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Hardcore and At Ease - powered by Others Over Self®

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 How come some people are always winning? Like they're just running downhill, loving life, while others of us are over here thinking, "if I take a break, everything will break." Are you delivering results from a constant state of urgency? And are you tired of feeling like you're the only one who actually cares about doing exceptional work? The Problem Most Leadership Advice Won't Solve: You're not broken, you're just Hardcore without being At Ease. While leadership wisdom is timeless, today's ambitious leaders face unique modern challenges that require ancient principles applied through current experience. Hardcore and At Ease gives you timeless wisdom applied to modern leadership challenges. Host Shelly Rood and her guests are actively leading teams, building organizations, and implementing proven frameworks right now—bridging ancient principles with current implementation. Join candid conversations with people who are obsessed with excellence as we share what to do every day to minimize stress, make smarter decisions, and finally get the people around us to match our energy. These are raw, candid conversations with current leaders who've figured out how to harness their drive as a competitive advantage. We'll explore how to keep your edge without going over the edge, why your ambition is your greatest asset but can become your biggest liability without the right approach, and how to finally get people to match your energy without burning them out. You'll hear about the Others Over Self® advantage that multiplies impact instead of just creating results, and discover the difference between working harder and working with unstoppable impact. This isn't surface-level business advice. Drawing from 16 years in Military Intelligence and active leadership experience, Shelly addresses the moral, spiritual, and existential challenges high-performers face—from survival guilt and hyper-vigilance to the stigma around seeking help when you're supposed to be the strong one. About Your Host: Shelly C. Rood is a certified business coach, former Military Intelligence Captain, and current leader who's walked the path from frustrated urgency to authentic confidence. She specializes in applying timeless leadership principles to modern team challenges—implementing the Hardcore and At Ease Framework with real teams facing real challenges. Join the thousands of mission-driven leaders who have figured out how to keep their edge without going over the edge. Connect with this community at join.othersoverself.com where you can dive deeper into past episodes, ask questions, and get direct access to additional resources. New episodes every Tuesday.Copyright 2026 Mission Ambition, LLC Economics Management Management & Leadership Philosophy Social Sciences
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  • Double Middle Fingers and a Homecoming

    Double Middle Fingers and a Homecoming
    May 12 2026
    Episode 47 — Adam Castillo: "Double Middle Fingers and a Homecoming"

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    You gave everything to a country that claimed to want you back. So what do you do when it doesn't make room for you? You build something they can't take back. And then you come home.

    Adam Castillo came home from Afghanistan ready to work. Corporate America hung the banners. Hire a hero. And then wouldn't get him through the door for a warehouse supervisor interview. So he gave it double middle fingers, packed up, and moved to one of the most dangerous places on earth. What he built there, and who he became, is the kind of story that reframes everything you thought you knew about rejection, reinvention, and what it means to finally come home.

    In this episode, United States Marine and combat veteran Adam Castillo breaks down what happens when the system hands you something that was never actually meant for you, how anger becomes either your exit or your engine, and what a man carries back after twelve years of building in a war zone. This is leadership in crisis. This is the American spirit abroad. This is Hardcore and At Ease.

    In This Episode
    • Why corporate America's "hire a hero" movement felt like a betrayal to returning veterans in 2012-2013
    • How Adam channeled post-service rejection into building a security company in Myanmar that employed thousands
    • What it means to lead a business community through a military takeover with no playbook
    • The VA claim he didn't file for over a decade, and the all-night sign-up in Bangkok that changed everything
    • Why faith and a fellow veteran's words became the turning point
    • What he is carrying back to Riverside, California, and why it fits this time

    Featured Guest

    Adam Castillo is a United States Marine, combat veteran of Afghanistan, author, and founder of a security company in Myanmar that employed thousands at its peak. He served as president of the American Chamber of Commerce in Myanmar, leading the American business community through a military takeover and years of crisis. After more than twelve years abroad, he is returning home to California with a mission to invest in the community that raised him.

    Next Episode

    Episode 48 — Solo. Shelly gets into the process of tying up loose ends on the road to publishing a book: what the journey looks like from the inside, what she has learned, and what is coming next.

    Resources Mentioned
    • Finding Our Voice: A Story of Leadership in Crisis and the American Spirit Abroad by Adam Castillo — Available now: https://a.co/d/05WGMqAe
    • Mission Wildflower on Substack — Women veteran stories and additional content: https://shellyrood.substack.com

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    1 hr and 2 mins
  • Built for a Different Body: How to Claim the Skills Nobody Documented

