🎙 In the inaugural episode of "Sh*t I Tell My Friends", Douglas Vigliotti introduces a candid advice format inspired by real conversations with friends, while tackling the very concept of “advice” itself. He discusses the pitfalls of generic advice, emphasizing the importance of understanding who’s giving guidance and why. Vigliotti shares personal insights, highlights the value of vulnerability, and encourages listeners to be discerning about advice, inviting them to reach out if/when needed. He also outlines the podcast’s future focus on fiction for 2026.

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💥 TOPICS COVERED IN THE EPISODE:

• Introduction to the Episode (00:09) - Douglas introduces the new "Sh*t I Tell My Friends" advice series and outlines upcoming podcast changes for 2026.
• Newsletter and Podcast Companion Info (01:39) - Details about the monthly companion newsletter, including episode summaries, book info, and how to sign up.
• Purpose and Format of the Advice Column (03:02) - Douglas explains the intent behind the advice column, emphasizing honesty, vulnerability, and the experimental nature of the format.
• Episode Length and Experimental Nature (04:09) - Notes on expected shorter episode lengths and the evolving, experimental approach to this new series.
• Douglas’s Philosophy on Advice (05:07) - Douglas shares his view that most advice is just personal projection, not tailored to the recipient’s situation.
• The Problem with Most Advice (06:21) - Explains why advice often fails, highlighting the lack of context and empathy from advice-givers.
• The Need for Direction and Choosing Advisors (07:33) - Discusses society’s desire for direction, the risks of following the wrong people, and the importance of knowing your advisors.
• Quotes on Advice and Friendship (08:35) - Shares relevant quotes from Don Draper and Solon about advice, friendship, and the value of private support.
• Closing Remarks and Contact Information (09:49) - Wraps up the episode with reminders on how to subscribe, contact Douglas, and learn more about his book and the podcast.