Do you feel anxious after setting a boundary, like you need to explain, justify, or defend yourself just to keep the peace? If you grew up with an emotionally immature or narcissistic mother, over-explaining may feel automatic… but it’s not a communication problem. It’s a trauma response.

In this episode of The Mother Wound Project Podcast, we unpack why daughters of emotionally immature mothers over-explain their boundaries, how guilt and fear keep the pattern alive, and what boundaries actually need in order to work, without emotional exhaustion or collapse.

You’ll learn how childhood conditioning, fawning, and responsibility for your mother’s emotions trained you to over-justify your needs, why over-explaining hands your power away, and how to interrupt the guilt spiral that follows setting a boundary. This episode focuses on nervous system regulation, internal rewiring, and reclaiming your right to say no without proving your worth.

If you struggle with people-pleasing, fawning, guilt after boundaries, or fear of disappointing others, this episode will help you understand what’s really happening and how to start breaking the pattern.

Resources & Support:

• Mother Wound Survival Kit – Scripts and nervous system tools to help you hold boundaries without over-explaining Click Here
• Daughters Rising Inner Circle – Monthly coaching, sister circles, and live trainings for real-life boundary practice Click Here
• 1:1 Hypnotherapy & Coaching – Deep work to rewire guilt, people-pleasing, and childhood conditioning Click Here

You don’t owe anyone an explanation for protecting your peace.