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If I’m Really Honest

If I’m Really Honest

Written by: jamincoller
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Want to seek truth without tribalism? Wish you could be fully honest instead of carrying your team's flag? This is a place where ignorance isn’t punished, curiosity is rewarded, and conflict doesn’t mean contempt.

Host Jamin Coller sits down with people you’re not “supposed” to talk to - former extremists, outspoken pastors, rabbis, activists, skeptics, believers, and thinkers from every corner of the spectrum. They share stories and challenge ideas that most of us were taught to avoid, whether the topic is faith, politics, science, identity, or the messy places in between.

This isn’t about winning arguments or trading insults. If you’re tired of echo chambers and ready to explore the conversations that matter most, subscribe to If I’m Really Honest and join the growing community willing to embrace the most courageous idea: Maybe I'm wrong.

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Episodes
  • Cognitive Science of Religion - Dr. Jonathan Jong

    Cognitive Science of Religion - Dr. Jonathan Jong
    Jan 29 2026

    In this episode of If I’m Really Honest, Jamin Coller and cognitive psychologist Jonathan Lewis-Jong unpack belief—what it is, how it functions in the human mind, and why it persists across cultures. Jonathan explains how the science of religion treats belief as natural psychological processes that can be measured and studied without making claims about metaphysical truth. They discuss cognitive theories of religion, terror management, meaning-making, and the implications for spiritual life and interpersonal dialogue.

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    1 hr and 7 mins
  • Dark Side of Meditation - Willoughby Britton

    Dark Side of Meditation - Willoughby Britton
    Jan 22 2026

    Neuroscientist and trauma researcher Dr. Willoughby Britton joins Jamin Coller to discuss the hidden risks of meditation, spiritual bypassing, and the psychology of religious and wellness communities. Drawing on her groundbreaking Varieties of Contemplative Experience study, Britton explains why meditation sometimes causes panic, dissociation, insomnia, and psychosis — and why communities often blame the victims instead of addressing the harm.

    • Cheetah House – https://www.cheetahhouse.org

    • Meditation Challenges Study – https://www.meditationchallenges.org

    • Psychedelic Challenges Study – https://www.psychedelicchallenges.org

    • Willoughby Britton (Brown University) – https://www.brown.edu/academics/public-health/faculty/willoughby-britton

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    1 hr
  • Conversation with a Psychopath (Part 2) - M. E. Thomas

    Conversation with a Psychopath (Part 2) - M. E. Thomas
    Jan 15 2026

    In this episode of If I’m Really Honest, Jamin Coller sits down with M.E. (Jamie) Thomas, a lawyer, educator, musician, and author of Confessions of a Sociopath: A Life Spent Hiding in Plain Sight, to discuss the psychology of psychopathy, what it really means to live without empathy as commonly understood, and how identity and morality are shaped by experience rather than instinct. Jamie shares her journey from academia and law into a life of self-reflection, community engagement, and honest conversations about traits most people fear rather than understand.

    • M.E. Thomas – Official YouTube Channel: https://www.youtube.com/@m.e.thomas7901

    • Sociopath World (M.E. Thomas website): https://www.sociopathworld.com

    • Confessions of a Sociopath: A Life Spent Hiding in Plain Sight https://a.co/d/dMCOmWe

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    1 hr and 35 mins
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