In this episode, Shanie opens a new chapter by explaining the shift from Godly & Graceful to The God-Led Soft Life—why the foundation remains the same, but the language now better reflects the journey God is leading.

From there, we dive deep into the difference between who you truly are in Christ and who you learned to be through survival, expectations, culture, and past wounds. Many of us are living from identities we adapted, not identities God assigned—and that disconnect shows up in our relationships, decisions, and sense of peace.

This episode explores:

• The difference between God-given identity and learned behavior

• How false labels form and why they’re hard to release

• What Scripture says about who you are before performance, trauma, or approval

• How unlearning is part of healing and obedience

• What it really means to live a God-led soft life from a place of wholeness

If you’ve ever felt like you’re faithful but tired, strong but disconnected, or confident yet unsure of who you really are, this conversation is for you.

Take your time with this one. Reflect. Journal. Pray. And allow God to gently lead you back to yourself.

Until next time, remember this: wherever God plants you, bloom with grace. 🌱

What if the very thing God keeps bringing you back to is the thing He’s using to transform you? 🤍

In this episode of Godly & Graceful, we explore transformational relationships beyond people and into purpose. Through personal testimony, faith-based reflection, and biblical insight, we talk about how God redeems our work, passions, and callings to shape our character, confidence, and leadership.

This episode is for anyone who has felt stretched by responsibility, refined through discipline, or healed through service. If you’ve ever wondered why certain assignments follow you throughout life, this conversation will help you see them through a God-centered lens.

Grab your journal, settle in, and reflect on how God may be using your passion to prepare you for what’s next. 🌱

In this episode of Godly & Graceful, we’re having an honest heart check. 🤍

Are you doing things from love — or for love?

I reflect on what it means to show up in obedience while still being human, how growth often invites criticism, and why motive matters just as much as action. We talk about discernment in a culture that rewards emotional manipulation, the difference between serving and performing, and how fear doesn’t disqualify obedience.

This episode is for anyone navigating visibility, purpose, calling, or content with a tender heart and a desire to stay rooted in God rather than approval.

Come sit, reflect, and let God gently examine the why behind what you do.

🎧 Godly & Graceful
Where we embrace beauty, boldness, and biblical truth. 🌱