be reasonable with someone who isn't. This podcast is a system for getting through it without losing yourself.

Every episode fits into one of three phases: Get Clear, Get Going, Get Your Life Back. Start wherever you are. Nothing is out of order.

Corey Shapiro is a NYC divorce attorney. 25 years in family law. Child of divorce.

Book: mybook.gettingdivorced.org
1-on-1 Coaching with Corey: coaching.gettingdivorced.org

New episodes Thursdays during the season.

Audio and video editing by Chris Mottram. Recorded at Melrose Podcasts NYC.

For information and entertainment only. Not legal advice. Consult a licensed attorney in your jurisdiction.

You're not going to get what you want by pushing harder. The strategic shift shows you how to listen for what's really driving their position, so you can move them without a fight.

For people whose divorce has turned into a fight. You've been trying to be reasonable with someone who isn't. This podcast is a system for getting through it without losing yourself.

Every episode fits into one of three phases: Get Clear, Get Going, Get Your Life Back. Start wherever you are. Nothing is out of order.

Corey Shapiro is a NYC divorce attorney. 25 years in family law. Child of divorce.

Book: mybook.gettingdivorced.org
1-on-1 Coaching with Corey: coaching.gettingdivorced.org

New episodes Thursdays during the season.

Audio and video editing by Chris Mottram. Recorded at Melrose Podcasts NYC.

For information and entertainment only. Not legal advice. Consult a licensed attorney in your jurisdiction.

That custody win or perfect settlement you're fixated on may not deliver what you think it will. Before you commit to the fight, make sure you can stomach what it takes to get there.

For people whose divorce has turned into a fight. You've been trying to be reasonable with someone who isn't. This podcast is a system for getting through it without losing yourself.

Every episode fits into one of three phases: Get Clear, Get Going, Get Your Life Back. Start wherever you are. Nothing is out of order.

Corey Shapiro is a NYC divorce attorney. 25 years in family law. Child of divorce.

Book: mybook.gettingdivorced.org
1-on-1 Coaching with Corey: coaching.gettingdivorced.org

New episodes Thursdays during the season.

Audio and video editing by Chris Mottram. Recorded at Melrose Podcasts NYC.

For information and entertainment only. Not legal advice. Consult a licensed attorney in your jurisdiction.

You open a settlement offer on Friday afternoon and it's outrageous. Before you fire back, this episode gives you the Perspective Check: a way to borrow wisdom from your future self by asking how this will play out in 10 hours, 10 days, and 10 years.

For people whose divorce has turned into a fight. You've been trying to be reasonable with someone who isn't. This podcast is a system for getting through it without losing yourself.

Every episode fits into one of three phases: Get Clear, Get Going, Get Your Life Back. Start wherever you are. Nothing is out of order.

Corey Shapiro is a NYC divorce attorney. 25 years in family law. Child of divorce.

Book: mybook.gettingdivorced.org
1-on-1 Coaching with Corey: coaching.gettingdivorced.org

New episodes Thursdays during the season.

Audio and video editing by Chris Mottram. Recorded at Melrose Podcasts NYC.

For information and entertainment only. Not legal advice. Consult a licensed attorney in your jurisdiction.

The two traps people fall into when divorce hits their inbox: freezing and doing nothing, or retaliating with everything you've got. Corey breaks down why both backfire and walks through the strategic response that keeps you in control.

For people whose divorce has turned into a fight. You've been trying to be reasonable with someone who isn't. This podcast is a system for getting through it without losing yourself.

Every episode fits into one of three phases: Get Clear, Get Going, Get Your Life Back. Start wherever you are. Nothing is out of order.

Corey Shapiro is a NYC divorce attorney. 25 years in family law. Child of divorce.

Book: mybook.gettingdivorced.org
1-on-1 Coaching with Corey: coaching.gettingdivorced.org

New episodes Thursdays during the season.

Audio and video editing by Chris Mottram. Recorded at Melrose Podcasts NYC.

For information and entertainment only. Not legal advice. Consult a licensed attorney in your jurisdiction.