In this special season finale, Serena Haines takes the stage at the Atlantic Sex Show for Just the Tip LIVE! Joined by producer Sarah MacLellan, the duo dives into some raw and unfiltered listener questions in real time—from hemorrhoids and anal fisting to sexual desire and starfish partners.

This live episode is a playful, shame-free deep dive into real intimacy and modern pleasure.

Serena dives into:

• Sex with a “starfish” partner (passivity vs reciprocity)
• Navigating anal play with hemorrhoids
• Anal fisting safety tips and lube recommendations
• Responsive vs spontaneous desire
• How to communicate a need for slower, more connected sex
• Managing libido loss in perimenopause and menopause
• Sex toys and gender inclusivity

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In this no-holds-barred mini-episode, Serena Haines rants about the overuse of pop-psychology buzzwords like narcissism, attachment styles, and love languages on social media. With humor and honesty, she invites you to think critically, stay curious, and stop letting TikTok diagnose your love life.

Serena dives into:

• Misuse of terms like narcissist and gaslighting
• Attachment styles and context-specific behavior
• Problems with love language expectations
• Dangers of labels and rigid self-diagnosis
• How to shift perspectives with curiosity
• Why every relationship is a mirror for growth

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Serena Haines is an intimacy & relationship expert and certified sexologist, helping individuals and couples learn, connect, and nurture their sexuality.

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Ever wondered why anal feels taboo even when it feels good?

In this episode of Intimacy Unlocked, Serena Haines dives headfirst into one of her favorite topics: anal sex.

From busting myths and releasing shame to covering the step-by-step basics of safe, pleasurable backdoor play, this episode is equal parts permission slip and practical guide.

Serena covers:

•Why anal sex is misunderstood and often linked to shame

•How to start anal play safely and pleasurably

•The role of relaxation and the nervous system in anal pleasure

•Lube: how much you really need and how to use it effectively

•Understanding anal anatomy (two sphincters and their function)

•Prep, hygiene, and clean-up tips (including toy safety and condoms)

•Prostate play and why straight men should care

•How to talk to your partner about anal (plus safe words)

•Feeling guilt around receiving but not giving anal

•Unlearning shame and internalized stigma

•Why anal sex can feel more intimate than vaginal sex

•Listener questions about bisexuality, fantasy, and boundaries

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Serena Haines is an intimacy & relationship expert and certified sexologist, helping individuals and couples learn, connect, and nurture their sexuality.

Learn more about her services at https://www.serenahaines.com/

Follow Serena on Instagram at @serena_haines

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What if the best sex of your life didn’t end in orgasm?

In this Just The Tip mini episode, Serena Haynes breaks down the pleasure scale—a powerful tool for anyone looking to deepen their sexual connection with themselves or a partner. It’s all about how to ride the wave of arousal without the pressure to climax. Whether you’ve struggled with orgasm, want to last longer, or just want to feel more, this episode reframes pleasure as a lived, sustained experience, not a finish line.

In 12 minutes you will learn:

• What the Pleasure Scale is and how to use it
• The benefits of staying at high arousal without climax
• How edging builds sexual stamina
• Edging techniques for solo and partnered play
• How breath and awareness can expand pleasure
• Why orgasm isn’t the only goal of good sex
• Reframing sexual “performance” into exploration
• Tools for lasting longer and feeling more connected

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Serena Haines is an intimacy & relationship expert and certified sexologist, helping individuals and couples learn, connect, and nurture their sexuality.

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Follow Serena on Instagram at @serena_haines

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What does it mean to be fully seen in your desires?

In this episode, Serena dives deep into the nuanced world of kinks, fetishes, and erotic identity. She answers listener questions and unpacks what happens when your desires go unmet in a relationship.You’ll walk away with clarity, practical tools and an emotional invitation to stay true to your erotic self. PLUS, listen to the end. Serena shares her own powerful and very personal story of erotic grief, and what it means to feel seen in your full sexual self.

Remember: that you are not too much. You are just awake.

Warning: This episode includes discussions of CNC (consensual non-consent). Please be mindful as you listen.

