What does it actually mean to be an advocate, in a way that’s biblical, practical, and rooted in love?

In today’s episode, I’m joined by Shirley Chancellor, and this conversation will expand your view of advocacy far beyond something “formal” or “public.” Shirley breaks it down in a way that feels doable in everyday life: coming alongside someone with wisdom, encouragement, prayer, and support without slipping into rescuing, controlling, or taking over.

Together, we talk about:

• Why Shirley chose the character trait Advocate

• The difference between being an advocate vs. being a rescuer

• What advocacy looks like in real life (parenting, education, friendships, church, and even advocating for yourself)

• Why prayer is one of the most powerful forms of advocacy

• How advocacy is always connected to love, discernment, and heart posture

• When you may not be the person someone needs and how to handle that with wisdom and peace

• One practical piece of advice Shirley gives every woman who wants to live as an advocate this week

This episode is part of Season 4 of the In Her Image Podcast: Formed — Becoming Who God Made You To Be, where we explore the character traits of the Proverbs 31 woman and rediscover identity through God’s nature moving from performance to formation.

📖 The In Her Image Podcast is rooted in my book, In Her Image — a 31-day Proverbs 31 devotional focused on one trait at a time, with space for reflection and real-life application.
You can order the book on Amazon or your favorite online bookstore. If you’re in the US, you can also get a signed copy directly from my website.

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Until next time… keep becoming who God made you to be. 🤍

Connect with Shirley Chancellor

Website: shirleychancellor.com

Facebook: @shirleychancellor2020

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