Welcome back to Hot Magical and Human. After a two-year hiatus, I'm returning to share what happened during that time - a period that fundamentally reshaped both who I am and the work I now do in the world. period of my life. I went through what I can only describe as an external dark night of the soul - a complete crumbling that forced me to rebuild from the ground up.

Two years ago, I thought I was on an upswing. I was building my business, creating community, making impact, and starting to live the life I'd always dreamed of. Then everything changed. I lost my sense of safety, my job, my mom, and had to navigate grief in a way I never imagined possible.

But here's what I learned: even in our darkest moments, even when life is messy and hard, we can still build a rich, aligned life. We can carry both the grief and the joy. And with the right tools - simple, sustainable, strategic tools - we can find our way back to our heart magic.

Today, I'm sharing my story of the past two years, the collapse, the rebuilding, and the emergence. I'm talking about what it means to trust the flow, to find miracles in the darkness, and to build a life that's truly aligned with who we are at our core.

Through this journey, I've discovered exactly who I'm here to serve: the "I can't do one thing" humans—the ambitious, multi-faceted people who need to build an entire ecosystem around their passions and purpose. Offering cohort-based coaching to help generalists shine in their aligned ecosystems, I'm creating a community called Oui Gather for IRL connection, and I've developed a program called Heart Magic—because I believe we're all on a journey either toward or away from our heart magic, our truth, our most authentic selves.

I've changed. I'm softer in some ways, more courageous in others. I just turned 50, and I'm finally living unapologetically as myself. And I'm here to help you do the same—to get closer to your heart magic and build the rich, aligned life you're meant to live.

So let's begin <3

00:00 A Fresh Start After Two Years

01:06 The Dark Night of the Soul

04:54 Facing External Challenges Like Global Antisemitism

10:35 Navigating Grief and Loss

12:29 Rebirth and Resilience

14:27 Rich aligned life.

16:47 Building a New Ecosystem

20:39 Heart Magic and Authenticity

25:03 Emerging with Confidence

You can reach me

www.sherizahava.com

@sherizahava

www.ouigather.co

@ouigather

🔥 Here it is, this special conversation with Sigute.

🎙️ We talked about embracing our multi-passionate self and living our most authentic lives - connected to your unique power and gifts. That radiant energy, taking up the space for it and embracing all the parts of fullest self. It was such an inspiring and empowering discussion.Here are some key highlights from the episode:

✨ Being multi-passionate is sexy. It's about pulling all parts of yourself and radiating at a whole new level.

✨ “Not being afraid to define your path and be perfectly imperfect in the process, know what you want and define your desires. How to get comfy in that process.

✨Learning to trust ourselves and rewriting our narratives and stories in a more aligned way and this is a hard process

✨ Income diversification and breaking free from the traditional linear path and also creating income paths and independence. "Being multi-passionate is an F you to capitalism as we know it."

✨ “Find your spiritual practice that makes you feel hot and connected to your power. For me, it's exercise and sweating."

There is amazing advice how to show up when it feels scary and you don’t see your full hotness yet to….how to OWN that and tools to manage the resistance and create the container that fits where you are now.

We celebrate you and your multi passionate self and the bravery of the journey in this episode.

About Sigute

Sigute Zitikyte is a Personal Brand Consultant, Certified Business Coach, and runs a group program called: Multi-Passionate Mastermind for professionals who want to launch their side hustle.She is the author of Multi-Passionate: How to Claim Your Identity and Radiate as a Multi-Passionate in a Linear World.She writes a weekly column, The Friday Newsletter, that helps ambitious professionals find their voice, build a career off the beaten path, and finally embrace their multi-passionate selves.Sigute has worked with world-class companies, including Shopify and Mindvalley. During this time, she started a consulting “side hustle” that quickly turned full-time and allowed her to retire from corporate.

Sigute has consulted for hundreds of online business owners and helped launch and grow multiple 7-figure businesses, including Dharma Coaching Institute and Evercoach by Mindvalley, as well as numerous creative projects for visionaries, including bestselling books and podcasts in the personal transformation space.As a former “secretly ambitious” professional herself, Sigute launched her coaching business during The Great Resignation of 2021 as a way to support the wave of professionals who began building non-traditional careers online. Her mission has grown to help professionals reclaim power over their careers and to begin unleashing their multi-passionate selves through a strong online presence.

