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Getting Out The Podcast

Getting Out The Podcast

Written by: Jesse Xander
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Raw, unfiltered, conversations and interviews filled with laughter.
Getting Out is Hosted By Me, Jesse Xander, Im a singer/songwriter, musician, and audio engineer…..oh yeah, I’m also an ex con and a recovering addict. I have 6 years clean from heroin. 3 of which were spent in prison, all during covid and locked down 24 hours a day for the majority of my time. So every day is a gift that I have to remind myself to even open.

I spent most of my young life in the Entertainment industry. I had the privilege to work with artists such as The Sugar Hill Gang, Biz Markie, Poppa Don, Inner Party System, and many others but I went down the wrong path. Before I knew it I was in sooo deep I didn't think id ever be able to GET OUT, let alone repair all the damage I caused. But I’m alive and I’m free.

I started Getting Out to tackle topics such as addiction, mental health and Prison Life-which comes with stories of loved ones passing and a lot of pain. But also stories of redemption and over coming. GETTING OUT gives us a chance to look at ourselves our past mistakes, and hopefully help someone that is dealing with something similar.. Or maybe you’re just interested in what prison life is like and want a good laugh? We got you.

Learn to laugh at the person you were, use your mistakes as your personal super power.
Only way past it….is THROUGH IT. So lets get out together!
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New VIDEOS every weekend so if you don’t see it here check our YouTube! But we will be posting a lot more audio only content this year. Thank you all for listening and watching


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Episodes
  • The Badge Was Real, The Love Was Counterfeit

    The Badge Was Real, The Love Was Counterfeit
    Jan 13 2026

    A badge can feel like a promise: safety, order, truth. Tirzah thought she found all three when a detective slipped her his number under the guise of neighborhood safety. What followed was a masterclass in manipulation—love-bombing, boundary testing, and a slow, steady shift from romance to control. We walk through the pivotal beats: on-duty pull-ups with her in the car, drinking on shift, and confidential case details shared like party trivia. He mapped out a future—house hunting, kids’ schools, marriage talk—while quietly moving the goalposts and keeping her on his schedule and on his terms.

    The most painful turns happen behind closed doors. Sex becomes leverage, not intimacy. Clear no’s are litigated into yes’s, and hesitations become accusations. He pressures her to quit a past life to “build a family,” then demands she reenter it to “fix” his finances, complete with degrading rules and a Total abuse of power. This is just the beginning of a long story that we dive DEEP into. NO PUN INTENDED. Lets Go! Episode 2 coming soon.....

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    Music By Jesse Alxander

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    New episodes every Friday. If you'd like to SUPPORT the show check out our Patreon and don't forget to check our YouTube for more content!

    Music by Jesse AlXander

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    1 hr and 6 mins
  • From Traffic Stop To Power Trip: How Policing Breeds Distrust

    From Traffic Stop To Power Trip: How Policing Breeds Distrust
    Jan 11 2026

    We examine a couple of traffic stops, like an older driver who refuses field sobriety tests yet offers to take a breathalyzer, but the cop refuses. He’s a little unsteady, his words slur a bit, and his life experience shows in his posture. BUT!

    None of that proves intoxication. We break down why field tests are easy to fail even when sober, how aging and disability skew “clues,” and why objective measures should come first when safety allows. Our take is simple: measure truth before you measure obedience. or Just measure their B.A.L using your BREATHALYZER!

    CONTACT US HERE

    Music By Jesse Alxander

    Support the show

    Join the family here! - https://www.patreon.com/GettingOutThePodcast
    Gettingoutthepodcast.com (under construction)
    Follow us on Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/gettingout_podcast/
    Stay tuned to twitch for streams - https://www.twitch.tv/gettingoutthepodcast
    Find all of our other links here - https://linktr.ee/gettingoutthepodcast


    New episodes every weekend. If you'd like to SUPPORT the show please subscribe, leave a comment or check out our Patreon. Don't forget to check our YouTube for more content!



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    15 mins
  • Timbaland's New A.I. Artist TATA

    Timbaland's New A.I. Artist TATA
    Nov 7 2025

    We return after loss and health scares to unpack a storm in music tech: AI tools that help creators versus AI “artists” that replace them. From layered kicks to lawsuits, we draw a line between inspiration and extraction and make a case for human craft and fair credit.

    • grief, resilience and why art matters
    • overview of Suno, Tata and Timbaland’s AI pivot
    • tool vs replacement in DAWs and production
    • voice cloning ethics and legacy boundaries
    • lawsuits over training data and catalog scraping
    • streaming thresholds, revenue squeeze and discoverability
    • producer craft: layering kicks, transient design, mix iteration
    • sampling norms, credit culture and registration basics
    • the KFresh beat case and public apologies
    • the band feeling, collaboration and live connection

    Keep listening if you want to hear the new song. The rest, you're gonna have to tune in to SoundCloud Jesse Xander or Alexander A-L-X-A-N-D-E-R.


    CONTACT US HERE

    Music By Jesse Alxander

    Support the show

    Join the family here! - https://www.patreon.com/GettingOutThePodcast
    Gettingoutthepodcast.com (under construction)
    Follow us on Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/gettingout_podcast/
    Stay tuned to twitch for streams - https://www.twitch.tv/gettingoutthepodcast
    Find all of our other links here - https://linktr.ee/gettingoutthepodcast


    New episodes every weekend. If you'd like to SUPPORT the show please subscribe, leave a comment or check out our Patreon. Don't forget to check our YouTube for more content!



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    1 hr and 23 mins
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