Have you ever asked, "How can I be new in Christ if people keep reminding me of who I used to be?"

In this episode of we’re getting real about walking in your new identity in Christ when shame, other people, and memories of your past try to pull you backward. If you’ve ever felt disqualified, stuck between your before Jesus life and your after Jesus calling, or questioned whether real change has actually happened—this conversation is for you.

We unpack the difference between shame and conviction, why shame attacks identity, and what Scripture actually means when it says you are a new creation in Christ. You’ll learn why people often cling to old versions of you, why delayed trust doesn’t equal delayed transformation, and how godly accountability is meant to protect growth—not imprison you in your past.

This episode covers:

• Why your past doesn’t disqualify your calling

• How to respond when others won’t let your old life go

• When accountability becomes unhealthy and how to recognize it

• How to walk forward without constantly revisiting your past

If shame keeps reintroducing your old self, this episode will remind you: your past is evidence of grace, not proof of failure. Your testimony didn’t end before Christ—it points to where God is taking you now.