Website where you can also sign up for her newsletter and connect to linkedin and instagram https://sigutezitikyte.com

Don't forget to like, share and rate this episode and Hot, Magical and Human! ❤️‍🔥

My first guest is my friend and spicy Libra sister Pearly. We immediately got juicy and dove into amazing topics from kink to community. Make sure to catch the “homework” we provide (there are 3 moment!) and how she makes kitchen witching sexy AF. NOT TO BE MISSED. In this episode, we delve into some seriously juicy topics:

• The societal conditioning that often teaches women to be small and humble.
• Receive their worth and abundance.
• The art of receiving
• Tips for abundance and being able to receive
• Talking about how that women are often pressured to shrink themselves and not take up space, which can result in a "shrink yourself complex."
• Encourage women to challenge these norms and their value
• Dominant personalities who often find themselves in leadership positions.
• The challenges that come with being dominant, such as constantly outputting creative energy and being relied upon by others.
• What it means to shift into submissive dynamics in the bedroom.
• Discussing it as a beautiful realm where they feel safe enough to trust and let go.
• How dominant/submissive dynamics can help dominant personalities find balance and tap into their more feminine side.
• How he dominant role is not limited to a specific gender, but rather an energy that can be embodied by anyone.
• Valuing and appreciating the creative contributions of others and ensuring they are paid their worth
• They emphasize that paying others their worth fosters fairness and supports the well-being of all involved.
• Earning money is not inherently wrong, but it becomes problematic when it is used to perpetuate toxic behaviors like overworking or overpowering others.
• We chat about creating empowering and supportive spaces.
• How to create safe environments for full expression and growth - Pearly talks about her garage sessions

AND MORE! 00:02:00 Embrace receiving and self-love. 00:05:47 Exploring kinks creates safe spaces. 00:15:59 Embrace the power of kink. 00:17:26 Kink is a form of self-expression. 00:22:49 Reclaiming pleasure and self-awareness. 00:30:57 Empowering photo sessions boost confidence. 00:31:56 Hotness is embracing our wholeness. 00:37:10 Women supporting women is essential. 00:42:27 Define your wealth goals with compassion. 00:49:01 Embrace pleasure without shame. 00:56:19 Embrace your authentic magnetism. 00:58:27 Embrace self-love and daily rituals. 01:04:08 Building connections for growth and connection.

You can get in touch with Pearly on her website: https://www.pearly.media

Instagram:

https://www.instagram.com/pearly.media/

https://www.instagram.com/pearllyyb/

Discover the profound connection between self-love, ritual, and how dressing intentionally can elevate your daily life. I am so excited to explore this fave topic of mine with tomorrow being love day - the sacredness of adornment, the spiritual significance of dressing each day, and how you can embody confidence, worth and magnetism through this amazing act of self love that can ripple out so profoundly...and why not feel sexy in the process.

In this episode we explore:

• The concept of "sacred adornment" and its ancient roots
• How dressing is a daily ritual that grounds and elevates us
• The role of intention behind clothing choices, especially in winter ❄️
• The significance of self-care rituals like jewelry, makeup, and body oiling
• How dressing well can activate your queen or king royalty energy
• The power of presence and self-love to attract abundance and magnetism
• Practical tips for shopping your closet and creating rituals at home
• The spiritual layers beneath physical adornment and how it reflects inner magic

Timestamps:

00:00 - Introduction: Celebrating Love Month and the art of sacred adornment

00:35 - How we dress influences our energy and intentions

01:12 - The magic of shopping for something special and its significance

02:20 - Intentionality behind buying and wearing sexy or sacred clothes

03:08 - Ancient traditions considering the body a vessel of the soul

04:17 - Rituals of adornment in historical contexts

05:42 - Daily dressing as a spiritual practice and self-care ritual

07:14 - Personal dressing routines that connect to self-worth

09:16 - How dressing creates magnetism and attraction

10:17 - The importance of feeling powerful and embodied

11:33 - Celebrating self-love and self-adornment during love month

13:00 - Honoring late loved ones and lessons about love and self-acceptance

15:12 - Practical advice: shopping your wardrobe and creating mindful routines

16:33 - The ritual of oiling the body

17:05 - Outer reflection of inner magic and embracing your full self

Enjoy your Love Month by honouring your sacred vessel through intentional dressing and this amazing act of self-love.

