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The Bedroom Breakdown

The Bedroom Breakdown

Written by: Alexander Black
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Most people don’t struggle with sex.
They struggle with telling the truth about what they want.


The Bedroom Breakdown is a short-form podcast about desire, intimacy, attraction, and the quiet power dynamics happening underneath modern relationships.


Hosted by Alexander Black, this show looks at sex through psychology, pattern recognition, and the conversations most people avoid having out loud.


This isn’t a how-to guide.
It’s not therapy.
And it’s definitely not sanitized.

Each episode is 3–5 minutes.
One idea at a time.


We explore:
• Why attraction doesn’t behave the way advice columns promise
• The tension between fantasy and reality
• Power, surrender, and emotional safety
• Desire asymmetry
• Why honesty feels riskier than silence
• The patterns underneath what people say they want


Sometimes the conversation will feel validating.
Sometimes it will feel uncomfortable in a thoughtful way.

That’s intentional.

If you’re tired of loud internet certainty, oversimplified dating advice, or pretending your desire is simpler than it actually is — this space is for you.


Follow along as we pull apart what’s really happening beneath attraction, intimacy, and the choices people make around them.

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  • The Bedroom Breakdown: An Introduction

    The Bedroom Breakdown: An Introduction
    Feb 14 2026

    The Truth About Desire (An Introduction)

    Most people don’t struggle with sex.
    They struggle with telling the truth about what they want.

    In this first episode of The Bedroom Breakdown, Alexander Black introduces the perspective behind the show — a look at desire through psychology, pattern recognition, and the conversations people often avoid having out loud.

    This isn’t advice culture.
    It’s not a how-to guide.
    And it’s not here to tell you what you should want.

    It’s about understanding how desire actually behaves — beneath labels, beneath performance, beneath the polished version people present to the world.

    Episodes are short by design.
    One idea at a time.
    No hype. Just clarity.

    If you’re ready for a more honest conversation about attraction, intimacy, and the choices people make around them, this is where it begins.
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