    Built for a Different Body: How to Claim the Skills Nobody Documented
    May 5 2026
    Episode 46: "Built for a Different Body: How to Claim the Skills Nobody Documented"Hardcore and At Ease | Powered by Others Over Self®You did the work. You figured it out. Everyone celebrated the result and nobody asked how you got there. If that sounds familiar, this episode is going to hit somewhere specific.In this solo episode, Shelly Rood breaks down what happens when you perform a standard inside a system that was never fully designed for your reality, and what it actually means to claim the full value of what that demanded from you. This is not a conversation about fairness. It is about intelligence, accuracy, and owning what you bring to the table.Using a vivid story from her Army days, Shelly unpacks the difference between a tactical executor and a strategist, why the people who do both rarely get credit for either, and how a three-step inventory process gives you the confidence to stop leaving your own value on the table. If you have ever been told to "just figure it out" and did, this episode is your high five.Chapters00:00 Welcome and Promise01:40 Ruck March Gear Story04:09 The Invisible Gap07:07 Executor vs. Strategist10:40 Name the Design Gap15:35 Three Moves to Claim Your ValueKey TopicsThe design gap: what it is, what it is not, and why naming it changes everythingWhy your competence has been keeping your own gap invisibleThe difference between a tactical executor and a strategist, and why most high performers are doing both without credit for eitherThe military phrase that runs entire organizations, and the real problem with itThree moves to take your inventory, separate terrain from identity, and pass your knowledge forwardWhy self-blame and resentment both come from the same unaddressed rootNext WeekEpisode 47 features Adam Castillo, United States Marine and combat veteran of Afghanistan, who came home and watched corporate America run hire-a-hero campaigns without giving him an interview. He left. He built a security company from the ground up in Myanmar that employed thousands, led the American Chamber of Commerce through a military coup, and is now coming home to Riverside, California. His book Finding Our Voice: A Story of Leadership in Crisis is available now through Lioncrest Publishing.Resources MentionedMission Wildflower on Substack — The article this episode is based on, plus additional women veteran stories: shellyrood.substack.comFinding Our Voice by Adam Castillo — Available now https://a.co/d/05WGMqAeLearn MoreHardcore and At Ease Framework: https://www.OthersOverSelf.comPersonal Mission Statement Workshop: info@missionambition.orgBook a Strategy Session: info@missionambition.orgAffiliate Disclaimer: I only recommend products I genuinely use. Full disclosure: https://othersoverself.com/affiliate-disclaimer/Get the Gear📊 My Business Report: https://hardcore-and-at-ease.captivate.fm/biz-report 🎯 StoryBrand.ai: https://hardcore-and-at-ease.captivate.fm/storybrand-ai 📚 Business Made Simple: https://hardcore-and-at-ease.captivate.fm/bms 🚀 Flight School: https://hardcore-and-at-ease.captivate.fm/flight-school 📈 My Marketing Report: https://hardcore-and-at-ease.captivate.fm/marketing-reportListenApple Podcasts | Spotify | YouTube: https://hardcore-and-at-ease.captivate.fm/listen othersoverself.com/podcastConnectLinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/company/missionambition/ Instagram: @TheShellyRood https://www.instagram.com/othersoverself/ Twitter/X: @OthersOverSelf Email: info@missionambition.org Community: join.othersoverself.comRate and review on Apple Podcasts — it takes 60 seconds and helps more mission-driven leaders find the show.Work with ShellyOne-on-One Coaching | Personal Mission Statement Workshop | Team Training Book a discovery call: info@missionambition.orgAbout Your HostShelly Rood is a former U.S. Army Reserve Captain of Military Intelligence, Distinguished Military Graduate, and broadcast television executive. She is the founder of Mission Ambition, LLC, creator of the Others Over Self® mindset, and host of Hardcore and At Ease. New episodes every Tuesday.Subscribe: https://othersoverself.com/hardcore-and-at-ease/ Community: join.othersoverself.comHardcore and At Ease is powered by Others Over Self®.
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    22 mins
  • How to Prove Your Value So Others Carve Out a Place for You

    How to Prove Your Value So Others Carve Out a Place for You
    Apr 28 2026
    Episode 45 — Angie Lommen: "How to Prove Your Value So Others Carve Out a Place for You"You have been putting in the work. Doing more than was asked. Saying yes before you had all the answers. And somehow nobody seems to notice until they can't afford to lose you.In this conversation, a 26-year defense industry leader pulls back the curtain on what it looks like to build a career by proving value so consistently that other people start creating roles around you. This is not about self-promotion. It is about standard-setting so quiet and complete that Boeing pointed at her and told their own team: that's what good looks like.Angie Lommen spent her career at BAE Systems rising from contracts team leader to program director overseeing the Bradley Fighting Vehicle program. She never had the full picture ahead of her. She had a standard. And it turned out that was enough.CHAPTERS00:00 Clarity Through Motion03:46 From North Dakota to New Direction05:35 Biology Failure to Contracting Breakthrough13:48 BAE Systems Rise and Becoming the Standard29:36 Health Scare and Comeback30:40 Career Shakeup New Path35:37 Family Support and Finding Why39:20 Michigan Move Legacy and Giving BackIn this episode you'll discover:✓ Why saying yes before you know how is a career strategy, not a gamble✓ The difference between mentors and advocates, and which one actually moves you forward✓ How to find your why before the hard seasons hit, so it can hold you when they do✓ What it looks like to build a career on standards instead of a planFeatured Guest Angie Lommen, PMP — Retired Program Director, BAE Systems Connect: linkedin.com/in/angielommenLearn More: Hardcore and At Ease Framework: https://www.OthersOverSelf.com Personal Mission Statement Workshop: info@missionambition.org Book a Strategy Session: info@missionambition.orgAffiliate Disclaimer: I only recommend products I genuinely use. Full disclosure: https://othersoverself.com/affiliate-disclaimer/Get the Gear: 📊 My Business Report: https://hardcore-and-at-ease.captivate.fm/biz-report 🎯 StoryBrand.ai: https://hardcore-and-at-ease.captivate.fm/storybrand-ai 📚 Business Made Simple: https://hardcore-and-at-ease.captivate.fm/bms 🚀 Flight School: https://hardcore-and-at-ease.captivate.fm/flight-school 📈 My Marketing Report: https://hardcore-and-at-ease.captivate.fm/marketing-reportListen: Apple Podcasts | Spotify | YouTube | https://othersoverself.com Connect: Instagram: @TheShellyRood | join.othersoverself.com | info@missionambition.org Work with Shelly: One-on-One Coaching | Personal Mission Statement Workshop | Team Training — info@missionambition.orgMentioned in this episode:"Violent Positivity," by Doug "Odie" Slocum  📍 www.violentpositivity.comNotion Design Group - Sites That Drive Sales notiondesigngroup. com
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    1 hr and 6 mins
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