How do you know if you're actually ready to get engaged? Love alone is not enough to build a healthy marriage, so before you get engaged, make sure chemistry isn’t masking deeper compatibility or commitment issues.In this episode of The Engagement Edit Podcast, we’re covering a story that proves this, and diving into what relationship psychology says about moving too fast in a serious relationship.We’ll walk through:* Why intense relationships can create emotional whiplash* The difference between love and long-term compatibility* Fearful avoidant attachment patterns in engagement* How societal pressure affects relationship timelines* Why “being in love” is not the same as being ready for marriageBecause before you say yes to a proposal — or start planning a wedding — you need clarity, not just chemistry. Marriage is a legal, emotional, and lifelong commitment. Love is essential, but it is not the only requirement.If you're navigating engagement doubts, commitment anxiety, or relationship red flags, this conversation will help you slow down and evaluate what you're actually building.🎯 TIMESTAMPS:00:00 - The Reddit Story Preview01:44 - Redefining Engagement Qualifications05:48 - The Heartbreak Effect08:38 - Fearful Avoidant Attachment10:36 - Making Everything a "Moment"12:07 - When the Commitment Becomes Real13:37 - The Pressure From All Angles16:59 - The Relationship Lesson You Should Take Away🖥️ Original Reddit Post: https://www.reddit.com/r/relationship_advice/comments/1p8ko4z/i_35m_need_advice_on_my_fiancée_32f/RESEARCH MENTIONED📚 Distinguishing Dismissing From Fearful Attachment in the Association Between Closeness and Commitment: https://journals.sagepub.com/doi/10.1177/1948550618768823🌎GET CONNECTEDEmail: hello@blissfullyhitched.comTikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@the.engagement.editInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/the.engagement.editStan.Store: https://stan.store/theengagementedit🎧 Music: Whiskey Ginger by Dylan Sitts The Engagement Edit Podcast features deep-dives into engagement stories and turns them into relationship lessons you can learn from.New episodes every Thursday → FOLLOW so you don't miss the next one.#relationshipadvice #engagementadvice #commitmentissues #attachmentstyles #marriageprep