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I Used to be Somebody

I Used to be Somebody

Written by: Carl Landau
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I Used to Be Somebody inspires 50+ year olds to build their (Un)Retired good life. Each month we interview cool, inspiring people about their retirement challenges and why and how they figured it out—turning this phase of life into an incredible, rewarding reality. It's for people who don't want to retire--they just want to do something new that is more fun, less grind, and more meaningful. Our guests have created amazing Second Acts! Oh, and there's a little talk about Pickleball.© Pickleball Media Careers Economics Personal Success Self-Help Success
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  • Pat Belding: The Dream! Operating a Sports Bar in Retirement
    May 19 2026

    Have you ever thought about your dream second act? Something you enjoy doing and you imagine what it would be like to run a fun business where you'd love to be a customer?

    Most of us wake up the next day and forget about that dream or talk ourselves out of it quick. This month's guest, Pat Belding is actually doing it. In his mid-sixties, he's running Frankie's Sports bar in San Francisco. Quite a change from owning and operating his high tech marketing company. Rather than dealing with Fortune 100 companies like 3M, Cisco and Google, he's behind the bar (managing a team of 20 employees, dealing with food and beverage vendors and keeping the bathrooms clean) while serving San Francisco Giants fans beer, cocktails and great food before and after games. And he's loving it!

    Pat is pushing way beyond his comfort zone. Three years ago, with no prior experience in the food and beverage industry, he started helping out at Frankie's, a cool sports bar on the South Beach marina. It's located just a stone's throw away from Oracle Park, where the SF Giants play. Frankie's, originally named the "Java Hut", has a special history--it's the Embarcadero's oldest operating eatery for over a century.

    His story is inspirational. Told with humor and humility. A true (un)retirement success story!

    • More about Pat Belding: https://www.linkedin.com/in/patbelding


    • More about Frankie's Sports Bar: https://www.frankiessf.com


    • Episode Content: https://pickleballmediahq.com/blog/pat-belding-interview-operating-a-sports-bar-in-retirement


    • Sponsored by Capital Advantage: https://capitaladvantage.com/promotion/retirement-planning-guide


    • Sponsored by How to Retire and Not Die Video Series: https://howtoretireandnotdie.com


    • Subscribe to the the I Used to be Somebody Newsletter: https://pickleballmediahq.com/contact/subscribe

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    57 mins
  • Andrew Motiwalla: Mr. Travel -- The Good Life Abroad
    Apr 14 2026

    What's the most fun thing to do in (Un)Retirement? Everyone has their favorites. But top on many lists is TRAVEL.

    This month's guest is Andrew Motiwalla, who Carl calls "Mr. Travel" since he's been traveling the world since he was a child. Travel with his family planted the seed and he joined the Peace Corps at 20 years old. Since then the "immersion" theme has carried through his life. Andrew has been an globe-trotting tech entrepreneur and even launched his own specialized travel experience companies.

    Andrew built a travel organization focused on expanding the horizons of high school students. Now he's developed a very cool experience called "The Good Life Abroad," created for active adults who want to live for a month or two in Europe with a built-in community and concierge service. In the interview, he offers great travel tips and also life experience advice about slowing down, avoiding "tourist mode" and pushing yourself past your comfort zone. In the right environment, we can all do some amazing things with our lives!

    Andrew is a very interesting guy who has created an adventurous second act for himself.

    • More about Andrew Motiwalla: https://thegoodlifeabroad.com/about-us
    • Andrew's venture The Good Life Abroad: https://thegoodlifeabroad.com
    • Episode Content: https://pickleballmediahq.com/blog/andrew-motiwalla-interview-mr-travel-the-good-life-abroad
    • Sponsored by How to Retire and Not Die Video Series: https://howtoretireandnotdie.com
    • Sponsored by Capital Advantage: https://capitaladvantage.com/promotion/retirement-planning-guide
    • Subscribe to the the I Used to be Somebody Newsletter: https://pickleballmediahq.com/contact/subscribe

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    51 mins
  • Alex Jeffery: Director of The Power of Pickleball
    Mar 24 2026

    Host Carl Landau was so enthusiastic after watching the new documentary "The Power of Pickleball" that he reached out to the director Alex Jeffery and put out this bonus episode. If you're part of the pickleball "cult" or just interested in learning about the sport you will love this movie.

    About 3 years ago Alex was hanging out with his Mom and Aunt who are pickleball fanatics, and they said, "What if we made a documentary about Pickleball?". Not knowing anyone in the industry, Alex says they started reaching out to people to learn more. What struck him was how welcoming everyone was. "People opened their arms to us and started telling us their stories and wanted to share more about the sport."

    Alex does an amazing job of highlighting the spirit and pure joy of the sport. He's a very talented filmmaker and has a great story of his own. The movie was just released on Prime Video, Apple TV and Doc+.

    • More about Alex Jeffrey: https://bespokeworksllc.com/about-us
    • Alex's movie The Power of Pickleball: https://www.thepowerofpickleball.com
    • Episode Content: https://pickleballmediahq.com/blog/Alex-Jeffery-Interview-Director-of-The-Power-of-Pickleball
    • I Used to be Somebody World Tour: https://pickleballmediahq.com/tour/all-tours
    • Subscribe to the the I Used to be Somebody Newsletter: https://pickleballmediahq.com/contact/subscribe
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    24 mins
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