This week, Elle and Vee sit down with one of their favorite humans in the lifestyle, Bossy, for a hilarious, heartfelt, and wildly unfiltered conversation about friendship, non-monogamy, and unforgettable play party moments. From the infamous "George" strap-on to Slut Olympics, chosen family, and hosting an 85-person lifestyle birthday party, they share it all. But beneath all the filthy stories is an honest conversation about communication, community, and why the people you build around you matter just as much as the sex.

CHAPTERS
00:00 Meet Bossy and Welcome to the Orgy Committee

00:48 Two Women, First Time Double Penetration (DP)

08:41 Do You Like Cum in Your Mouth?

09:44 Dating Separately Without the Drama

12:45 How Did You Build Your Dream Lifestyle Friend Group

18:48 Slut Olympics and Lifestyle Shenanigans

23:51 When is Play Done if there is No Orgasm?

26:41 Meet George: Strap-Ons, Chemistry, and Mutual Attraction

31:23 Double Digits: Penetration with 10 or more people in the same night

32:21 Trying New Kinks With Trust: Flogging

36:05 The Golden Shower Peep Show

43:50 Big Orgies Vs Small Orgies: Pros and Cons

48:44 Bossy Shares Lifestyle Tips from her 10 Years ENM journey

50:35 Asking Your Partner These Questions

54:03 Rapid Fire: Threesomes 2 Women or 2 Men?, Gangbang, and Final Confessions

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This week, Elle and Vee sit down with Ross Lewin, founder of @embodi.men and creator of the Big Depth Energy Method, to unpack what modern masculinity actually looks like. They dive into why so many good men struggle with dating, how confidence gets confused with arrogance, and why consent, leadership, and emotional depth are the real turn-ons. From play parties and pickup artists to tantra, ENM, and healing men's relationship with themselves, this conversation challenges nearly everything we've been taught about attraction.

Chapters

(00:00) What Is Big Depth Energy?

(05:20) Ross's Confidence Journey

(08:00) The Pickup Artist Trap

(10:00) Nice Guys vs. Bad Boys

(14:00) Inside Big Depth Energy

(18:30) Authenticity Is Attractive

(22:10) Living Your "Fuck Yes"

(25:00) The Power of Female Friendships

(27:40) Approaching Without Pressure

(31:45) Should Women Make the First Move?

(36:30) The Art of the Invitation

(41:40) Why Men Don't Approach

(46:00) Receiving "No" Gracefully

(50:10) Respecting Boundaries

(54:35) Their Open Relationship

(59:20) Coming Back Together

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GUEST INFO

Guest: Ross Lewin
Website: Embodimen Big Depth Energy Method™
Instagram: @embodi.men
Vetted Online Community: Sacred Society
Creator Of: Affirmation Sluts - positive dirty talk.

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This week, Elle and Vee sit down with relationship coach and Polycurious host Fernanda Fabian to unpack one of the most misunderstood relationship dynamics: mono-poly relationships. Fernanda shares how she and her monogamous fiancé built a thriving partnership by moving painfully slow, prioritizing trust, and creating predictable check-ins that made difficult conversations feel safe. Together they explore jealousy, reassurance, boundaries, and why most couples sabotage openness by rushing past their nervous system's capacity. If you've ever wondered whether love can survive radically different relationship needs, this conversation will challenge everything you think you know.

CHAPTERS

00:00 - Wait... A Mono-Poly Relationship Actually Works?

11:32 - Building the Foundation Before the Poly Freedom

13:00 - The Biggest Mistake Couples Make When Opening Up and How to Avoid it.

20:19 - Check-Ins, Boundaries, and Hard Conversations to Build Trust

28:29 - Patience. Why waiting often gets you what you want faster than pushing

36:00 - Predictability Creates Safety

41:00 - What's In It for the Monogamous Partner? The Overlooked Truth

48:37 - Jealousy Isn't the Enemy

54:45 - Dating Monogamous People When You're Poly

Other Podcast Episode Mentions

• Vee on Polycurious Ep. 77 Kink, Power Dynamics & Knowing When to Walk Away with Vee from Girls Gone Deep
• Polycurious Ep. 12 She is Open, He is Not with Fer & Seth

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Website: Polycurious

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Podcast: Polycurious Podcast

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