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In this episode, Johnny & Lisa unpack the emotional cost of always being “okay” — even when you’re not.

They talk about the pressure many of us feel to stay positive, strong, and unbothered, and how constantly showing up as “the one who’s fine” slowly drains you emotionally. From people-pleasing and emotional masking to toxic positivity and burnout, this episode explores what happens when you never give yourself permission to fall apart.

Johnny and Lisa reflect on how being the reliable one, the strong one, or the emotionally stable one can turn into emotional isolation — and why suppressing emotions doesn’t make them disappear, it just delays the impact.

This conversation is a reminder that vulnerability isn’t weakness, needing support doesn’t make you a burden, and being honest about how you feel is part of emotional health — not a failure.

✨ Question of the Week:
Where in your life are you pretending to be okay when you’re not?

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Welcome back, Feels Family — and welcome to the first official episode of 2026. 💛
In this episode, Johnny & Lisa take a deep dive into emotional maturity — what it actually is, what it isn’t, and why social media has completely distorted the meaning.

They kick things off with a weekly check-in that turns into a real-life example of emotional growth, reflecting on a New Year’s Eve moment where reactions could’ve taken over — but didn’t. From learning how to pause, regulate emotions, and choose response over reaction, this episode highlights how emotional maturity shows up in real time, not perfection.

The conversation expands into the difference between emotional suppression vs emotional maturity, why being “unbothered” isn’t the goal, and how emotionally mature people don’t avoid conflict — they handle it with intention. Johnny & Lisa also reflect on the cost of growth, including loneliness, outgrowing friendships, setting boundaries, and learning to stop people-pleasing.

This episode is honest, reflective, and grounded in real-life application — not internet quotes.

✨ Question of the Week:
Where in your life are you learning to respond instead of react?

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Welcome back, Feels Family — and Happy New Year’s Eve. 💛
In this final episode of 2025, Johnny & Lisa take a step back to reflect on the year that was and intentionally look ahead to what they want to carry — and leave behind — as they move into 2026.

Instead of a weekly check-in, they open the episode with a yearly gratitude and pride check-in, sharing what they’re most thankful for, what this year taught them, and how they’ve grown both individually and as a couple. From marriage and travel to personal accountability, resilience, and consistency, this episode is rooted in reflection and honesty.

They dive into the biggest lessons of 2025, including why consistency matters more than intensity, how resilience shows up in the hard moments, and the importance of applying the tools they talk about on the podcast to real life. The conversation then shifts toward intention-setting — not New Year’s resolutions — and defining what kind of people they want to be in 2026.

This episode is about choosing peace, letting go of old patterns, moving with intention, and learning how to pour back into yourself without guilt.

✨ Question of the Week:
How do you want to feel in the upcoming year?

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This week, Johnny and Lisa step into a heavier but necessary conversation surrounding P. Diddy, the allegations being discussed publicly, and the emotional, cultural, and ethical questions that come with it.

Rather than focusing on rumors, this episode centers on accountability, power dynamics, and the emotional conflict people feel when someone they admired is accused of serious harm. Johnny and Lisa talk openly about separating the art from the artist, why these conversations are uncomfortable but important, and how fame and unchecked power can create environments where harm is ignored or minimized.

They also explore how these situations affect victims, fans, and communities — and why silence, denial, or “waiting for it to pass” only continues the cycle.

This episode isn’t about judgment — it’s about awareness, responsibility, and choosing to sit in the discomfort long enough to learn something from it.

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This week, Johnny and Lisa take a deep dive into something everyone struggles with but almost no one talks about honestly: overthinking and overfeeling.

From reading way too far into “OK” replies, to spiraling when someone leaves you on read, to assuming your partner’s quiet mood MUST mean something is wrong — this episode unpacks how easily our minds can twist neutral moments into emotional disasters.

Together, they explore:
✨ How overthinking turns possibilities into “worst case scenarios”
✨ What “overfeeling” really is (turning thoughts into emotional facts)
✨ How trauma, past relationships, and old wounds shape the narratives we create
✨ Why kindness starts to feel suspicious when you’re hurting
✨ How to reframe your thoughts before your emotions take over
✨ How conditioning from childhood affects adult relationships
✨ The difference between seeking clarity vs. seeking closure
✨ Why slowing down your thoughts changes everything

PLUS — a powerful new segment called “What I Learned This Week”, where Johnny and Lisa each reveal the mindset breakthroughs they had in real time.

This episode is raw, honest, emotional, funny, and full of the real-life tools people actually need to break free from their own spirals.

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This week, Johnny & Lisa are diving into a topic that EVERYONE has lived through — pettiness. And we’re talking all forms of it: the funny, the wild, the unnecessary, and the deeply relatable moments that come from hurt, ego, or just straight-up “I’m gonna get you back” energy.

From childhood Oreo revenge missions, to petty high-school drive-bys complete with a middle finger out the window, to listener submissions involving Netflix-password warfare and spite-dating that lasted two whole years — this episode is packed with stories that’ll make you laugh AND reflect.

But as always, Johnny & Lisa get real about the deeper layers:
💬 Why we react with pettiness when we’re hurting
🧠 How defensiveness and ego fuel those “I’ll show you” moments
😂 When petty behavior is just harmless comedy
❤️ And when it becomes a sign of emotional wounds we haven’t healed yet
🌱 The shift from petty reactions → emotional maturity & accountability
👀 Plus: parental-level pettiness like teaching kids lessons with cracked car windows in the middle of winter 😭

This one blends comedy, chaos, honesty, and growth — everything we love about In The Feels.

✨ Question of the Week:

What’s the PETTIEST thing you’ve ever done (or had done to you)?
Drop it in the comments — we want the stories.

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Welcome back, Feels Family! 💛

In this episode of In The Feels Podcast, Johnny and Lisa return to Couch Chronicles and bring back a fan-favorite segment — the AA Meeting (Anonymous Advice) — where listeners send in real-life scenarios for open, honest discussion.

This week’s letter dives deep into the theme of emotional safety — what it means to truly feel safe expressing your emotions without fear of rejection, judgment, or dismissal. Johnny and Lisa share their personal experiences, talk about childhood conditioning, communication breakdowns, and how couples can start rebuilding safety one brick at a time.

💬 In This Episode:

• The listener letter that inspired the conversation
• Childhood roots of emotional invalidation
• How communication and accountability create safety
• Why gratitude and teamwork strengthen emotional connection
• The bricks and houses analogy that explains how couples grow together
• How love evolves when emotional safety exists

🍋 Sponsor: OuLa-Lade Lemonade — the lemonade of all lemonades! Follow @Oula_lade and tell them Johnny & Lisa sent you.

✨ Question of the Week:
What’s one small thing someone can do that instantly makes you feel emotionally safe? Drop it in the comments — you never know when the “Y” in your story is silent!

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In this honest and powerful episode, Johnny & Lisa unpack the emotional roots of defensiveness — why we get so quick to protect ourselves, even from the people we love. From childhood conditioning to ego, pride, and fear of rejection, they explore how defensiveness shows up in everyday conversations and relationships.

They dive deep into:

• Childhood origins of defensiveness and people-pleasing
• The difference between protection and blocking love
• The role of ego and insecurity in how we react
• How to build awareness and respond with patience instead of reactivity
• Their own experiences unlearning toxic communication and learning accountability
• Healthy relationship tools for creating safety and understanding

💬 Question of the Week:
What would change in your relationships if you felt safe enough to listen before defending yourself?

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