Staci shares her journey from working as a bedside nurse to navigating burnout, leaving the ER, and following a calling into holistic nurse coaching. Along the way, she opens up about faith, motherhood, boundaries, guilt, growth, and the slow work of becoming more grounded and intentional.

This isn’t a highlight reel... it’s an honest conversation about learning who you are beyond your roles, letting go of the pressure to have it all together, and choosing a different pace when the old one stops working.

If you’ve ever loved serving others but felt exhausted by it…

If you’ve questioned your calling, your pace, or yourself…

If you’re learning how to care for yourself without guilt…

This episode is for you.

Learn more about Staci’s holistic nurse coaching work at https://www.stacikilecoaching.com/

In today’s episode, we sit down with Ruthie: wife, mama, EMS specialist, firefighter and one of the realest humans you’ll ever meet. She opens up about her story (and the redemption only God can write), what first responder PTSD actually looks like in real life, why burnout comes in cycles, and how she’s learning to regulate her nervous system when life is still chaotic. Also… let’s talk about the 911 call for itchy elbows.

Thanks for hanging out with us on The Debrief with Staci & Ruthie.

If today’s episode brought up something heavy, please don’t carry it alone:

Call or text 988 (Suicide & Crisis Lifeline, available 24/7). If you are in immediate danger, call 911 or go to your nearest ER.

Want to support first responders and their mental health? Check out Beyond the Sirens https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=61582416343581

And if you’re in a season of burnout recovery, healing, or rebuilding your life from the inside out, Staci offers 1:1 coaching for women who want practical tools and compassionate support. https://www.stacikilecoaching.com/

Welcome to the very first episode of The Debrief with Staci & Ruthie — where faith, friendship, and real life collide.

After months of talking about starting this podcast, we finally hit record. Between technology struggles, self-doubt, sick kids, work schedules, and “life happening,” the enemy definitely tried it… but we’re here anyway. (Not today, Satan.)

In this kickoff episode, we share:

1. how we met on an inpatient psych unit (not as patients—promise)
2. why Ruthie secretly called Staci “Pollyanna” behind her back (LOL)
3. how life and God brought us back together years later
4. why this podcast is more than entertainment — it’s connection, encouragement, and honestly… ministry

If you’ve ever felt alone, overwhelmed, misunderstood, or like you’re carrying too much… friend, pull up a chair. This space is for you.

So grab your coffee and whatever sanity you’ve got left — and let’s debrief this beautiful life together.