In Season 2, Episode 6 of HS Brotherhood, hosts Parish and Joey get real about what it means to be an HS warrior both in and out of the workforce. This honest, vulnerable, and deeply relatable conversation explores the challenges men face when trying to balance chronic illness, work responsibilities, financial pressures, and personal identity.

Joey shares what it’s like to continue working full-time while managing unpredictable HS flares, the mental load of staying focused in a public safety role, and how supportive coworkers and accommodations have helped him keep going. Parish opens up about the emotional and financial reality of having to leave the workforce due to HS—and what it took to rebuild his confidence, rediscover purpose, and transition into advocacy.

Together, they unpack:
– The pressure men face to “push through” even when their bodies are struggling
– Embarrassing moments, stigma, and the fear of being misunderstood at work
– How to communicate with supervisors and advocate for accommodations
– The mental health toll of lost income, isolation, and identity changes
– The hope found in community, purpose, and reclaiming your story

This episode is for every man who has ever felt torn between showing up for others and taking care of himself, and for anyone who wants to better understand the reality of HS in everyday life.

🔗 Listen, share, and find community resources at: hsconnect.org

This podcast was made possible by Moonlake.

Parish and Joey join Brindley and Cyd for a deep, unfiltered conversation about what it means to be a man living with Hidradenitis Suppurativa. This crossover episode pulls back the curtain on the experiences most men carry silently—including the pressures of dating, showing up in relationships, managing health setbacks, and redefining what strength really looks like.

Inside this conversation, they dive into:
• The truth about dating with HS and deciding when to disclose
• Intimacy struggles men rarely admit—including fear, shame, and ED
• Losing independence and learning to accept help
• Challenging the idea that “providing = masculinity”
• Why the HS Brotherhood group matters—and how it’s creating a safe space for men to finally talk openly

If you’ve ever felt isolated or like no one understands what you’re carrying, this episode is a reminder: you’re not alone, and your story matters.

Learn more about HS Brotherhood and community resources at hsconnect.org.

This podcast was made possible by Moonlake.

Joey and Parish take listeners back to where it all started — the origins of The HS Brotherhood. From a simple idea sparked during an HS advocacy project to a thriving community of men supporting one another through honesty, humor, and healing, the brothers reflect on how this space came to life.

They share the real story behind the vision — from Joey’s early dream of reaching men through barbershop talks to the creation of a safe, judgment-free community where men with Hidradenitis Suppurativa (HS) can speak openly about pain, resilience, and growth.

This episode dives deep into:

• The birth of The Brotherhood and the passion behind its mission
• How advocacy and mentorship transformed both hosts’ lives
• Breaking the stigma around men’s health and vulnerability
• What it means to lead with heart, honesty, and brotherhood

It’s more than a conversation — it’s a look at how two advocates turned shared pain into purpose, creating a movement that’s helping men find strength in connection.

🎧 Listen now, and join The Brotherhood at hsconnect.org

This podcast was made possible by Moonlake.