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Occasionally Perfect

Occasionally Perfect

Written by: Lexsi Lewis & Amber Borzotra
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Occasionally Perfect is a podcast hosted by Amber Borzotra and Lexsi Lewis for honest conversations about evolving, aligning, and figuring it out as we go. New episodes weekly!

© 2026 Occasionally Perfect
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Episodes
  • Are You Actually Healing or Just Hiding? | 10 Signs You Need to Know
    Feb 17 2026

    Are you healing or just hiding? Amber & Lexsi work through 10 brutal self-check questions about genuine healing vs. avoidance. They open up about assault trauma, toxic relationships, medication stigma, self-sabotage, and why moving cities isn't the same as moving forward. Raw, honest, and deeply relatable.

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    1 hr and 19 mins
  • Is Monogomy Dead?
    Feb 17 2026

    Is monogamy dead or is communication dead? Amber & Lexsi debate situationships, open relationships, polyamory, and what actually makes modern relationships work. Real talk on commitment fears, dating haters, and finding someone who's your cheerleader, not your competition. Spoiler: most of us still want monogamy—we just need better communication.


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    55 mins
  • The Myth of the Good Person
    Feb 17 2026

    Welcome to Occasionally Perfect! In this debut episode, hosts Amber Borzotra (MTV's The Challenge) and Lexsi Lewis explore what it truly means to be a "good person" in a world obsessed with perfection.

    Through personal stories and raw vulnerability, they discuss:

    • Self-awareness and accountability as markers of goodness
    • Why being "too nice" draws judgment
    • Sex work stigma and societal double standards
    • The reality of motherhood—guilt, exhaustion, and the need for support
    • Treating yourself well as part of being a good person
    • Building authentic community and chosen family

    This isn't a polished, perfect conversation—it's real, messy, and exactly what we all need. Whether you're a mom struggling with guilt, someone facing judgment for non-traditional choices, or just trying to figure out how to show up as your best self, this episode is for you.

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    46 mins
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