Topics covered:

•The difference between kinks and fetishes (and common misconceptions)

•How to know if a desire is part of your identity vs. a playful novelty

•When and how to talk to your partner about your kinks or fetishes

•Navigating mismatched erotic desires in long-term relationships

•How to ease a reserved partner into kink safely and supportively

•A beginner-friendly breakdown of BDSM

•Safer practices for erotic choking and communication around it

•Consensual Non-Consent (CNC): definitions, ethics, and entry points

•Aftercare: what it is and why it matters (for everyone)

•Personal reflections on erotic grief and unmet sexual desires

•Hormonal responses after sex and how they shape attachment and emotion

•The power of staying “big” in your desire, even when it feels hard

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Serena Haines is an intimacy & relationship expert and certified sexologist, helping individuals and couples learn, connect, and nurture their sexuality.

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In this mini “Just the Tip” episode of Intimacy Unlocked, Serena responds to a listener confession about solo pleasure feeling more like a task than a turn-on. If your self-pleasure practice feels flat, stale, or disconnected, you're not alone.. Serena's got the tips to bring back the spark. From switching up visual stimulation to exploring toys, touch, and prostate play, this episode is an invitation to reimagine masturbation as a full-body erotic ritual, not a rush job.

This episode covers:

• Why solo sex can feel boring
• The power of novelty in self-pleasure
• Male vs. female gaze in porn
• Erotic massage and full-body touch
• Using toys and lube for men
• Exploring prostate and perineum play
• Changing up timing and position
• Reframing masturbation as ritual

Learn more about The Pleasure Pods—the new luxury in intimate care at thepleasurepods.com/

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Join the webinar "Menopause in the Bedroom - Breaking Barriers to Better Sex" with Amanda Otterman and Serena Haines on Tuesday, May 20th.

Buy tickets here

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Serena Haines is an intimacy & relationship expert and certified sexologist, helping individuals and couples learn, connect, and nurture their sexuality.

Learn more about her services at https://www.serenahaines.com/

Follow Serena on Instagram at @serena_haines

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Has your sex drive vanished overnight? You’re not alone. But you’re also not broken.

In this raw and reassuring episode, Serena Haines dives into what no one tells you about perimenopause and menopause. From the longer-than-you-think list of unexpected symptoms, to understanding the disconnect between your brain and your body, Serena covers it all. This one’s for every woman navigating the quiet chaos of hormonal changes, and for the partners trying to keep up.

You’ll hear about:

• How Pleasure Pods are changing the game for women navigating dryness and discomfort
• How to know if you’re in perimenopause (spoiler: you probably are)
• What perimenopause really does to your body and mood
• The real, emotional impact of hormonal changes on connection and confidence
• The art of warming up your erotic engine
• Why self-pleasure and lubrication are acts of reclaiming, not just coping
• How to talk to your partner when sex feels different—or difficult
• Learning to love the evolution, rather than fighting it

Menopause doesn’t mean the end of pleasure. It’s an opportunity to unlock a new way of experiencing it.

Learn more about The Pleasure Pods—the new luxury in intimate care at thepleasurepods.com/

Shop The Pleasure Pods on Amazon Canada.

Join the webinar "Menopause in the Bedroom - Breaking Barriers to Better Sex" with Amanda Otterman and Serena Haines on Tuesday, May 20th.

Buy tickets here

Have a juicy confession or burning question?

Submit it through our anonymous form or send in a voicemail!

Serena Haines is an intimacy & relationship expert and certified sexologist, helping individuals and couples learn, connect, and nurture their sexuality.

Learn more about her services at https://www.serenahaines.com/

Follow Serena on Instagram at @serena_haines

Follow Intimacy Unlocked Podcast on Instagram at @intimacyunlockedpod

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Curious about opening up your relationship? In this candid Just the Tip mini-episode, Serena breaks down what needs to be in place before exploring non-monogamy—emotionally, relationally, and practically. From boundaries and consent to jealousy and communication, consider this your open-relationship starter pack for how to open up without blowing up.

In10 minutes, Serena covers:

• The real meaning of “opening up” (beyond sex)
• Why a solid relationship foundation is key
• Boundaries vs. ultimatums
• Consent culture in open spaces
• Managing jealousy and emotional regulation
• Low-pressure ways to start exploring

Join us for our Dying For Sex Group Chat discussion about the powerful docuseries on Wednesday, April 30th at 7pm AST. Click here for the zoom link.

Have a juicy confession or burning question?

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Serena Haines is an intimacy & relationship expert and certified sexologist, helping individuals and couples learn, connect, and nurture their sexuality.

Learn more about her services at https://www.serenahaines.com/

Follow Serena on Instagram at @serena_haines

Follow Intimacy Unlocked Podcast on Instagram at @intimacyunlockedpod

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