In this episode of Your Neighborhood Show, Carolyn sits down with Brisbane adventurer and boat builder Tom Robinson, who became the youngest person to row the Pacific Ocean after setting off from Peru in a boat he designed and built himself. Tom shares how his love of solitude on the Brisbane River shaped his inner world, and how that quiet became fuel for an enormous self-made rite of passage. Along the way, he opens up about fear, surrender, and the unexpected kindness of strangers—from fishermen at sea to island communities who welcomed him as family. It’s a gripping story of resilience and risk, but also a heartfelt reflection on why disconnection is often the doorway to deeper connection.

Episode Breakdown

00:00 – 05:30 | Welcome + theme of connection/disconnection
Carolyn introduces the show’s purpose and sets the tone for a story that holds both struggle and meaning.

05:30 – 13:30 | Meet Tom Robinson + the record-setting row
Tom’s bio and achievement: building his boat, rowing the Pacific, and the journey’s dramatic end near Vanuatu.

13:30 – 22:00 | Childhood in Yeronga + the river as refuge
Triplet life, a chaotic home, and how rowing became Tom’s calm, independence, and meditation.

22:00 – 30:00 | The dream forms: “I’m going to row the Pacific”
Adventure books, the mirror moment at 14, and why rowing felt like the ultimate challenge.

30:00 – 39:00 | Preparation: apprenticeship, boatbuilding, and obsessive planning
Tom explains learning boatbuilding, designing “Maiwar,” and the thousands of decisions needed to survive at sea.

39:00 – 47:00 | Leaving Brisbane + arriving in Peru + delays and bureaucracy
Saying goodbye, customs setbacks, the unexpected “ransom,” and local helpers who make launch possible.

47:00 – 54:30 | The sendoff + early days alone at sea
A powerful departure ceremony, then immediate focus on survival near busy shipping lanes.

54:30 – 59:30 | Day 49: fear → connection with fishermen
A tense encounter turns into generosity when fishermen bring supplies and tuna after weeks of isolation.

59:30 – 1:08:30 | Day 75: blown off course + major reroute to Penrhyn
The emotional hit of losing the original plan, calling home, and aiming for a tiny island with a dangerous reef entry.

1:08:30 – 1:16:00 | Survival mode + surrender + “nirvana” at sea
Tom describes hardship, then a profound peace—accepting any outcome and finding inner stillness.

1:16:00 – 1:23:00 | Landfall at Penrhyn: towed into the lagoon + a new name
A cinematic arrival, safety at last, and being given the name Mata Hoho Asanga (“the warrior that has paddled from afar”).

1:23:00 – 1:27:30 | Island life + community values
Church, singing, work projects, and what Penrhyn taught Tom about meaning beyond individualism.

1:27:30 – 1:30:30 | Capsize + rescue near Vanuatu (high-level recap)
Tom recounts the terrifying overturn, the night on the hull, beacon activation, and being picked up by a ship.

1:30:30 – 1:32:00 | Advice + gratitude
Tom’s message to young people: make a plan, tell people, commit—plus thanks to his parents for freedom and support.