Connect with Sheri Zahava:

• Instagram
• sherizahava.com

This first love month episode really tunes right into the heart. Discover how embracing the power of your heart can transform your life, deepen your relationships, and unlock abundant possibility. In this episode, I share the signature method I created called Heart Magic, Rooted in spiritual tradition and modern science, I hope it helps you access a rich aligned feel good life - even when it feels messy.

Key Topics:

• The concept of Heart Magic and its origins from my most challenging life season
• The heart as the gateway to your true self, divine connection, and purpose
• The energetic and spiritual significance of the heart center in awakening joy and bliss
• Practical techniques: meditation, visualization, and gratitude to deepen heart coherence
• The science behind heart resonance, reducing cortisol, and improving clarity
• The five-stage process of heart awakening as outlined by Kimberly Snyder, from disconnection to manifestation
• How integrating heart intelligence enhances leadership, success, and relationships
• The importance of gratitude, especially during challenging times, as a catalyst for transformation
• The unifying power of connecting outer light with inner light in Kabbalah

Timestamps:

00:00 - Introduction to heart magic and its life-changing potential

02:24 - The role of intentionality in opening the heart energetically

05:05 - Understanding the spiritual heart and its connection to purpose

06:58 - Using heart awareness to find peace amidst life’s chaos

08:10 - The heart chakra as a bridge between daily life and divine connection

10:28 - The cave of inner wisdom within the heart

12:15 - Practicing heart coherence through breath and meditation

14:07 - Heart resonance as a superpower for leaders and high achievers

16:34 - Kimberly Snyder’s five-stage heart awakening process

18:12 - Applying ancient wisdom in everyday life for heart coherence

19:08 - Expanding your vessel for abundant manifestation

22:06 - Relationships as reflections of your heart-based self-love

24:30 - Navigating heart-centered endings and new beginnings

25:15 - Simple daily practices: gratitude, visualization, and divine connection

27:06 - Lessons from spiritual texts on cultivating gratitude in adversity

30:18 - The fusion of outer light and inner light in Kabbalah

Connect with Sheri Zahava:

• Instagram
• sherizahava.com
• Linkedin

Explore how tuning into your intuition and embracing everyday moments of awe can lead to greater success and fulfillment. This episode delves into the significance of simple pleasures and how they can deepen your connection with yourself and others, guiding you toward a more fulfilled and abundant life.

Key Topics

• The spiritual meaning of kissing as a soul and divine connection
• How moments of awe amplify intuition and presence
• The role of curiosity and openness in embracing magic
• Bridging intuition with clarity to navigate uncertainty
• Practical exercises to strengthen your inner guidance and receive more abundance
• The importance of regulation and safety in growth and expansion
• How symbolism like rainbows can serve as validation and signs from the universe
• Personal stories about recognizing and receiving divine signs
• Aligning your vision, messaging, and energy for entrepreneurial success
• Using fun, simple practices to amplify abundance and inner knowing

Timestamps

00:00 - The mystical connection between kissing and the soul

02:10 - Reflecting on the Song of Songs and divine love through physical touch

03:00 - The importance of presence and intuition in daily life

05:04 - Building intuition as a muscle through attention and curiosity

06:59 - The story of noticing a massive rainbow alone on the street

08:33 - Seeing opportunities and signs through the lens of divine kissing and intuition

09:12 - Clarifying that intuition is about certainty in uncertainty

10:46 - Demystifying intuition as a practical, everyday tool

11:51 - The bridge between magic, clarity, and success

12:33 - The role of growth discomfort and regulation in expanding capacity

14:35 - Using signs like rainbows as divine validation for your path

15:12 - Expanding your container for abundance through clarity and presence

16:29 - How vision creates certainty and aligns your success system

17:03 - Practical example: recognizing your needs and seeking the right tools

18:15 - The importance of working with mentors and embodying knowledge

20:29 - Personal growth through clarity in messaging and leveraging intuition

22:28 - Simple practices to cultivate awe, gratitude, and abundance recognition

24:37 - Creating personal symbols (signal words) to acknowledge signs and multiply abundance

25:04 - Closing thoughts: embrace pleasure, joy, and divine connection in daily life

Connect with Sheri Zahava

• LinkedIn
• Instagram
• Website

In this first episode of the Hot, Magical & Human podcast, I explore the concept of "hotness". We look beyond the physical and explore the je ne sais quoi of those magentic beings that own a room when they walk in - by energy alone.

