Being an ethnic minority can come with extra dating challenges - from unfair stereotypes to plain old prejudice. But are those externally imposed hurdles really the key factor holding you back?

In this episode...

• Why my race really WASN'T the issue with my dating struggles.

• The uncomfortable stereotypes Asian men face (and what I did).

• How to spot if you're blaming race instead of lacking skills.

• Why I'm grateful for discrimination in dating (controversial).

• How to accept an imperfect dating world and still date exactly who you want.

This episode is for anyone still struggling with those stubborn mental blocks to finding the partner they desire and deserve.

• The 9 mind viruses that made me undatable (and how I cured them)
• Why you need to stop consuming dating advice.
• The 5-minute face meditation that removed my anxiety around hot women.
• How staring at a woman’s photo could save your dating life.
• Why you secretly believe you don’t belong with attractive women (and how to fix it).

• Why working relentlessly to find dating success is a huge mistake.

• The counterintuitive path to massive personal change.

In this episode...

• The incredibly B.S. Billie Eilish quote about how men don't have to live up to any societal standards about their bodies.

• What research is revealing about what women ACTUALLY choose when it comes to their romantic partners (it's not dad bods).

• 3 painfully obvious ways women choose men based on appearances.

• Why even if Billie was right, this why no one wants her version of "nice".

• Why we need to stop the Oppression Olympics between genders.