• I Was Married To A P*RN ADDICT | HO4 Listener Letter Episode
    Jan 30 2026

    You read that title right!

    BUCKLE UP BESTIES WE'RE IN FOR A WILD RIDE!

    As promised, we're back with another listener letter straight from our HO4 (Hanging Out 4ever, duh lol) community

    This episode feels like that one Wendy Williams shook meme and we have major whiplash.

    This might be our favorite episode to date, we let loose, get a lil crazy and read some even crazier stories.

    Here's the stories we dive into today,

    1. Nasty Toenails
    2. I Was Married To A P*rn Addict
    3. (WE'RE GONNA LET THIS ONE BE A SURPRISE 🥵🫣👀)

    To submit your own listener letters clickhere

    If you wanna watch out live reactions to this episode, check us out on youtube!


    Comment Your Thoughts!

    Send us a text and let us know what y'all think on this one.
    Love you Besties!
    -Grant & Aja

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    56 mins
  • The Truth About KRISTY & DESMOND SCOTT
    Jan 20 2026

    OK BESTIES WE NEED TO HAVE A TALK..
    The news of Kristy and Desmonds divorce is SHAKING the internet and we're here to clear the air and share the truth behind relationship content creators and the SIDE EFFECTS of MONETIZING your love life

    Grant goes off on a rant, we discuss gender dynamics in the influencer space and as always, KEEP IT REAL

    Comment Your Thoughts!

    Send us a text and let us know what y'all think on this one.
    Love you Besties!
    -Grant & Aja

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    51 mins
  • Telling My Mom I'm Depressed ft Aja's Mom
    Jan 8 2026

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    Y'all know Aja is lowkey a crier. Her and her Mommy sit down in this episode to talk about Aja's childhood struggles with identity, self worth and depression. It's never easy talking about depression, let alone with your parents and even more so the entire world. Hopefully, this episode makes some of y'all feel seen and heard. People don't talk enough about what it's like being depressed, especially Women and you already know if it's happening, Aja's gonna talk about it.

    BTW, welcome to our first podcast of the year

    Let us know how you feel about this one Besties.

    P.S. Aja's a bit sniffly in this episode because as we said, she a crier lol SOWWY

    Send us a text and let us know what y'all think on this one.
    Love you Besties!
    -Grant & Aja

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    58 mins
  • A Very Naughty Christmas
    Dec 20 2025

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    Ho, ho, ho Besties! Welcome to our very first Christmas Special. We've swapped out Grant and Aja for Mr. & Mrs. Claus, and we get into in this episode sharing HOT questions and even HOTTER takes.
    Have we been naughty or nice this year? Have YOU? 👀 👀

    Send us a text and let us know what y'all think on this one.
    Love you Besties!
    -Grant & Aja

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    50 mins
  • I Was His Sidechick, NOT His Girlfriend
    Nov 13 2025

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    WE'RE CELEBRATING HITTING 50K FOLLOWERS ON INTSTAGRAM!!!!

    We're honoring this milestone by reading listener letters from our Besties once again. This episode is truly a rollercoaster and not the kind you'd expect.

    Buckle up babies, we're going for a ride.

    Thanks to these besties for submitting their stories to us.

    Friendly Reminder: The last letter is truly vulnerable and deep, so be kind on that one and give her some grace

    Let us know what y'all think about everything

    Have a story you wanna share, submit it here or scan/screenshot the QR code at the end
    https://form.jotform.com/hangingout4e...

    Send us a text and let us know what y'all think on this one.
    Love you Besties!
    -Grant & Aja

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    53 mins
  • WHY we're SCARED to HAVE KIDS | EP. 30
    Oct 31 2025

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    How do folks just be having kids, getting pregnant and acting all non-chalant about it? Grant and I are SUPER CHALANT. We're both nervous of becoming parents, and we're both terrified of the actual birthing process and changing our lifestyle to be more family/kid friendly.

    We get into everything from the dangers of pregnancy, to raising mixed kids and last but definitely not least– single motherhood and the fear of family curses.

    As per usual, when things get super deep, I cry. If there's anyone else out there worried about parenthood, we hope this helps because you are definitely not alone. That kind of commitment is scary– even if you're already a parent.

    Even though this is not a Halloween episode, this topic is def spooky for us.


    Send us a text and let us know what y'all think on this one.
    Love you Besties!
    -Grant & Aja

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    51 mins
  • What it's like DATING an ENTREPRENEUR
    Oct 17 2025

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    Ok, yall so some of you may know that back in March, Grant and I broke up because it felt like we couldn't get on the same page financially. But luckily we figured it out. In this EP we talk about dating as entrepreneurs and how money has played a major part in our relationship, our break up and us getting back together.

    In our 8+years together, we've definitely gone through it all but dating as entrepreneurs has been one of our biggest hurdles.

    and maybe the title is a lil dramatic but the point is, money definitely matters in a relationship.

    As always Besties, let us know your thoughts in the comments!

    Send us a text and let us know what y'all think on this one.
    Love you Besties!
    -Grant & Aja

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    55 mins
  • JEALOUSY in your RELATIONSHIP
    Jul 12 2025

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    Is jealousy always wrong in a relationship? If you meet a PG SD who wants to fund you and your man's lifestyle, are y'all entertaining it? 👀 After a few funerals, when do they become considered family functions? 😭
    We get into all of it in this episode!!

    Let us know your thoughts in the comments, especially on the SD stuff, Aja's tryna see sumn 👀👀

    Send us a text and let us know what y'all think on this one.
    Love you Besties!
    -Grant & Aja

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    1 hr