In this special holiday episode, we revisit a moving conversation from 2005 with Grandpa Caleb, whose wisdom and generosity offer a powerful reminder of what Christmas is truly about.

Rather than buying toys or material gifts, Grandpa Caleb shares how he chose to give his grandchildren and great-grandchildren gifts that keep on giving—goats, chickens, llamas, and support for children rescued from human trafficking—inviting them to experience the joy of generosity, compassion, and global connection.

Together, we reflect on how easily the season can drift into obligation and consumerism, and how opening our hearts matters far more than opening our wallets. The conversation closes with a classic Hug Nation moment: a shared breath, a self-hug, and a remembrance that we are all part of one human family.

This episode is an invitation to slow down, reconnect with the spirit of giving, and remember that love, fellowship, and kindness are the greatest gifts we can offer—at the holidays and always.

This episode of Hug Nation is a soulful clip show drawn from recent live broadcasts, weaving together gratitude, humor, spiritual inquiry, and heartfelt reflection.

I share some simple but powerful partner practices Lisa & I use to deepen appreciation.

I also answer a listener’s question about beginning a spiritual “cleanse” after a difficult relationship, and reflect on why presence—more than fixing or striving—is often the most healing path forward.

Along the way, we explore why humor belongs on the spiritual path, how negativity can feel safer than vulnerability, and why expressing what you love is a radical act of courage. I also reads an except from my book, "Letter to Remind Myself Who I Want to be Today."

**NEW: I'm answering questions/offering perspectives on the air in response to viewer submissions. Send me something!

💗 Highlights from 11.19.25 Hug Nation Live — “Boundaries, Compassion, and Doing Our Best”

In this episode of Hug Nation Live, we share a vibration of presence, gratitude, and gentle self-reflection. Whether you're tuning in live or watching the recording, your energy is part of the circle.

Together, we explore:

Why your worth isn’t measured by grand tasks, but by the energies and attitudes you bring into each moment.

How setting boundaries—from a grounded and compassionate place—can transform your relationships and your peace of mind, especially for empaths and recovering people-pleasers.

A beautiful story of gifting groceries becomes a reminder that when we prime ourselves for kindness, opportunities to serve naturally appear.

I shared the heartfelt note I mailed myself written at last year’s Love Ambassador gathering.

Then we do a deep dive into judgment, personal history, cultural conditioning, and how compassion helps us see behaviors (like littering!) through a wider lens.

We look at how to turn “me vs. you” battles into “us vs. the problem,” inviting others into heroism rather than defensiveness.

We close with a communal self-hug, a breath, and a reminder that even if this is the only place you feel safe to be authentic—it counts, and you belong here.

If you’re watching this, you’re part of a movement that is choosing compassion, growth, and service—even when it’s hard. Thank you for being one of the people who would rather hug than hurt.

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📅 January 10–11, San Diego
A deep, transformational gathering of heart-centered humans.
(A few spots left!)

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In this episode, we REALLY feel the gratitude.From blooming cactus flowers and healing rain in San Diego to retreat insights, water blessings, playful moments with children, and the power of community—this gathering is a real-time reminder of how much beauty is available when we pause to notice it.I also speak candidly about online negativity, staying committed to being a Love Ambassador, and practicing “direction, not distance” as a guiding philosophy. Through personal stories about health challenges, partnership, community support, and the everyday miracles we overlook, this episode becomes a living example of turning toward the light even when the world feels heavy.(JOIN LIVE EVERY DAY AT 9:00am PST)

11.18.25

I talk about redefining "Billionaire"to mean someone who helps a billion people.I also talk about a mass shooting in Charleston that happened in 2015. Sadly, we have plenty of recent tragedies that makes the topic remain vital and relevant.
I talk about Kindness Budgets, " Heroism of the Heart," and the revolutionary act of turning the other cheek.

06.22.15

Hug Nation was born 24 years ago in the wake of a national tragedy. I tell the story and also deal with some heavy feelings about the current state of the world.

09.11.25

In this 2005 recording, Halcyon sits down with his beloved grandfather, Reverend Caleb Elroy Shikles, for a timeless dialogue on spirituality, love, change, and the evolution of the soul. What begins as a simple question — “Are you going to Burning Man?” — blossoms into a profound exchange about faith, integrity, and the beauty of living with open-minded devotion.

At 92 years old and a minister for 68 years, Grandpa Caleb reflects on what he’s learned from a lifetime of service: blending Christian compassion, Buddhist awareness, and universal humanism into a worldview rooted in love, curiosity, and humility.

Together, they explore:
🔥 The spiritual parallels between Burning Man and traditional church community
💫 Jesus’ teachings of honesty, humility, and love in Matthew 5–7
🌎 Seeing God through all faiths — from Baptist roots to Buddhist practice
🌿 The interconnectedness of life, nature, and cosmic consciousness
🕊️ Overcoming religious rigidity and embracing all people — “test everything by love”
💍 Lessons from 64 years of marriage: communication, forgiveness, and tenderness
✊ Memories of working with Dr. Martin Luther King Jr. and the courage of nonviolence
💖 Facing mortality with wonder, readiness, and faith in the eternal

Caleb also shares the story behind changing his name at 75 — a symbol of renewal and alignment with his spirit’s calling — and closes with a moving prayer celebrating the pulse of life and love that connects us all.

“We are all brothers and sisters. The Lord is Creator, Sustainer — the mystery that holds it all together.”
— Rev. Caleb E. Shikles

🎧 Subscribe to the Hug Nation Podcast for more drops of Grandpa Caleb wisdom.

I answer a viewer question: "How to guard yourself after an amazing experience like Burning Man?"

I admit to a missed an opportunity for kindness and we talk through how to be better prepared in the future.

I share admiration for professional comedy and tv writers

And riff on gratitude inspired by "The Guilded Age" HBO show.

BONUS: Hug Monster makes an appearance to talk about the risks and rewards of being a Love Ambassador.

10.06.25

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