FIELD NOTES 004 - Valentine’s Day & Scripted Intimacy
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About this listen
Valentine’s Day offers a ready-made script for intimacy.
You know what to do. You do it. And for a moment, something settles.
This Field Note isn’t about romance, tradition, or whether the day is “good” or “bad.”
It’s about noticing the quiet relief that comes from doing what’s expected, and the discomfort that appears when that performance doesn’t quite count as enough.
Not because anything went wrong.
But because the harder version of intimacy doesn’t come with a date, a script, or a clear ending.
This episode stops before resolution.
It stays with the moment you realise you were hoping the performance would let you off.
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