The fashion is a bonus.

I discuss how hotness is an energy that radiates from within and captivates others. Emphasizing the importance of authenticity on that hotness journey and how it’s a quality everyone has within.

This podcast aims to help you connect with your own unique magic and essence.I discuss the importance of healing and peeling back the layers that have built up over the years due to conditioning and societal expectations.

Embracing one's authentic self is crucial for living a fulfilling and purposeful life. I discuss how our heart's desires and purpose are interconnected, and it is what makes us connected to the world. Everyone's version of their purpose may be different, I especially speak to the multidimensional hotties.

I share my own experience of embracing my multidimensionality and bringing all the different aspects of herself together. I talk about how I learned to combine my loves business, travel, event planning while also honouring the shadows. How I initally compartmentalized these different aspects of my life, but I eventually realized that I could integrate them all to create even bigger success and impact than ever!

Tune in to discover the juicy secrets to living your full hotness and embracing your true Self and unique expression and self discovery. It’s not a linear journey and we get to take it together.

[00:00:21] Hotness and presence in rooms.

[00:01:49] Embrace your authentic hotness.

[00:05:56] Shifting from sexy to spiritual.

[00:07:29] Living within your heart.

[00:11:11] Embrace your multidimensional self.

[00:13:08] Living authentically and better orgasms.

[00:14:36] Embracing personal growth and transformation.

[00:15:47] Embrace pleasure and spirituality.

I am really excited to re-launch my podcast with my amazing friend Alli.

She is a powerhouse business coach that turns corporate leaders into successful coaches on Linkedin. Reducing the fear of change while increasing the pathway to success.

Inspired by lifestyle and driven by results, she shares her truly magic formula with us.

it's been proven by the many ambitious people she has heralded from corporate to 30k months. She's an indisputable sales queen with her background in sales leadership at Salesforce which she forfeited for her dream of lifestyle entrepreneurship. That journey started in Costa Rica where she also found and rescued her sweet dog Nacho.

She influences many on Linkedin with her direct value driven expression and has proven that not only is niche-ing not scary but in her eyes essential to success.

I love this episode because you really get to meet and hear Alli in all of her hilarious no bs wisdom.

[00:02:20] Authenticity in personal branding.

[00:04:42] Business coaching transition fears.

[00:09:29] Passion vs. Market Needs.

[00:12:00] Value-based entrepreneurship and abundance mindset.

[00:15:50] Scarcity vs. Abundance Mindset

[00:18:15] Scarcity mindset in entrepreneurship.

[00:23:16] Scarcity shows up at every stage.

[00:27:36] Community and connection building.

[00:29:34] Start before you're ready.

[00:32:13] Start before you're ready.

[00:35:51] Thought leadership and resilience.

[00:39:57] Market research through coaching calls.

[00:44:02] Provider identity in financial advising.

[00:48:02] What makes you feel hot?

[00:52:18] Travel destinations and experiences.

[00:53:59] Entrepreneurial living and growth.

Alli Rizacos is a LinkedIn Business Coach, turning corporate leaders into successful coaches on Linkedin. She comes from a long background in sales, working at Salesforce for 8 years. She quit in 2021 to start her coaching business and has been successful launching 2 coaching business and over $1.2M, all from her LinkedIn brand. She’s also a Virgo, Enneagram 3 and Projector…she means business but can see the imposter syndrome behind every business owner. She’s also a nomad, splitting her time between Canada and hot sunny places in the winter. She’s a dog mom to Nacho, a Costa Rican rescue she brought back after living in Costa Rica

You can find her on Linkedin

https://www.linkedin.com/in/allirizacos/

https://www.allirizacos.com

Note: this was recorded a few months ago but super aligned still.