We all know the "Bro Code"—that unwritten rule that says we take our secrets to the grave. But what happens when that code becomes a cage? Harper Stewart walked into a wedding weekend with a book full of secrets (The Vault), proving that sometimes the people closest to us are the ones most afraid to tell us the truth.

In this episode, Big Smash breaks down why we choose "loyalty" over "growth" and how the silence of your friends might be the very thing holding you back from being a better man.

Season 4 is here. We’re kicking things off with a classic movie backdrop: Love & Basketball. But we aren’t just swooning over the "Double or Nothing" scene—we’re checking the scoreboard.

In this episode, Big Smash breaks down the lopsided politics of sacrifice in Black love. Why is one person always expected to play defense while the other takes all the shots? We’re diving into the "MVP Complex," the "Support System" trap, and why Black women are often told to bench their dreams just to keep the relationship in the game.

THE SEASON FINALE ......You're grinding. You're losing sleep. You're pushing past the pain. But when the exhaustion hits, who's the "why" that makes you keep going?

This week, Big Smash is getting real about the engine behind the hustle: The Fuel. Is it the legacy for your kids? The security for your partner? Or is it proving to the younger you that you finally made it?

We're discussing the high-stakes pressure to not make mistakes that could cost you everything, and why understanding your core motivation is the ultimate guardrail against self-sabotage. Find out what you're truly working for, and lock in that fire forever. We'll explain all this later.

Big Smash is breaking down the ultimate relationship threat: the "friend" who's secretly plotting to steal your partner.

Smash drops a confession, sharing his own history as a calculated "friend with an ulterior motive," detailing the tactics that sometimes paid off and often failed spectacularly.

Learn to spot the red flags and figure out if that friendship is genuine or a long game in disguise. If you realize it's a plot, Smash explains the tough, old-school conversation you need to have to protect your relationship and your peace. Stop guessing and start knowing.

This week, Big Smash breaks down the final stage of "Hiring for Love": accepting the offer of a committed, monogamous relationship. We're talking about the truth that often gets missed: you matter too.

We dive into what that monogamy contract should include, focusing on the benefits package of peace, security, and mutual respect. Learn how to negotiate your worth without sounding selfish, why accepting the job means dropping the 'back-up plan,' and how to make sure you and your partner are both actively working together to build an empire, not just keeping a business afloat. Don't sign until your terms are met. We'll explain all this later.

Big Smash dives deep into why we sometimes choose to love someone through their flaws, even when we know they're not good for us. He explains how this toxic pattern can destroy your peace, sanity, and fundamental understanding of what love really is. It’s a powerful conversation about the dire consequences of staying with someone you know, deep down, isn't meant for you.

Join us as we talk about the difference between loving a person and being intoxicated by the idea of them. It's a wake-up call for anyone who's ever sacrificed their well-being for a destructive relationship.

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You've got the resume and you've got the application, but now it's time for the real test: the interview. This week, Big Smash,Raw and Petty Ty is breaking down the first dates and the real-life conversations where everything's on the line. We're talking about how to show up prepared, what questions to ask to spot a fake, and how to know if the person you're talking to is actually qualified for the love you're looking for.

You've got the resume for the job—you're smart, you're funny, you got your life together. But what about the application? This week, Big Smash is putting dating on the clock. We're talking about the real-life vibe check you're giving out and the one you're trying to fill out. From the way you walk in a room to the way you talk to people, we're breaking down how to make sure the application you're giving out actually matches the one you want to fill.