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Is This Normal or Not?

Is This Normal or Not?

Written by: Renee Yvonne
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You know those questions you've been too nervous to Google at 2 a.m.? The ones about sex after 40, disappearing desire, menopause, andropause, or why you and your partner seem more like roommates than lovers? Yeah, we're talking about all of that here. Hosted by Certified Sex Counselor and Chief Pleasure Officer Renée Yvonne, every episode brings you medical truth, actual science, and the kind of grown-folks humor that makes you feel seen, not judged. No shame. No awkwardness. Just honest conversations about what's really happening in your body and your bedroom. This is your space!Renee Yvonne Relationships Social Sciences
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  • I need to kindly talk to my partner about softer erections. Is this normal or not?
    Dec 19 2025

    Summary


    In this conversation, Renée Yvonne addresses the sensitive topic of softer erections in relationships, emphasizing the importance of open communication and emotional safety. She discusses the fears and misconceptions surrounding this issue, encouraging couples to talk about their feelings and needs. Renée highlights that softness is not a failure but a signal for change, and that discussing these changes can deepen intimacy and trust between partners. She offers practical advice for initiating these conversations and fostering a supportive environment for both partners.


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    12 mins
  • I want more foreplay since I've turned 40. Is this normal or not?
    Dec 15 2025

    Summary


    In this conversation, Renee Yvonne discusses the importance of foreplay for men over 40, emphasizing that it is not only normal but essential for enhancing sexual experiences. She explains the physiological changes that occur with age, the significance of emotional connection, and the exploration of various erogenous zones. The discussion highlights how foreplay can lead to better sexual satisfaction and deeper intimacy, encouraging a shift in perspective about its role in sexual encounters.


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    12 mins
  • My erection is disappearing. Is that normal or not?
    Dec 13 2025

    In this episode, Renee Yvonne addresses the common concern of men experiencing softer erections as they age.

    She normalizes this change, explaining that it is a natural part of growing older and does not signify a loss of masculinity or desire. The conversation delves into the physiological changes that affect erections, including blood flow, hormonal shifts, and the importance of emotional safety in intimate relationships.

    Renee encourages listeners to embrace these changes and explore new ways to connect with their partners, emphasizing that pleasure can evolve rather than diminish with age.

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    12 mins
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