Episodes

  • 23. Why we’re so divided?
    Nov 2 2020

    🗳️ Elections are close and people find it harder to talk to one another. 0:43
    🧐 Looking through different lenses showed me something different. 1:34
    👂 'Sound principles' a poem from 'Please Use This for Children and Not for War and Guns' book. 2:46
    🧠 What kind of lenses had people who made fun of smart girls? 5:06
    🧨 Why are we so divided and have so different lenses to look at the world? 6:27
    🕶️ All the lenses we need to get rid of. 7:55
    📖 Poem 'Number Three' from a book 'Between Tahlequah and Tulsa' 9:16
    ⛩️ When you live in different places. you have to remove lenses to understand a different culture and people. 13:09
    📝Poetry assignment: think about the lenses you wear and if those are stopping you understand people around you and vice versa. 13:53
    🗣️ Try using awareness of lenses in and try to talk with someone that you couldn't talk to before.15:29

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    16 mins
  • 22. A Caring Community
    Oct 30 2020

    🏙️ 00:15 There is always somebody to help you in Tulsa.

    🐦 01:06 Canada geese's community spirit is strong.

    🪁 01:53 Poem: "Migration"

    💞 04:15 The poem is based on a true story - wild geese sacrifice for the one who is not as strong.

    ♿ 04:55 Mr. Gustavson, who is in a wheelchair, is often helped by others, too.

    👨‍👩‍👧‍👦 05:36 "And that's what I wish for you, that you have a community."

    ⛑️ 05:59 "We need one another. We need to care for one another."

    🧒 06:20 Visit Cynthia at http://cynthiagustavson.com and find out more about her book, Please Use This for Children and Not for War and Guns, at https://cynthiagustavson.com/2020/08/15/please-use-this-for-children-not-for-war-and-guns/

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    7 mins
  • 21. Loss
    Oct 29 2020

    ✝️ 00:15 There are funerals where nobody shows up and funerals where there are many friends and relatives.

    ⛪ 01:23 Not all the relatives could get to the funeral of Cynthia's Dad because the church was full.

    🥀 01:54 "Loss has so many ramifications to it."

    📖 01:58 Cynthia introduces a poem from her therapy book "In-Versing Your Life", which can also be found in her e-book, "I Don't Write Love Poems"

    🌧️️02:25 Poem: "Loss"

    🩹 04:07 We have to learn to live through the loss, it's inevitable.

    🧶 04:54 Small losses help us deal with major losses.

    🔗 05:37 Visit Cynthia and find out more about her books, at https://cynthiagustavson.com/books-music/

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    6 mins
  • 20. Double Helix Twisting
    Oct 27 2020

    🏥 00:15 Both Cynthia's mother and sister are breast cancer survivors. She wrote a poem about that.

    📕 01:06 The poem can be found in the book "Re-Versing Your Pain"

    👩‍⚕️ 01:27 Poem: "Double Helix Twisting"

    👙 07:56 Remember to check yourself regularly!

    🌱 08:15 Visit Cynthia at http://cynthiagustavson.com and find out more about her books, at https://www.bloomingtwig.com/Authors/Cynthia-Gustavson.

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    9 mins
  • 19. What I Hunger For
    Oct 20 2020

    🍁 00:15 It's a privilege to live out at the lake house. It is so quiet and the fall is beautiful.

    ⛰️ 00:38 Cynthia talks about what inspired her book, "Between Tahlequah and Tulsa."

    🧅 01:14 Poem: "Number Two"

    🙃 03:10 Do you think that you are approaching things from upside down?

    🎯 03:39 Are you direct when you want something?

    👁️ 04:01 What are you hungry for?

    🤗 04:25 Think about the time when what you had was enough in your life.

    📚 05:10 Watch for Cynthia's new book and, in the meantime, visit her at http://cynthiagustavson.com and find out more about her other books, at https://www.bloomingtwig.com/Authors/Cynthia-Gustavson.

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    6 mins
  • 18. The Grid in My Brain
    Oct 19 2020

    🥶 00:15 Cynthia muses about how it finally got cold in Oklahoma.

    🧭 00:51 Today's poem is a new one, exploring the symbolism of the sides of the world using the "grid".

    🌐 01:38 The "grid" exists everywhere - you always know the sides of the world.

    ️🎙️ 02:00 Poem: "The Grid"

    🧩 03:10 This week's question: how do you see the entire world through the grid of your first home?

    ‍ 🏫 04:17 "...as we get older, the only way that we learn something new..."

    ❔ 05:10 Is that working for you?

    📲 06:02 Visit Cynthia at

    http://cynthiagustavson.com and find out more about her book, Bully! The Big Book About Bullies and the Bullied, at https://www.bloomingtwig.com/Authors/Cynthia-Gustavson.

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    7 mins
  • 17. How Change Helps Us Grow?
    Oct 5 2020

    😇 What makes us change from day to day? 0:57
    😮 The whole concept of change is about nurture. 1:44
    🎙️ Cynthia reads a poem 2:43
    🪕 Music has always been a big part of Cynthia's life. 6:02
    🎶 Music her Dad played opened a door to a whole another world to Cynthia. 7:18
    🤔 What heritage did you own that made you different from other people? 9:41
    🤔 Who or what shaped you as a teenager? 11:10
    🌳 Each decade brings fresh changes—positive and negative. 12:53
    🦄 'I used to be, but now I am' exercise. 16:00
    🌷 'I used to be a flower but now I'm a broken stem.' 17:15
    💟 I am now, but I will be. 19:03
    https://cynthiagustavson.com/books-music/

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    21 mins
  • 16. Who am I? # 2: About the soil
    Oct 2 2020

    🧩 Poetry is a puzzle, and I make up my rules. 01:14
    📖 A poem from the book "Conversing with God, poetry for pastoral counseling and spiritual direction." 2:05
    🐦 About the poem Catbird 1609 C 2:24
    😊 Cynthia reads a poem. 3:54
    🤓 Birds are so programmed. 5:40
    🌱 Exercise: What is growing on my soil? 7:20
    👨‍👩‍👧‍👦 Are our siblings growing in the same soil as we are? 10:04
    🤩 Exercise: using your name as an acrostic poem to describe yourself. 14:29

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    18 mins