In this episode we are slowing down long enough to actually see ourselves.

Not from shame.

Not from judgment.

But from awareness and curiosity.

We break down what automatic behavior really is and why so many of our reactions are not conscious decisions but conditioned responses. If you have ever said “I don’t know why I keep doing that” this episode is for you.

We talk about how the nervous system protects us, how familiar reactions can become outdated, and why healing is not about fixing yourself but learning yourself.

You will learn how to zoom out and observe your behavior using the Current Self, Lower Self, and Higher Self lens. This gives you space to separate who you are from what you do so you can change patterns without attacking your identity.

We also introduce The Initial Why.

Because once you see the behavior, the next step is asking why you think you did it. And most of the time the first answer is only surface level. We go deeper.

In this episode we discuss

• Automatic and conditioned reactions

• How criticism and shame block self observation

• Trauma informed awareness

• Internal Family Systems and parts work as resources

• Why regulation comes before reflection

• How to document behavior without diagnosing yourself

• The truth that healing is a skill and skills can be practiced

You will leave this episode with tangible homework.

A weekly exposure practice.

A self observation exercise.

And questions you can ask yourself to build emotional muscle instead of emotional avoidance.

This is purely educational and shared from lived experience and perspective.

This space is especially for neurodivergent minds still learning themselves and for anyone who wants to understand why they react the way they do to life.

You are not broken.

You are patterned.

And patterns can be rewritten.

Full visual episodes are live on YouTube.

Audio is streaming everywhere podcasts are available.

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If this resonated with you comment “Determined” and meet me back here every Thursday for your weekly dose of healin… in real time.

Peace and healin. 💛

In this episode we go beyond awareness and into execution.

Because knowing your patterns is not the same as changing them.

So many of us can name the trauma, quote the book, and explain our behaviors yet still find ourselves reacting the same way. This episode is about why that happens and what healing actually requires in real life, not just in theory.

We talk about the gap between insight and embodiment, the problem with pop healing, and why your nervous system must feel safe before your mind can choose differently.

You will hear real, tangible practices, not fluff, including

Somatic and body based healing

Breath work and vagus nerve activation

EMDR and bilateral stimulation

Cold exposure and grounding practices

Behavioral discipline and emotional restraint

Environment shifts and exposure in micro doses

Building systems that support the version of you you are becoming

I also introduce my personal framework, The Nervous System Mirror, and walk through the pillars we will be breaking down throughout this season so you are not just consuming information, you are building transformation.

This space is especially supportive for neurodivergent minds including AuDHD, ADHD, highly sensitive thinkers, and anyone who has ever asked

“I know better… so why do I still do this?”

Healing is not about fixing yourself.

It is about retraining your nervous system to respond differently with grace, consistency, and real accountability.

Episode Homework

This week’s practice is simple but powerful.

Pause once a day before reacting.

Name what you feel.

Then choose a response even if it is small.

Document, do not diagnose. Progress, not perfection.

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If this resonated with you, share it with someone who is ready to grow.

Comment your biggest takeaway.

And meet me back here next week as we break down the first pillar.

Peace and healin’.

This… is Healin’ in Real Time. 💛

You can name your trauma.

Quote the books.

Understand your patterns.

…And still react the same way.

In this episode, we talk about the truth many people don’t say out loud:

Awareness without nervous system safety creates loops.

We break down why self-awareness alone does not equal change, and how burnout cycles, emotional shutdown, over-giving, and repeated relationship patterns are often nervous-system responses… not personal failures.

Inside this episode we explore:

• Why “knowing better” doesn’t always lead to “doing better”

• The nervous system’s priority of safety over growth

• Overthinking vs. embodied action

• Repeating relationship dynamics

• Emotional burnout and shutdown cycles

• The difference between grace and enabling yourself

I also introduce the foundation of my healing framework and the pillars we’ll be exploring throughout this season that gives you language, tools, and real-life application instead of abstract motivation.

You’re not broken.

You’re responding the best way you know how.

Self-awareness is the door.

Regulation is the key.

If this episode hit home, share it with someone who feels stuck in their growth. Subscribe so you don’t miss the framework episodes coming next. 💛

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@inrealtimethepodcast

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Welcome to In Real Time with Tori Littlejohn. 💛

This isn’t another affirmation podcast.

This is a space for people who are self-aware… and still healing.

In this first episode, I introduce the mission behind In Real Time and the vision for Healin’ Entertainment under the AMH Network. This podcast exists for neurodivergent minds, emotionally aware people, and anyone who has done the “inner work” but still feels stuck in patterns they can’t quite break.

We talk about:

• Why healing has to be lived, not just understood

• Nervous system safety vs. “just think positive” culture

• Character growth and intentional choice

• Why perfection narratives actually harm growth

• What this space is and what it is NOT

This podcast is not about bypassing pain.

It’s not about pretending you’re fine.

It’s about building safety in your body, language for your experiences, and the capacity to become who you keep seeing in your mind.

You are not here to consume.

You’re here to participate.

Welcome to healin’… in real time.

If this resonates with you, subscribe, share, and leave a review so this message reaches the people who need language and support.

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@inrealtimethepodcast

@mamaMarketingWithADHD

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@ToriVictories

@AMHNetwork

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